Siphila ezweni eliya liguquka, lapho izingane zikhula khona ngokuyekethisa kakhudlwana nokungabi namandla wobushiqela, Kepha empeleni, konke ukweqisa kungaba yingozi efanayo nasezinganeni. Ukuze abantwana babe nobuntwana obuhle futhi bakhule benesibopho, bazodinga imithetho nemikhawulo, kunjalo, kepha ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphakathi kwesiyalo esihle nenhlonipho ezinganeni, ngoba bangabantu abafanelwe yinhlonipho yakho kuzo zonke izici.
Njengobaba noma umama, kufanele ucabange ukuthi izingane zakho kufanele zikulalele ezintweni zonke, kepha empeleni, Okudingwa izingane zakho uthando lwakho olungenamibandela, futhi bazokunaka kakhudlwana uma nje ubahlonipha. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho beyoqonda ukuthi imithetho nemikhawulo ikhona okufanele kuhlangatshezwane nayo, inqobo nje uma ungabaphoqi ngendlela yokujezisa.
Imithetho inikeza ukuphepha
Izingane zidinga imithetho nemikhawulo ukuze zizizwe ziphephile, zazi ukuthi yini elindeleke kuzo ngezikhathi zonke, ukwazi ukuthi umndeni ungummangali lapho wonke umuntu efuna okuhle kuwo wonke umuntu, kepha ngabazali abafundisa indlela yokuphila impilo. Ngalo mqondo, abazali banomthwalo omkhulu wemfanelo ngoba kufanele babe yisibonelo esihle kakhulu ezinganeni zabo, ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kuyadingeka ukubhekela lokhu, kepha futhi, ukuthi uma ubanikeza imithetho eminingi kakhulu, unganciphisa intuthuko yabo. Akunandaba ukuthi izingane zakho zineminyaka emingaki noma uneminyaka emingaki, kunemithetho ethile edingwa yibo bonke abantwana ebuntwaneni babo ukuze babe ngabantu abadala abanokwethenjelwa.
Imithetho ethuthukisa ukuphepha
Izingane kufanele zifunde ukuzinakekela. Imithetho yezokuphepha ifaka ukuphepha emzimbeni nokuphepha ngokomzwelo. Ukuphepha ngokomzimba kungabhekana nezinto ezifana nokuthi: 'Ungagxumeli ifenisha engawa', noma futhi: 'Ungavuleli noma ngubani umnyango lapho umama eshawa'.
Ukuphepha ngokomzwelo kungafaka imithetho yasekhaya enjengokuthi, 'Sebenzisa amagama anomusa', 'Ungachaza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokukhombisa inhlonipho ngasikhathi sinye'. Lapho izingane zizizwa ziphephile, zikhululekile ukugxila emandleni abo ekuhloleni amathalente abo nendawo ezungezile.
Imithetho yokuziphatha
Kuyadingeka ukudala imithetho efaka izindinganiso ezinhle nokuziphatha okuhle ezinganeni. Isibonelo, abazali bangagxilisa ezinganeni zabo ukuthi zikhulume iqiniso noma zixolise lapho zenze okuthile okungalungile futhi zizisole ngokuzenza.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuze kugcinwe imithetho yokuziphatha, kuzodingeka ukuthi ube yisibonelo esifanele sokulandela le mithetho. Izingane zakho zizofunda okuningi ezenzweni zakho kunasemazwini akho. Ngalo mqondo, kuzofanele ucabange ngalokho okwenzayo nokuthi ukwenze kanjani ngaphambi kokucabanga ukuthi uzothini kubo.
Imithetho yokuthuthukisa imikhuba enempilo
Izingane zidinga onkhe kanye nezakhiwo. Ngale ndlela ungakha imithetho ekhuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ihlakulele imikhuba emihle yansuku zonke. Isibonelo, kuzofanele ufake ezinganeni zakho imikhuba emihle yenhlanzeko njengokugeza noma ukuxubha amazinyo, ukufaka izingubo ezingcolile kubhasikidi, ukufunda ukufaka imishini yokuwasha, njll.
Ngokwakha imizila enempilo yansuku zonke ekhaya, izimpi zamandla ziyancipha. Lapho izingane zazi ukuthi kufanele zilenge ijazi lazo lapho zifika ekhaya zivela esikoleni noma ukuthi kufanele zenze umsebenzi wesikole ngemuva nje kwesidlo sasemini, Ungakunciphisa ukuphikisana okuningi inqobo nje uma kunemiphumela ecacile yokungaziphathi kahle.
Imithetho yokwenza ngcono amakhono omphakathi
Kulungile ukuthi izingane zibe nobungane inqobo nje uma kungubungane obunempilo lapho izingane zingazizwa kahle futhi zibe ngokwazo nalabo bangane ezibazungezile. Kepha izingane zidinga nemithetho ezifundisa amakhono ezenhlalo. Ngokwesibonelo; 'Yabelana ngamathoyizi akho nomfowenu' noma 'Kufanele ulinde ithuba lakho', yizici eziyisisekelo ezifundisa izingane izindlela ezifanele zokuxhumana nabanye futhi ezizothuthukisa amasu angcono okuthola ubungani obunempilo.
Izingane ezindala zingadinga imithetho mayelana nezinto zabo zobuchwepheshe. Kuyadingeka ukumisa imithetho evimbela ukusetshenziswa kwalawa madivayisi. Isibonelo, izingane zingahle zazi ukuthi isikhathi sasemini noma isikhathi sedina kuzoba yizikhathi ezingenabo ubuchwepheshe nokuxhuma ngogesi ngoba bazibophezele kakhulu ekuxhumaneni nabantu ngalesi sikhathi. Kufanele futhi kube nezindawo zamahhala ze-inthanethi ekhaya nezikhathi ezithile zokusetshenziswa kwazo.
Imithetho yokuphila emhlabeni wangempela
Izingane nazo zidinga imithetho ezizisiza zilungele ukuba ngabantu abadala. Setha imithetho efundisa amakhono empilo azobasiza ukuthi basebenze kangcono uma sebephume ekhaya. Imithetho ecacile nosizo ingane yakho ezoludinga ukuthuthukisa la makhono kuzoxhomeka kakhulu kubungane bengane yakho. Ezinye izingane zinamathuba amaningi okuthi ziziphathe kahle futhi zihlale zikhuthazekile ngomsebenzi wazo wesikole, kanti ezinye izingane zidinga imithetho eyengeziwe ukuze zikwenze.
Isibonelo, ukubeka imithetho mayelana nomsebenzi wasendlini nemali kusiza ekulungiseleleni izingane indawo yokusebenza. Ngalo mqondo, unganikeza izingane imisebenzi yasekhaya kanye nethuba lokuthola imali inqobo nje uma benza imisebenzi eyengeziwe engahlangene nemisebenzi yabo ejwayelekile (njengokugunda utshani). Udinga ukubafundisa ngemali ukuze bakwazi ukufunda ukonga nokusebenzisa imali ngokuhlakanipha. ukulungela kangcono ukukhokha izikweletu zabo njengabantu abadala.
Cacisa ngemithetho ukuze izingane zakho zikhule zikwazi ukuzimela
Yiba nohlu oluhlelekile lwemithetho ebhaliwe ekhaya lakho ngakho konke okunye okusemqondweni. Isibonelo, kungaba yimithetho yohlobo:
- Lungisa umbhede njalo ekuseni
- Hlanza ngokuphelele igumbi lokulala njalo ngoMgqibelo
- Ukwabelana ngezinto ekhaya
- Khuluma iqiniso njalo
Kufanele futhi ube nemithetho ethile yezimo ezithile kuye ngobuntu bezingane zakho. Noma ungenawo umthetho wokumemeza ekhaya, kungadingeka ukuthi utshele ingane yakho ukuthi yehlise ivolumu yezwi layo. Yonke imithetho kufanele ibe nesizathu esihle ngemuva kwayo, ngoba ukuphela kwendlela izingane ezingalalela ngayo: uma ziqonda ukuthi kungani kufanele. Ngaleyo ndlela bazofunda izifundo ezinhle zempilo.