Fundisa izingane zethu ukuzwa izwi lazo, zenze ukuthula

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Namuhla bengifunda amazwi kaSören Kierkegaard, isazi sefilosofi sekhulu le-XNUMX, owasho lokho ikhambi lesimanje lesifo kwaba: Dala ukuthula. Namuhla sabelana ngemibono lapho umcabango walesi sifilosofi saseDenmark usiholela khona.  Njengoba kuyiqiniso elingenakuphikwa.

Siphila ezweni elinomsindo, lapho ungapheli, lapho ungalaleli khona. Ngisho nezithombe zigcwele umsindo. Konke lokhu kusithinta emoyeni, kunjalo nakubantwana bethu. Kuyingozi kubo ukubayeka bakhule ngaphandle kokufunda ukudala ukuthula, bengazi ukuthi bangazilalela kanjani.

Dala ukuthula futhi ufunde ukulalela

Obunye bobubi obukhulu besikhathi sethu ukuthi sihamba ngesivinini esikhulu futhi asimi ukulalela. Kuyaqabukela sithola imininingwane ephelele bese sakha imibono esuselwa kuyo, siwela kaningi emaphutheni agwemekayo. Kwesinye isikhathi sikwenza nezindaba, ngaphandle kokubheka kahle imithombo, abanye, nabantu.

Kungani Ingane Yakho Ingakulaleli nokuthi Ungamyisa Kanjani

Kujwayelekile ukuthi sikhulume nezingane zethu noma abazali bethu, abangani noma imindeni, kubonakale sengathi sikunake kakhulu lokho abasitshela khona. Sisebenzisa ukulalela okusebenzayo futhi umthumeli abone ukuthi siyawuqonda wonke umyalezo wakhe. Kodwa… Kukangaki kwenzeka ukuthi ungakhumbuli ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti nabo ngoba ubungalaleli ngempela? Kwenzeka ngokuqhubekayo. Izwe lokujaha, ukucindezeleka, ukukhathala kwengqondo, uma singayeki, ingqondo yethu iyazinqamula iyodwa. Sidinga ukuthula, ngandlela thile.

Ukuzethemba, ukuzethemba nokuzethemba, izizathu ezintathu zokuzilalela

Lezi yizici ezintathu ezingeke zikhule ngokwanele uma umuntu engazi ukuthi angazilalela kanjani. Ziyizingcezu ezincane zepuzzle eziyinkimbinkimbi ezakha ubuntu bethu. Kodwa-ke, njengoba zincane, zibaluleke kakhulu. Njengoba nje singeke siqonde ubuso obugcwele uma iso lilahlekile, asikwazi ukuqonda umuntu ophelele futhi ojabulayo uma entula ukuzethemba noma encike emoyeni. Ngisho okuncane uma kushoda ukuqinisekiswa futhi ucabanga ukuthi umbono wakhe uyohlale ungaphansi kowomunye.

iphazili ubuso

Izingane zethu zidinga ukuzizwa ziphephile, ziphelele futhi zikhona el nenqubo ngokwanele ukuzithathela izinqumo. Njengoba nathi siyidinga, kwesinye isikhathi umsindo udala ukungabaza yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi sizakhele owethu umzuzu wokuthula.

Lalela okwakho, uma kungekho ukuthula, kubheke

Siyazi ukuthi kunzima, kule nqwaba yemisebenzi, amakilasi, imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole kanye nesixuku sabantu abasangana, kwesinye isikhathi kuba nzima impela. Kepha abangane bakho, umndeni wakho kanye nawe, ufanele ukuthula, lalela wena. Lokho kuzogwema ukungezwani nabanye. Izingane zakho zizozizwa zinakekelwa kakhulu futhi uzozizwa ungcono ngawe, ngoba ukulalela ngempela kuyisisekelo sokuxhumana nokuxhumana kubalulekile kumuntu. Kuhle kuwe nakwakho.

Dala ukuthula kwakho

Empeleni, kunzima kakhulu ukudala ukuthula phakathi kwawo wonke umsindo. Kepha ukuthula kwakho kungaba ingoma, kungaba umdwebo, noma umuntu. Noma yini ekuxhumanisa nawe, okungenamkhawulo, ngomcabango wakho noma ngezwi laphezulu. Lokho okukuxhumanisa nengaphakathi lakho, nesiqu sakho, okunikeza ukuthula nokucaca komcabango.

ukuzethemba ezinganeni


Kuyisifundo esinempilo ezinganeni zethu ukuthi sizifundise ngesibonelo ukunakekela ukuzinza kwazo ngokomzwelo. Mababone kithi ukuthi kuyini ukuhlala ulalela ukuthula kwethu, lokho okuholela ekutheni sizwe izwi lethu uqobo, ubuqiniso bamaphupho nezifiso zethu. Yilokhu okuzokhanyisa indlela yempilo yethu, okuzohlala kusiholela esinqumweni esihle kunazo zonke, noma okungenani esivumelana kahle nonembeza wethu. Kuyindlela yomlingo yokulala uzolile futhi ujabule ngokwenzayo, ngokwazi nokulwela lokho okwenza uzizwe waneliseke ngempela.

Ekugcineni, sonke kufanele silalele ukuthula ngezikhathi ezithile. Kufanele uthulise umsindo nawo wonke amazwi futhi uzwe ukuthula kokwenza okucabangayo, Ukuthi kunjani. Kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthula kwethu futhi sikudlulisele ezinganeni zethu.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.