Iselula iyithuluzi elijwayelekile emakhaya kuyo yonke imindeni nasemaphaketheni abantu abaningi. Umakhalekhukhwini usuphenduke ithuluzi elisemqoka empilweni yalo mphakathi futhi, ngeshwa, sekuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi izingane zikhulume nabazali bazo, ngenkathi zona zigxile, zibuka izikrini zazo ezingamaselula. Sekuyisitha sokuzalela lapho sisetshenziswa ngokweqile.
Laba bazali yibo kamuva abazikhathaza ngesikhathi izingane zabo ezisichitha phambi kwezikrini, kodwa-ke… yisibonelo okufanele sifundise ngaphezu kwegama. Iselula iyisiphazamiso somzali maqondana nokukhulisa izingane zakhe futhi ingumbulali wesikhathi somndeni osezingeni eliphakeme.
Izingane zifuna kanzima nsuku zonke (okuzibonakalisa ngokuziphatha okubi) ukuthi sixhuma nazo ngokunqamula ocingweni lweselula. Badinga ukuthi abazali babo baxhumane nezidingo zabo zomzimba nezingokomzwelo ngoba ngaleyo ndlela kuphela lapho bezokwazi ukuzwa ukuthi basemndenini.
Abazali kufanele bacabange ngesikhathi abasichitha nezingane zabo nokuthi basisebenzisa nini, babheke ukuthi bakwenza kanjani. Ingabe yisikhathi sekhwalithi ngempela, noma niyabloma nenza ezinye izinto esikhundleni sokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye nenza imisebenzi ehlangene? Abazali kufanele babe yisibonelo esihle kakhulu ekusetshenzisweni kobuchwepheshe obusha futhi into yokuqala okufanele bayenze ukubabeka eceleni ukuze bachithe isikhathi nomndeni futhi bajabulele izingane zabo.
Kulezi zinsuku, lapho abazali benenkinga yokuthola isikhathi sokuba ngabazali, lokhu kuzokwenza imibhangqwana ingazinzi futhi izovela kokubili kubantu abadala nasezinganeni, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ube nezingane zakho isikhathi esithile usuku ngalunye ukuze ungazijabuleli noma ube ndawonye kodwa ngaphandle kokuchitha isikhathi esezingeni elifanele. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma unezingane zakho, noma ngabe zinde kangakanani, kufanele uzinake ngokuphelele ... bayayidinga ukuze ithuthuke futhi nawe ujabule.