Ukudlala njengomndeni kungaphezu kokubuka izingane zakho zikwenza. Kubandakanya ukuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nabo lapho kuqiniswa khona izibopho. Futhi hhayi kuphela phakathi kwabazali nezingane, kepha phakathi kwezelamani, ogogo nomkhulu nabazukulu, abashana nabomalume, abazala nabo bonke ubudlelwano obungavela.
Khumbula lokho ukudlala kubalulekile kunoma yisiphi isikhathi, yebo nakubantu abadala. Ezinganeni, ukudlala kungaphezu kokugwema isithukuthezi, futhi kuyindlela yokuveza ukuthanda kwabo, ukufunda ukuphatha imizwa nokukhungatheka, futhi-ke, funda!
Imidlalo kude nasekhaya
Impelasonto enelanga, ukuvakasha komndeni, ukuvakashela ogogo nomkhulu edolobheni noma ukuyobona abazala babo abanephathi endlini kungaba ithuba lezingane nabantu abadala lokudlala ndawonye. Sethula ngezansi imidlalo embalwa ongabamba iqhaza kuyo noma ngabe uneminyaka engama-70 noma eyishumi, okubalulekile ukufuna ukuzijabulisa.
El ibhola elihleli, umqondo uthi umndeni wonke uhlala phansi noma otshanini, wakhe isiyingi. Kufanele udlulise ibhola uye komunye, kepha ngaphandle kokuvuka noma ukulithinta ngezandla zakho. Noma ngubani ohluleka ukuyiphasa uyasuswa nokunye kuze kube yilapho kusale umpetha kuphela.
Omunye umdlalo omnandi kakhulu bopha ifindo elikhulu. Lokhu kudala uphayinaphu. Omunye obambe iqhaza uthatha amagxathu ambalwa, ajike angabe esabheka, bese bonke abanye baxhawulana bese beqala ukubopha ngaphandle kokwehlukanisa izandla. Ukuthi uma udlulisa ikhanda lakho lapha, umlenze wakho ngaphezulu (lokhu kulungele i-agile kuphela) manje, ngaphansi. Lapho ifindo seliqediwe, yena noma lowo oye ibanga elijana, kufanele aqaqe ifindo, kepha lapho enikeza iziyalezo, akakwazi ukuthinta noma imaphi amalungu… owaziyo ukuthi isandla sami sobunxele sikuphi!
Enye inketho ukudlala Sivuka kanyekanye. Yebo, kubonakala kulula, kepha akunjalo, ngoba umehluko wokuphakama nokubonisa kudlala iqhinga. Wonke umuntu uhlala phansi esiyingini futhi uxhunywe izingalo. Kulaba abathathu wonke umuntu uphakamise ngaphandle kokuvumela.
Vumela wonke umndeni udlale endlini!
Uma isimo sezulu singesihle, noma sekuvele sekwephuzile ukuba semgwaqweni, ungalungiselela eminye yale midlalo ekhaya. Siyawuthanda umdlalo we Indlovu igingqa i-bowling. NgoKhisimusi uzophumelela nezingane zakho nabazala babo, futhi uzobona ukuthi omunye umuntu emndenini uthokoza kanjani. Faka ibhola lethenisi kwelinye lama-pantyhose akho, kuze kube sezinzwaneni. Futhi ubeka ingxenye okhalweni ekhanda lanoma ngubani ofuna ukuba yindlovu. Umdlalo uqukethe ukubeka iziketi phansi (amabhodlela epulasitiki noma amathini) nokuzama ukubashaya. Ake sibone ukuthi ubani oyithathayo. Ungenza amaqembu noma ubambe iqhaza ngakunye, ngesikhathi esibekiwe.
Ezindaweni ezithulile sikuphakamisa Akukho? Umuntu oyedwa uyacelwa ukuba aphume egumbini, kanti abanye bafihla into eyodwa noma ezimbili ezazibonwa kahle phambilini, isibonelo, umqamelo nesibalo. Owaphuma ube esecelwa ukuba abuyele ngaphakathi athole ukuthi yini into engekho. Ungamnika umkhondo.
Wake wadlala izilwane zasemapulazini? Wonke umuntu uvale amehlo akhe futhi wonke umuntu ulingisa umsindo wesilwane. Kungaba futhi isilwane sasendle, yize umdlalo ubizwa ngokuthi izilwane zasemapulazini. Ekubaleni kuze kufike kokuthathu, amehlo ayavulwa, futhi ngokushintshana kufanele uqagele ukuthi ngubani owenza isilwane.
Futhi ungahlala usebenzisa iziphicaphicwano, ifoni ephukile, idwala, iphepha nezikele, izigaxa zolimi, izitanza ezinde, noma okudala engikubonayo engikubonayo ... ongadlali engikubona emotweni! I- Imidlalo yamagama zibaluleke kakhulu ezinganeni.