Sisesha futhi sifunda ngemindeni kanye nezidingo ezahlukahlukene ezingaba nazo, sihlangabezane nodaba olubalulekile esifuna ukubhekana nalo: indlu yezingane ezikhethekile. Sizokwenza ngaphandle kokwahlulela, kodwa ukuhlinzeka ngemibono nokusekelwa kuleyo mindeni enezingane ezinezidingo ezithile ezikhethekile.
Ukuba nengane enezidingo ezikhethekile kumane kusho lokho indodana noma indodakazi yethu idinga usizo olwengeziwe ngenxa yenkinga yomzimba, yezokwelapha, engokomzwelo noma yokufunda.
Yamukela ingane yakho njengoba injalo futhi uyazise
Imindeni eminingi enezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo iqhutshwa ngamanani. Bakuthola kunzima ukucela usizo, bobabili kwamanye amalungu omndeni, abangani noma izikhungo futhi balwela ukusungula amabutho futhi bathulule wonke amandla amahle ukuze lezi zingane zithole impilo ezimele kakhulu.
Inqubo yokwamukela ukuba nengane enezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo iyi- inselelo kunoma ngubani. Masiqaphele ukuthi okulindelwe ngomunye kukweqiwe kulo mphakathi. Esizokusho kusobala: into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bazizwe bethandwa ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto, ukuthi baziswe ngokuthi bangobani hhayi ngoba bayikho. Ukuthembela kubo kudingekile kakhulu ekwamukelweni kwakho.
Umuntu ngamunye une- ijubane elihlukile lokuthuthuka kanti ukuqhathanisa nomunye kungubuhlungu. Kufanele sime sicabange ngokubaluleka komzuzu wamanje.
Eminye imindeni yezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zemfundo izithola sezimweni zenhlalo lapho "zizwa zinamahloni" ngokuziphatha kwengane yazo. Khohlwa ukuthi abanye abantu bacabangani. Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuzizwa ufakiwe futhi uyeke ukuya emicimbini yosuku lokuzalwa, ukuya ekuhambeni, ukuhlala ngokukhululeka. Lapha unemibono ethile yokuya eholidini naye.
Akusekho okubalulekile kuye noma kuye
Siyazi ukuthi kunzima kakhulu, kepha Ukubanika konke okusemandleni akho akuyona indlela engcono yokubalungiselela izimo ezinzima. Okufanele sikwenze njengabazali nemindeni imihlahlandlela yabo ukuze kamuva bazenzele yona. Ngikunika isibonelo.
Uma umfundisa ukugqoka ingubo, ukusebenzisa isipuni, noma ukuxubha amazinyo akhe, kwenze ngendlela ejwayelekile, okokuqala ube yisibonelo sakhe, bese usenza naye futhi uma ebonisa ubunzima Uyamsiza kancane kancane futhi uhoxisa lolu sizo kancane kancane. Lokhu kuzokwenza uzizwe uzethemba futhi uziqhenya.
Khumbula lokho Uyingane, usemusha, futhi uzokhula ngomlingiswa wakhe. Kufanele umnikeze inkululeko ebuzwa yinoma iyiphi ingane maqondana neminyaka yakhe. Lokhu kuzosiza ekuthuthukiseni amakhono akho.
Imfundo ekhethekile noma imfundo ebandakanya wonke umuntu
Umbono uthi into ebalulekile akuyona uhlobo lwesikhungo lapho kufundiswa khona. Namuhla kunomkhuba oqonde ezikoleni ezibandakanya wonke umuntu, lapho uhlelo lwezemfundo luguquguquka ngokwanele ukuzivumelanisa ngokugcwele nezidingo zangempela zengane oludingayo.
Into ebalulekile ukuthi ukwamukelwa kwemindeni, abangani, umphakathi. Isikole esibandakanya wonke umuntu ngeke sisize uma lokho kuhlolwa kungagcinwa ekilasini noma phesheya.
Ikharikhulamu yesikole efundiswayo, kungaba kulezi zikhungo ezikhethekile noma ezijwayelekile zemfundo, isuselwa ezinhlelweni zokufunda ezijwayelekile, ne isici sokuzivumelanisa nezidingo zomfundi ngamunye, kungaba ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo.
Ubudlelwano nezelamani
Ubudlelwano bobuzalwane bubaluleke kakhulu futhi buyisisekelo ngaso sonke isikhathi, bungenye ye- izibopho ezihlala isikhathi eside nokwehlukanisa kwabazali. Uma lokhu kubalulekile emindenini lapho enye yezingane inesidingo esikhethekile kubaluleke kakhulu.
Kubalulekile bika ukukhubazeka kwengane yakini, kukusiza ukuthi ubone isimo futhi uqondane naso. Ukwazi ukuxhumana nokudlala nengane yakini kuzonakha amanani abalulekile kini nobabili. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi umzalwane aveze imizwa yakhe futhi abelane ngayo, kusuka ekukhungathekeni, umona, ukwenqatshwa ...
Ubhuti kufanele ahlonishwe futhi waziswa emisebenzini yakhe nasezintweni azithandayo. Abazali kufanele futhi bamnikeze ukuzimela nokuzimela okungokwakhe. Ungumzalwane, hhayi umnakekeli, noma isibalo sikababa.