"Akuyona into yezingane: yi-HARASSMENT"Lesi yisisho okufanele 'sisifake' emcabangweni wobumbano, uma kungenzeka sishintshe yonke imicabango ethi ngendlela yangempela noma ecatshangelwayo ingenzi lutho ngaphandle kokubuyisela emuva izinkolelo eziyiphutha. Futhi ngithi akulungile ngoba lapho osemncane ehlukunyezwa ephindelelwa noma ehlazeka ngontanga yakhe, futhi nganoma iyiphi indlela engenzeka, udinga usizo; kungcono kakhulu: isimo sidinga ukubuyekezwa ukuqeda inkinga futhi uphakamise izinyathelo zokuvimbela.
Imiphumela yokuxhashazwa ibonakala kwesinye isikhathi, njenganoma iyiphi indlela yokusebenzisa udlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lwakamuva luqinisekisa ukuthi izisulu zalo 'ukhetho' lokuthola izinkinga zempilo yengqondo kusukela ebusheni futhi luzohlala lube mdala. Izingane zisengozini enkulu, futhi kaningi ziba yizinto zokuhlukunyezwa ngabantu abadala noma ontanga, kepha uma iziqhwaga zingabafundi besikole, ingozi iyanda.
Ngikwazisile ukuthi ukuhlukumeza kungaziveza ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene, futhi ngisho kafushane, ngithanda ukuveza ukuthi ukuhlaselwa ngamazwi noma ngokomzimba, ukukhishwa emphakathini, izinsongo, kanye - futhi - nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, kuthathwa njengokuhlukunyezwa
Ucwaningo engikhulume ngalo lubizwa "Imiphumela yabantu abadala yengqondo yokuxhashazwa kontanga nokungaphathwa kahle ebuntwaneni: amaqoqo amabili emazweni amabili", futhi ingatholakala kumagazini ka-Ephreli we-The Lancet Psychiatry. USuzet Tanya Lereya nozakwabo bangabomnyango woMnyango Wezengqondo e-University of Warwick e-UK; kanye nomnyango wezifo zengqondo nokuziphatha, iDuke Medical Center eSheffield.
Eminyakeni yamuva, iningi 'lezinsolo' maqondana ne- umthelela wodlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni: yini kwabaningi eyamukelekayo sengathi iyimfundiso yenkolo (ngaleyo ndlela ithethelele udlame oluthiwe), kuvela ukuthi imikhuba ehlukumezayo engakusizi ngalutho ukukhula komntwana, noma ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane akwamukelekile, noma ngabe ngubani umhlukumezi, kodwa futhi kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi umuntu ohluphekayo akhombise ukukhathazeka, noma ajwayele ukusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa.
Ukuhlukunyezwa ontanga
Kuyadingeka ukuthi kuguqulwe indlela esixhumana ngayo nezingane, ngoba ziyimpande yomphakathi. Futhi ngasikhathi sinye, kufanele sigxile ku ukuvimbela nokubhekana nokuxhashazwa esikoleni, njengoba izehlakalo zikhathaza kakhulu (ngokusho kwakhe Umbiko kaCisneros X ka-2007 izinga limi kumaphesenti angama-24 eSpain, ezinye izifundo nazo zisondele kulelo phesenti). Akukona neze ukukuthatha kancane, ngoba amaphesenti angama-24 kufana nokuthi kusho eyodwa ezinganeni ezine, futhi lokho kuningi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengamanje abukho ubudala obungezansi lapho izingane 'ziphephe' khona ngoba izindlela zokuhlukumeza ziyabonwa ngisho nasemfundweni yobuntwana, futhi kuze kube semfundweni yesibili. Ucwaningo ku-The Lancet luyaqhubeka futhi lubeka izehlakalo kwengane eyodwa kwezintathu ezithintekile, ngokusho kokubuyekezwa kwamazwe angama-3.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele sikuthathe ngokungathí sina, njengoba ukuxhashazwa phakathi kontanga kungaholela izinkinga zezempilo yengqondo zesikhathi eside, futhi igcinwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Le miphumela ingaba mibi kakhulu kunasendabeni yezingane ezihlukunyezwa ngabantu abadala (imvamisa izihlobo).
Imiphumela yokuxhashazwa ebudaleni
U-Eva wayesesazisile kakade kulokhu okuthunyelwe, manje ngithanda ukugcizelela ukuthi abancane abayizisulu zalokhu kuhlaselwa bangakhula imicabango yokuzibulala nokuthambekela ekucindezelekeni; iziqephu zokuzilimaza, kanye nokukhathazeka nakho kuye kwabonwa. Ukuhlukumeza ezikoleni akwamukelekile, futhi kusukela kulowo mbono, kufanele kudaleke impikiswano yezenhlalo, eyenza ukuthi sikwazi ukwenza izinqubomgomo nezenzo ezibonakalayo ezihlose ukuqedwa kwazo.
Ucwaningo engikhuluma ngalo lwenziwa kude phakathi kwamaqembu amabili ezingane zesikole ezivela e-United Kingdom nase-United States, kanti nabazali babambe iqhaza ekuphenduleni imibuzo. Abahlanganyeli ocwaningweni, 'balandelwa' kusukela eminyakeni eyi-8 nengu-9, kwaze kwaba yi-18.
Akufanele sikhohlwe iqiniso lokuthi kusukela eminyakeni eyisikhombisa noma eyisishiyagalombili, indima yomndeni njengesethenjwa iyashintsha, nengane isiya 'ngaphandle' ekhaya, ngakho abangane, osebenza nabo, ngisho nabafowabo thola isisindo esikhulu. Ubuntu besisulu buyaguquguquka kuye ngokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi kunamathele kubantu ababaluleke kakhulu kuye ngaleso sikhathi, okuchaza ukuthi kungani ukuhlukumeza kuyingozi kangaka.
Kubonakala kucace ukuthi ukuxhashazwa sekuyinkinga yezempilo yomphakathi, futhi kuqondana nabachwepheshe abasebenza ngqo kulolu daba, kudingekile hhayi kuphela ukuguqula ukucabanga, kepha futhi nokuqeqesha amalungu omndeni nothisha, ukuxwayisa ngemiphumela engatholakala. Umphakathi kuphela onqume ukuwuqeda nya, onganquma ukwehlisa amanani, futhi anciphise ukuhlupheka kwamakhulu (nezinkulungwane) zezingane emhlabeni jikelele.
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