Ukwehliswa kwengqondo ezinganeni kuyiqiniso futhi Kwenzeka kaningi kunokujwayelekile. Izingane zivame ukuphelelwa isithakazelo ekwenzeni izinto, bazizwa bekhangwa kancane ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukene kanye nokuntuleka komdlandla kufika. Empeleni, akudingekile ukuba kube nokukhathazeka, ngoba kuvamile ukuthi izingane zifike lapho zikhula, izithakazelo zazo ziyashintsha futhi zilahlekelwe isifiso sokwenza izinto ezithile.
Kodwa akufanele kuphuthelwe uma idonsa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, njengoba kufanele ihlolwe uma ngabe lokhu kwehliswa kwabantu kudalwa ezinye izizathu. Kusukela ngokuvamile ukuthi ukungabi nesithakazelo kuyinto uphawu oluyisixwayiso lwezinye izinkinga ezingokomzwelo noma ezengqondo nokuthi, yebo, kufanele ilashwe futhi ilawulwe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Nawa amanye amasu okuphatha ukukhushulwa kwezingane.
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Ukungabi nomuzwa wokuthi ukwenza okuthile ngezikhathi ezithile kuyinto evamile, kodwa lapho ukwehla kwezingane kuba umkhuba kungaba inkinga. Kokubili ezingeni lezemfundo, kanye nezinga lomuntu siqu noma lomndeni, kusukela kancane kancane ulahlekelwa isifiso noma isisusa sanoma yini. Isizathu singase sifihleke kwezinye izinkinga, njengokungazithembi, inkinga esikoleni, noma ubuvila.
Ukwehliswa kwabantu yikungabi lesifiso sokwenza imisebenzi yansuku zonke okumele umuntu ayenze nsukuzonke. Iwumshini wobuchopho, njengazo zonke ezilawula isimo somuntu. Lapho usebenza kakhulu, uzizwa ukhuthazeka ngokwengeziwe, uba nomdlandla owengeziwe wokwenza izinto, ukhula nesifiso sokuzithuthukisa. Ngendlela efanayo, lapho wenza kancane, ubuvila kanye nokuntuleka kokuhlaselwa okugqugquzelayo.
Indlela yokuphatha ukungabi nogqozi endodaneni yami
Ngokuvamile kuba yinkinga engasingathwa ekhaya, ngokushintsha imikhuba ethile, ukusebenza nengane ngokuqondile noma ukuyisiza ithole ugqozi lokwenza izinto. Kodwa lapho into elula kakhulu ingasebenzi, into efanele ukuyenza ukuya kuchwepheshe ukuze akwazi ukusebenza nengane futhi ngaleyo ndlela kuvimbele ukukhushulwa esikhundleni ekuphazamiseni ikusasa labo.
Ukubona ukuntuleka kogqozi ezinganeni, ungakwazi ukucabangela lezi zici.
- Umfana akafuni ukwenza lutho, ngisho nemisebenzi engangiyijabulela. Akuyona ngempela into yesikole, futhi akafuni ukudlala ngayo ngaphambili.
- Akukho okumjabulisayo, akakhangwa yimuphi umsebenzi.
- uyavilapha, kunzima kuye ukufeza noma yimuphi umsebenzi futhi uzobeka amahithi ayinkulungwane neyodwa ngaphambi kokuwenza ngaphandle kwesibopho.
- Wenza imisebenzi njengoba kudingeka ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze uqede maduze. Okusho ukuthi, akazizwa enentshisekelo yokwenza izinto kahle, noma ukwaneliseka kokuzithuthukisa ngokuthile akwenzile kahle.
La ubuvila esithathelwanayo futhi esingamahlalakhona uma ingasebenzi. Uma ingane ingayeka ukwenza izinto ngenxa yokuthi awukho umphumela omubi, maduzane uzoqala ukubona lokhu kuhunyushwa emabangeni aphansi, ukusebenza kabi, ubunzima obuhlobene nontanga kanye nesifiso esincane sokuthuthukisa ikusasa labo. Into eyingozi kakhulu uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi yonke into eqala izingane zisencane ihambisana nazo ekusaseni lazo.
Siza ingane yakho ukuthi ikhuthazeke ngokushintsha imikhuba ethile. Sebenzisa amathuluzi ukuthuthukisa isimo sabo sengqondo futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungavumeli ukuntula kwabo ugqozi kubuze ikusasa labo. Ngothando nangesineke ungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ihlehlise lesi simo, uyifundise imisebenzi emisha, mnike amathuluzi amkhuthaza ukuthi enze izinto. Uma unezinketho eziningi, maningi amathuba okuba uthole into oyithandayo, ungakhawuleli izinketho zakho.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ungavumeli isikhathi esiningi ukuba sidlule ukuze inkinga yokunciphisa ingane ingahlali isikhathi eside futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuyiphatha. Esibonakalisweni sokuqala iyasebenza futhi uma ungakwazi ukuyilawula, funa usizo lochwepheshe ukuze kuzuze ingane yakho.