Abazali namuhla bangazizwa bekhungathekile yiyo yonke imisebenzi nezibopho okufanele bazenze phakathi nosuku. Emikhayeni eminingi bobabili ubaba nomama basebenza ngaphandle (noma ngaphakathi) ekhaya futhi lokhu kungadala ukuthi imisebenzi yemisebenzi inqwabelane kanye namahora okudlula ngokushesha okukhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi, mhlawumbe benganakile, basebenzisa kabi ithelevishini ukuze banakekele izingane zabo.
Kakhulu kangangoba kubukeka sengathi kweminye imizi abazali basebenzisa ithelevishini sengathi iyikhangaru elenziwa ngomshini ukugcina izingane zabo zijabule ngenkathi benza eminye imisebenzi ephathelene nempilo yansuku zonke. Ukuhlukunyezwa ngethelevishini akukuhle ezinganeni, ikakhulukazi uma zingaphansi kwezinyanga eziyi-18. Kuyadingeka ukugwema ithelevishini ezinganeni ezingaphansi kwezinyanga eziyi-18, ngani?
Abazali bayamangala lapho ochwepheshe bezempilo njengodokotela bezingane bebeluleka ukuthi izingane akufanele zibuke ithelevishini noma zisebenzise izinhlelo ezihambayo ngaphambi kwezinyanga eziyi-18 (namuhla, abazali basebenzisa lobu buchwepheshe besebancane kakhulu…). Izingane eziningi ezinonyaka owodwa sezivele zisebenzise umakhalekhukhwini noma zabuka ithelevishini, Noma izinyanga ezimbalwa nje!
Ukukhula kobuchopho bezingane
Abazali abaningi bacabanga ukuthi abenzi lutho olubi ngoba ingane yabo ibonakala inentshisekelo kuzikrini futhi ibungazwa! Kubukeka sengathi imibala egqamile nokunyakaza kwesikrini kudonsa ukunaka kwabo ngendlela yokuthi babonakale beluthisiwe, kepha iqiniso ukuthi ubuchopho babo abancane abakwazi ukunikeza incazelo kulezo zithombe abazibona ezikrinini.
Kuthatha cishe izinyanga eziyi-18 ukuthi ingqondo yengane ikhule ukuze izimpawu ezibona esikrinini zibe nencazelo ethile. Izingane nezingane ezincane kufanele zifunde futhi zikhule ngokuxhumana nabantu abasendaweni ezungezile. Uma kukhulunywa ngempilo yansuku zonke, izingane nojahidada kumele zifunde ngokuthinta izinto, ukujabulela iqiniso, ukubona ubuso, nokuzwa amazwi wabathandekayo bazo.
Ubuchwepheshe obusha bungafundisa izingane ukuthinta isikrini, kepha amakhono angempela atholakala ngokufunda emhlabeni wangempela. Kungakho izingane ezingaphansi kwezinyanga eziyi-18 kufanele zigweme ukuxhumana nezikrini, okusho ukuthi, ngezinhlelo zombili zethelevishini nezamaselula. Futhi lapho sebekhulile, kufanele ube nokulawula okuphelele kwabazali.
Kungani kufanele kugwenywe
Uma lapho izingane nezingane zijabule kangaka ngezikrini, kuphi ukulimala ngempela? Kungani ochwepheshe bezempilo kanye nabezemfundo beluleka ngokuqinile ngokungasebenzisi la madivayisi ezinganeni ezincane kangaka? Uma ukubeka ingane yakho kuthelevishini encane ukuze ukwazi ukugeza izitsha buthule noma ukwazi ukukhuluma nocingo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, kungani kubi kangaka?
Ukusetshenziswa kwethelevishini noma kwesikrini ngaphambi kwezinyanga eziyi-18 kungaba nemiphumela emibi ekukhuleni kolimi lwezingane, kanye nasekuthuthukiseni amakhono okufunda nenkumbulo yesikhashana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingasiza futhi ezinkingeni ezinemikhuba yokulala ngisho nokugcinwa kokunakwa.
Ubuchopho buthuthuka ngokususelwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo nokubuka ithelevishini kunjengokungathi besikhuluma ngokudla okungenamsoco komzimba, kepha kulokhu, kungaba yingqondo yezingane nezingane ezisencane. Inkinga ukuthi izingane zenzani uma zibuka ithelevishini: LUTHO. Uma izingane zibuka ithelevishini azenzi lutho. Ingqondo yakho iyalala bese inqamuka kokungokoqobo. Izingane zenzelwe ukufunda ngokuxhumana nabanye abantu.
Izingane zidinga ukubukeka kobuso kwabanye, zizwa imisindo yezwi, zifunde ukukhuluma komzimba, zijabulele imizwa esezandleni zabazali bazo ... Lapho ithelevishini ivuliwe noma kusetshenziswa noma iyiphi idivayisi enesikrini, lokhu kuxhumana okudingeka kakhulu , ame ngokuphelele.
Ingane ifunda futhi iyakujabulela ukuthinta amapani ekhishi phansi kunokubuka okwenzeka esikrinini. Noma ngabe umsindo uyakukhathaza, kungcono kakhulu ekukhuleni kwengane yakho. Ngisho nokukhonjiswa ngemuva kwethelevishini yize kungekho muntu obukelayo nakho kuyalimaza ekukhuleni kolimi lwengane. Njengokungathi lokho bekunganele, uma ingane ibuka ithelevishini noma isebenzisa amadivayisi eselula ngaphambi kwezinyanga eziyi-18 noma ihlukunyezwa ngemuva kwalesi sikhathi, bayoba nezinkinga zokunaka lapho beneminyaka engu-7.
Ngemuva kweminyaka emibili
Lapho izingane zidlula umkhawulo weminyaka emibili, izinto zingashintsha, kepha futhi zizodinga ukulawula okuhle kwabazali ukuze zijabulele ukukhula okuhle. Kusukela eminyakeni emibili, izingane zingafunda amakhono athile kuthelevishini noma ezinhlelweni zemfundo. Kunezinhlelo ezenzelwe izingane kuphela, ukuzifundisa ukufunda njengezincwadi, izinombolo ... Ngakho-ke ukwandisa ulwazi oluthile lolimi, izibalo, isayensi, ukuxazulula izinkinga, isimilo somphakathi, njll.
Kulezi zimo kubalulekile futhi ukuthi abazali bangayisebenzisi kabi ithelevishini nokuthi bangalokothi bayithathe njengomuntu ogcina izingane zabo. Ngokufanelekile, abazali kule minyaka babuka ithelevishini nezingane zabo, baphawule ngalokho abakubukayo futhi bakhethe ngokuphelele okuqukethwe izingane ezikubukayo kuthelevishini noma ezikusebenzisa kuselula. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho kuzokwazi khona ukwenza lokho okubonwa izingane esikrinini kube kuhle kubo, esikhundleni sokulala ubuchopho babo.
Abazali kufanele bakhawulele ukusetshenziswa kwezikrini kusuka ezinyangeni eziyi-18 kuye eminyakeni emi-5 kuye ehoreni elilodwa ngosuku hhayi ngaphezulu. Izingane kufanele zifunde ukusebenzisana ngezinye izindlela nomhlaba wangempela ukuze zikhulise ngokwanele wonke amakhono adingekayo ekukhuleni ngempumelelo. Isikhathi esingakanani izingane zakho esizichitha phambi kwesikrini?