Izingane zikhula ngokushesha okukhulu, kangangokuba kwesinye isikhathi abazali abaze babone nokuthi ziguquka kanjani. Izingane nazo ziba yintsha ngendlela exakayo futhi lapho zisuka ePrayimari ziye eSekondari ushintsho luqala ukubonakala nasemakamelweni azo okulala. Uma ingane yakho izoqala isikole samabanga aphezulu, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuthanda kwayo sekuqale ukushintsha nokuthi izizwa ngathi 'ikhulile' ngakho-ke lokhu kuzobonakala nasekamelweni layo lokulala.
Akudingekile ukuthi ushintshe wonke umhlobiso wekamelo lokulala lomntwana wakho oqala isikole samabanga aphakeme, kepha mhlawumbe ukuhlelwa kabusha okuncane kuzohamba kahle ukuvumelanisa igumbi lokulala nezidingo zakhe. Kungakhathaleki ukuthi igumbi lokulala lihlanganyelwe noma ngazodwana, lingahlelwa kabusha ukuze ingane yakho izizwe ikhululekile lapho iphephela khona. Kepha ukwenze kanjani? Nayi eminye imibono.
Khuluma nendodana yakho
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ngaphambi kokucabanga ngokulungisa kabusha igumbi lokulala lengane yakho ukukhuluma ngalo naye, ngoba ikamelo lokulala ngeke lidingeke ukuthi lihlelwe kabusha nguwe, kepha kuzofanele akwenze. Uzoba usizo nomqondisi wabo. Uma indodana yakho inesibopho sokuhlelwa kabusha kwekamelo lakhe lokulala, uzokwazi ukusungula isixhumanisi naleli qiniso futhi ngenxa yalokho, isibopho azizwa ekamelweni lakhe lokulala sizokwanda.
Kufanele ukhulume nengane yakho ukuthola ukuthi ingabe ufuna ngempela noma uzizwa kunesidingo sokuhlela kabusha igumbi lakhe lokulala ukuze aqale lesi sigaba esisha empilweni yakhe: isikole esiphakeme. Kuyisigaba esibalulekile ezinganeni eziqala ubusha bazo ngoba zivamise ukushintsha isikhungo sazo semfundo, othisha ngisho nangezinye izikhathi, nabo ezifunda nabo. Bangazizwa bengaqiniseki ngalesi siqalo esisha futhi yingakho igumbi labo lokulala kufanele libe yisiphephelo sabo esikhulu nesingcono kakhulu, kanye nendawo yabo yokufunda kanye nendawo yokuphumula enhle yokugcwalisa amandla adingekayo ubusuku ngabunye.
Uma igumbi lokulala kwabelwana ngalo
Akukhathalekile ukuthi uhlanganyela ikamelo lakho lokulala nengane yakini endala noma encane kunengane yakho, okubalulekile ukuthi banesikhala esichazwe kahle ukuze wazi ukuthi ungazibeka kuphi izinto zakho noma uzihlele kabusha. Isibonelo, kufanele ucacelwe ngamadilowa akho emakhabetheni, indawo yakho odongeni, amashalofu akho ... Futhi, hlonipha isikhala somfowenu / udadewenu.
Lapho usuthole lokhu kucacile, ungaqala ukuhlela kabusha igumbi lokulala ngokuya ngezidingo zakho nokuthi yini ofuna ukukufeza. Kungaba ukuhlela kabusha kabusha noma mhlawumbe ukufaka ezinye izinto kwezinye. Konke lokhu kuzofanele kuvunyelwane kahle ngaphambi kokuqala kokuhlelwa kabusha kwekamelo lokulala.
Ungahlela kanjani kabusha igumbi lokulala lomntwana wakho oqala isikole esiphakeme?
Ungaqala ngokuhlela kabusha igumbi lokulala ngokususa lezo zinto ongasafuni ukuba nazo esiphephelweni sakho njengezilwane ezigxotshiwe noma izinto ozibheka ukuthi 'zinobuntwana kakhulu' noma ukuthi azisenandawo esigabeni sakho esisha sokukhula.
Kufanele ube nendawo yokufunda ecacile futhi enqunyelwe. Uma ufika esikoleni samabanga aphakeme, ukutadisha kuba yingxenye enkulu yokufunda, futhi ulwazi olutholwayo luyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunalokho okufanele kutholakale ePrayimari. Lesi sikhala kufanele sithuthukise imikhuba yokufunda kwengane yakho, kufanele ibe nedeski, isihlalo, ukukhanya okuhle kwemvelo kanye nokukhanya okwanele kokufakelwa. Itafula kufanele licace futhi lihleleke kahle futhi ngale ndlela, uzofunda kangcono.
Izincwadi nezinto zokufunda kufanele zibe nendawo yazo ekamelweni, akufanelekile ukushiya izinto zesikole noma kuphi. Uma ungenayo indawo yokugcina izinto zesikole, zingalahleka noma ngisho, ingane yakho ingazibukela phansi futhi ingazizwa isibopho esidingekayo sokuthuthuka kahle kwezemfundo.
Uma unemidwebo noma izingqwembe zezingane odongeni futhi ucabanga ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuzisusa, kufanele nje ukwenze ukumenza azizwe engcono. Ungase ukhethe ukufaka ezinye izinhlobo zezithombe ekamelweni lakho. Kwenzeka okufanayo nangezinye izinto zokuhlobisa ezinjengokulaliswa kombhede, amashidi, amathoyizi, njll.
Amasu wokugcina inhlangano enhle
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi uhlele kabusha ikamelo lokulala lengane yakho eqala isikole samabanga aphezulu ubheke ukuhleleka kwayo. Ukuhleleka nokwakheka kubalulekile ukufeza imiphumela emihle nokuthi nengane yakho izizwe ikhululekile futhi ilinganisele egumbini layo lokulala. Inhlangano enhle ekamelweni lokulala ibalulekile ukuze ingqondo yengane yakho icace futhi ikulungele ukuthatha izinselelo ezintsha nolwazi.
Ezinye izindlela zokugcina igumbi licocekile futhi lihleleke kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi kungasho okulandelayo kuphela:
- Faka ubhasikidi wokuwasha ekhoneni lekamelo lengane yakho ukuze bazi ukuthi bazobekaphi izingubo zabo zokuhlanza esikhundleni sesihlalo noma phansi. Yize uma uba nomkhuba wokuyibeka endaweni yayo ngaphandle kwebhasikidi egumbini lakho lokulala, konke kungcono.
- Faka udoti ekamelweni lakhe ukuze akwazi ukulahla noma yini angayidingi ngaphandle kwezinto zemvelo! Ukudla okungokwemvelo noma okusalile kufanele kuye kudoti wasekhishini ukugwema izivakashi ezingafuneki egumbini lokulala.
- Beka izingwegwe ngemuva komnyango noma odongeni ukulengisa amajakhethi, izikhafu, amabhande, izikhwama ...
- Ingane yakho kufanele yenze umbhede wayo njalo ekuseni ngaphandle kokukhetha. Njengoba kunombhede owenziwe njalo ekuseni, igumbi lokulala lizobukeka licocekile cishe ngokuzenzekelayo. Futhi, ukwendlala umbhede akuthathi isikhathi esiningi.
- Sebenzisa imibala yokuhlobisa engathathi hlangothi noma elula ukukhombisa imizwa yokuzola nenhlalakahle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, le mibala isiza igumbi lokulala ukuthi libonakale likhudlwana futhi ngenxa yalokho lihleleke futhi lihleleke ngokwengeziwe.
Lezi ngamathiphu nemibono ongayinaka nengane yakho ukuze ngale ndlela, igumbi lakhe lokulala lihlelwe kabusha lapho eqala izifundo esikoleni esiphakeme. Ingane yakho izozizwa inesibopho ngokwengeziwe ekamelweni layo lokulala, ingqondo yayo iyohleleka futhi ihleleke ngokwengeziwe ngokuhlala kwayo nendawo yokuhlala futhi konke lokhu kuzobonakala kokubili ekuziphatheni kwayo nasenhlalakahleni yayo engokomzwelo.