Kusuka abancane futhi iminyaka eminingi ogogo bethu nobabamkhulu basebenzise ukumaka a umehluko phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana. Umehluko ekuziphatheni obekufanele babe nakho, njengegama elithi "Izingane azikhali", impela sesike sakuzwa ngesinye isikhathi, lapho imizwa kuthiwa yenziwa ngabesifazane nasezinganeni ubulukhuni nesibindi.
Kubaluleke kakhulu kulezi zikhathi ukuthi singavumeli lolu hlobo lwento lungene imfundo wezingane, dala ifayela le- umhlaba olinganayo nangaphandle umehluko ocansini lapho kunikezwa khona amantombazane ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi umsebenzi wabo lapho sebekhulile kuzoba ukunakekela indlu nokuba nezingane. Kubukeka kuyinto eshiywe ngemuva kepha singamangala ukubona isibalo semindeni esabeka lo mehluko.
Kusuka indlu ngokuhlanganyela nesikole esinomsebenzi woku fundisa kubafana namantombazane kusuka ekulinganeni. Kubiza kakhulu ukungangeni okwehlukaneni kwezocansi kwazise kusukela sisebancane sibekwe uchungechunge lwe izici okungamantombazane noma abafana. Kujwayelekile kakhulu ukuthi uma uthenga i- ithoyizi Ezinganeni, kukhethwa imidlalo yezimpi, amabhola, izimoto ... futhi uma kungezamantombazane, onodoli, amakalishi ezingane, amakhishi ayathengwa ... njengemibala, esiyinikeze imibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, eluhlaza okwezingane nasezinganeni ama-roses, ama-lilac kumantombazane.
Kungenxa yalokhu okungenhla okufanele sikunikeze kusuka ekhaya a imfundo engahlukanisiwe ezinganeni, akuvamile ukuthi intombazane icele ibhola noma imoto yamakhosi noma umfana adlale ngonodoli ngoba phakathi kwabo nangesikhathi lapho bengenayo indima ehlukile yezocansi, imoto ingasetshenziswa yibo bobabili enye nenye. enye.
Ukusatshalaliswa kwe- umsebenzi wasendlini Kuyindlela enhle yokuthi izingane ezindadlana ziqale ukungasunguli imisebenzi eshiwo amantombazane kuphela, kusukela ebuncaneni bobabili kufanele benze imisebenzi imisebenzi efanayo, njengokuhlanza igumbi, ukugeza izitsha noma ukufundisa abafana namantombazane uku-ayina izingubo (ezindala).
Konke lokhu kunjalo kuhle ukuze kusasa amantombazane, ngokwesibonelo, angavunyelwe ukuthi "asetshenziswe" ngabafana abathile lapho kuyibo okufanele benze ukudla, bahlanzeke ... kepha kunalokho ukuthi sibe nesizukulwane lapho lezo zimilo machismo shiya ngemuva.