Amabele, amabele, amabele... Akusho lutho ukuthi uqamba liphi igama, ukukhulelwa cishe kuqinisekisa ushintsho ekubunjweni kwayo nobukhulu. Kodwa njengoba nje odokotela begcizelela ukuthi konke ukukhulelwa kuhlukile, akukho okulindelekile okujwayelekile mayelana nokuthi amabele akho azokhula yini phakathi nokukhulelwa. Noma kunjalo, cishe ungalindela ukuthi amabele akho akhulelwe azoba makhulu kunangaphambili ngaphambi kokuba kuvele induku eyengeziwe ekuhlolweni kokukhulelwa. Noma cha?
Amahomoni okukhulelwa, i-progesterone ne-chorionic gonadotropin yomuntu, abangela ukwanda kwevolumu yegazi, okubangela ukuthi izicubu zebele zivuvuke. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kwanda kungakhuphuka osayizi ababili bakabhodi phakathi nezinyanga ezine zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi awukho umthetho ojwayelekile uma kuziwa ekubikezeleni ukuthi amabele akho azokwanda kangakanani yowesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Kungani ibele lami lingakhuli ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
ukwanda kwebele ngokuvamile kwenzeka ezinyangeni ezintathu noma ezine zokuqala zokukhulelwa, kodwa lokhu kungahluka kuye ngowesifazane oyedwa. Labo besifazane asebevele benebele elikhulu bangase bangaboni noma yiluphi ushintsho, kodwa bangase bathole ukwanda okuphawulekayo. Nokho, ngokuvamile ukudumazeka kuvela kolunye uhlangothi.
Abesifazane abanamabele amancane bavame ukulindela ukuveza i-cleavage ethile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kodwa lokho kwanda ngokuvamile akufiki. Uma kungekho shintsho olwenzekayo, ngokuvamile kuyindaba yokukhathazeka. Nokho, kwezinye izikhathi, abesifazane abanamabele amancane baba nokwanda okukhulu. Akunakwenzeka nhlobo izinguquko ezizobangelwa ukukhulelwa emizimbeni.
Ngizokwazi yini ukuncelisa kahle uma amabele ami engandi ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe?
Kulokhu, kuyiqiniso ukuthi usayizi akusho lutho. Nakuba isifuba sakho sihlala sincane ngisho nangemva kokubeletha, ikhono lokuncelisa likhona. Ngakho-ke, ngokuqinisekile uzokwazi ukwanelisa izidingo zomsoco wengane yakho. Ngakho uma iphupho lakho kuwukuncelisa ingane yakho, ungakwenza kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubukhulu bebele lakho. Ngakho ungakwazi ukujabulela isikhathi sokuncelisa nengane yakho ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Umzimba wabo bonke abesifazane ulungiselelwe lesi sikhathi, yethemba ukuthi ungakwenza.
Nokho, uma unokungabaza ungaxoxa nodokotela wakho ngezinto ezikukhathazayo mayelana nokuncelisa ibele. Kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi ayikho inkinga yokondla ingane ngokwemvelo enamabele amancane. Uma unentshisekelo, bazokutshela futhi ngezinye izindlela zokudla ukuze wehlise umoya ngokondla indodana noma indodakazi yakho.
Ubukhulu abubalulekile kangako
Njengoba sesibonile, Kwabesifazane abaningi, ukukhulelwa kusho ukwanda kwenkomishi kabhodi ngaphandle kokuhlinzwa.. Lokhu kwanda kungaqhubeka isikhathi eside ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana. namabele ingase ibe bucayi kakhulu noma bangalimaza ngisho, ikakhulukazi phakathi nezigaba zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Amahomoni okukhulelwa, njenge-estrogen ne-progesterone, asebenza ukuze akhe izicubu zamafutha engeziwe, andise ukugeleza kwegazi, futhi abangele ezinye izinguquko ebeleni ukuze azilungiselele ukondla umntwana lapho ezalwa.
Nokho, akubona bonke omama abazobe beba nezinguquko ezinkulu emabeleni abo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ochwepheshe abazi kahle ukuthi kungani, kodwa kungase kuhlobene nenani lamahomoni athinta amabele. Kodwa asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka, ngoba uma amabele akho engakhuli ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ngokuqinisekile azokhula ngemva kokubeletha, lapho ubisi lwakho lungena.
Ukuthi amabele awakhuli ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akuyona into eyinqaba. Empeleni, kunenkolelo evamile yokuthi uma amabele engakhuli kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuwuphawu lokuthi uzoba nomfana.. Ukuthi uyakholelwa kulezi zibikezelo noma cha, akungabazeki ukuthi uma sekwedlule isizukulwane ngesizukulwane kungenxa yokuthi lokhu kukhathazeka bekulokhu kukhona. Okucacayo wukuthi yinto okuthi nakuba ingalindelekile, ingenzeka futhi ingabi wuphawu lokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle.