Isinqumo sika thutha Sekuvele kunzima ukuthatha, futhi uma kulokhu ungeza umndeni futhi ngaphezu kwalokho amanye amadodana noma amadodakazi akho ayintsha, khona-ke izinto ziba nzima kakhulu. Qonda ukuthi kunzima kumuntu osemusha ukwamukela ukushiya abangane bakhe esikoleni, indawo yakhe yokudlala nokunethezeka, umndeni wakhe, igumbi lakhe.
Ukuze ukudlula kwe- Ukuthuthela kwelinye izwe nezingane ezisencane kuya ngokuthwala, siyazivumela ukukunikeza okuthile amathiphu.
Ungawethula kanjani umqondo wokufuduka
Isikhathi esimaphakathi esithathwayo ukuhlela ukudluliswa siphakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-6 nezingu-9, kuya ngezwe ofuna ukuya kulo nesikhathi salo sonyaka. Uma sinqume ukushintsha, kufanele sethule lesi sinqumo ezinganeni zethu njengento ehlangene, inqunywe ngabazali bobabili, futhi wenze izindaba zikhange.
Les sizokhuluma ngomdlandla Wendawo, isikole, abangane bakhe, amathuba okuzijwayeza umdlalo awuthandayo, amasayithi emvelo nawezokuvakasha angawavakashela. Kubalulekile futhi ikakhulukazi esimweni sokuba ingane ibenze babe yingxenye yezinqumo, kufanele ulalele umbono wabo, nokuthi babambe iqhaza ekukhetheni isikole noma ezinye izinto.
Kumele futhi kugcizelelwe ukuthi, ngenxa yobuchwepheshe, uzokwazi ukuxhumana nabo bonke abangane bakho. Xoxa nabo, yenza izinkomfa zevidiyo, ngenkathi uhlangana nabantu abaningi abavela kwamanye amazwe nakwamanye amasiko. Ukuxhumana njalo nomndeni nabangane kuzokusiza ukuthi wabelane ngolwazi lwakho ezweni elisha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma usezweni elisingethe, basize ukwenza khumbula ngenjabulo isiko lemvelaphi, lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ungakhohlwa futhi wazi ngakho.
Izinyathelo zangaphambi kokufuduka
Kukhona uchungechunge lwezinyathelo zangaphambilini osuvele uzithatha lapho uthuthela kwelinye izwe, ufuna isikole, ifulethi, umsebenzi uma kungekhona ukufuduka, ukwazi impilo, ulimi ... ngamafuphi, wonke lowo mhlaba ukuthi uma kuwena Kukhulu ucabange ngomuntu osemusha. Uma usuvele udlula esigabeni se- ushintsho esimweni somzimba nangokomzwelo, futhi engeza ushintsho lwesikhala. Yiba nesineke ngaye, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukukhiqiza iziqephu zokungazethembi nokuzethemba okuphansi.
Kwabasebasha kunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvalelisa kubangani bakho. Mabenze iphathi, bavalelise kahle, bahambe nabo, noma yini abayithandayo, ukuze bakhumbule lezo zikhathi ngenjabulo.
Mazise njalo ngezinqumo ozithathayo. Mnike ithuba futhi ukhulume naye ngesikole, umhlobiso wendlu, ukuthi yini afuna ukuhamba nayo ohambweni, lokhu kuzomenza azizwe eyingxenye yalolu hlelo futhi kuzokwenza lula ubuhlobo nabazali. Mtshele ukuthi enze eminye imisebenzi, intsha ihlukile ukuthola izindawo zokuzivocavoca ezihamba phambili kule ndawo, izitolo ezidayisa izincwadi eziningi noma izindawo ezivakashelwe abantu abadumile.
Thatha le nqubo njengokuthile okuhle kuwo wonke umndeni
Noma ngabe yisiphi isimo esiholela ekutheni uthuthe, kuhle ukuthi uphile kusuka ku- ithuba. Ukuze uzinothise ngolwazi, isiko, ulimi, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, phila inqubo njengethuba ukwakha ubuhlobo obubalulekile phakathi kwezingane nabazali. Ngaphandle kwalokho, lezi zithandani zizophila nezimo ezintsha lapho kuzodingeka zivumelane nezimo.
Ukufakwa ezweni elisha, inqubo ye ukuzivumelanisa namasiko, ukuthi umuntu ngamunye ucabanga ngokuhlukile unesikhathi sakhe. Kunezikhathi lapho intsha ingawela ku ukuhlubukaKulokhu, lalelisisa imibono yabo. Sekuyisikhathi sokwazi ngobungani namathonya amasha angena empilweni yakho.
Uma ususezweni elisha, kubalulekile qala kabusha imikhuba nemikhuba emihle ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ngesikhathi sokulala, izinhlobo zokudla, imisebenzi yangaphandle. Uma imiphumela yezifundo iguquka, ingaba ngcono noma ibe yimbi, ikuthathe njengenselelo, futhi iqinise okuhle kwesimo.