Ngisho nasekhulwini lama-XNUMX, udaba lwebhalansi yempilo yomsebenzi lusesekude ukufinyelelwa. Kunenchubekelembili lencane leyentiwe kulendzawo, kepha nanobe kunjalo, labasikati labanyenti abasakakwati kubuyisana nemisebenti yabo nemindeni yabo. Ngomuzwa wokuthi kufanele bakhethe eyodwa noma enye, necala eliza nayo. Kungakho namhlanje sizokhuluma ngokubuyisana nomsebenzi nezingane ezingenacala, ngangokunokwenzeka.
Abesifazane ababona abesifazane abangaphezu kwamandla
Abesifazane bacelwa ukuba babe superwoman, ukuthi sisebenza sengathi asinazo izingane nokuthi sinakekela izingane zethu sengathi asinamsebenzi. Akunakwenzeka lokho! Ukuzenza sithwale leso sisindo, ngaphezu kokungcwatshwa, kuzakhela okulindelwe esingenakukufinyelela. Ngakho-ke kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuzizwa sinecala ngoba asisoze saphelela kukho konke, asiwona amaqhawekazi, singabantu.
Futhi emsebenzini asikwazi ukuba namahora aguquguqukayo futhi abesifazane abaningi kufanele basebenzise amahora ancishisiwe okusebenza ukuze bakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nemindeni yabo, nokwehla kwemali engenayo nemiphumela emsebenzini wabo.
Zibeke endaweni ehambelana nawe
Awuyena owesifazane ovelele, noma amandla angaphezu kwavamile. Ingabe umuntu onamandla alinganiselwe okufanele usabalalise phakathi kokuphuthuma nokubalulekile. Kepha khumbula njalo kulowo mandla ukushiya okuncane ngokwakho. Sifana nebhethri elinamandla athile. Kwenzekani lapho ibhethri liphela? Yebo, kufanele uyikhokhise, akunjalo? Yebo, nathi. Sidinga ukuvuselela amabhethri, phumula, chitha imizuzwana embalwa ngosuku futhi uzinikeze indawo esiyifanele.
Ngoba uma ungazinakekeli, luzofika usuku lapho uzosha khona futhi ngeke ufike ndawo. Umzimba wakho uzothi "kuze kube manje" futhi uzogula ukuze ukwazi ukuwulalela. Ukuze lokhu kungenzeki futhi uphile ungenacala, kufanele uzibeke ohlwini lwakho lokubekwa phambili. Thatha ngisho nemizuzu eyi-10 ngosuku, noma ngabe izingane zakho seziqedile ukulala. Noma uphethe ibhakede lokuhlanza elingcolile futhi nezitsha azigeziwe. Kuthule ukuthi ngeke baye ndawo, lowo mzuzu ungowakho, ka yenza izinto ezikunikeza intokozo ngokuzenza nje.
Lowo mzuzu wakho awukona ukuzicabangela wena, okuphambene nalokho. Akufanele uzizwe unecala ngokufuna ukuchitha isikhathi nawe futhi wenze izinto ezikuthokozisayo. Kuyisenzo sokupha okokuqala ngawe, bese kuba komndeni wakho njengoba uzobe ukhululeke ngokwengeziwe futhi ujabule esikhundleni sokuwa futhi ube nesimo esibi. Ikona kufana nempilo engokwengqondo nengokomzwelo, kanye nokwehlisa amazinga oxinzelelo. Futhi uzokhiqiza kakhulu emsebenzini nasemakhaya.
Ungakhohlwa amaphrojekthi akho namaphupho akho
Lapho umuntu engumama kubonakala sengathi umhlaba wethu wangaphakathi uyama. Kufanele sizinikele amahora angama-24 ngosuku komama nakubanakekeli, umsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele osishiya nesikhathi esincane kithi. Kufezeka iphupho lokuthi kumele sijabulele, sithande futhi siqoqe izikhathi nemindeni yethu.
Kodwa wena awuyena nje umamaUbuye ube nezinye izindima: indodakazi, umngani, udadewenu… Ungowesifazane futhi, umuntu onezifiso zakhe, izifiso nezinhloso ongafanele uzikhohlwe. Awunaso isikhathi esiningi njengakuqala, kepha basekhona. Ungabaxoshi noma ucabange ukuthi awusoze wakwazi ukufinyelela kubo. Lokho kudala umuzwa wokukhungatheka, ubuhlungu nokuzizwa unembeza wokuzwa into efanayo, okuzokulethela ukuhlupheka kuphela. Unelungelo lokulandela amaphupho akho futhi ube ngumama, akuyona imingcele futhi akudingeki ukhethe eyodwa kuphela. Injabulo yakho yangaphakathi ilele ekufezeni amakhono ethu okufika lapho sifuna ukuya khona. Futhi umndeni wakho ungakuphelezela lapho usendleleni, akuyena okufanele uhlale ulandela indlela yabanye.
Ngoba khumbula ... ngokuhlela isikhathi kahle emsebenzini nasekhaya, kuzosisiza ukuvumelanisa umsebenzi nezingane ezingenacala.