Ukunaka kwengane encane kudlula ngokushesha, igxuma isuka kulokho ekwenzayo iye ezisusa ezimzungezile. Ngenxa yokuthi izingane ezincane zilangazelela ukwazi ngezwe, zinekhono elilinganiselwe lokushuna izisusa ezizizungezile. Lokhu kusho ukuthi izingane ezincane ziphazamiseka kalula. Ukugxila njalo kuyisisekelo sokufunda, ukuthuthukisa amakhono empilo, nokulungiselela ingane indawo yokufunda yeqembu. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa ukunakekelwa kwezingane kusukela zisencane.
Izingane ezincane zivame ukudinga usizo lwabantu abadala ukuze zihlale zigxile emsebenzini uze uqedwe. Njengoba isikhathi sokunaka kwengane siqala ukuba ngcono, izokwazi ukudlala ngokuzimela ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuthi uhlale uyiqapha. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula lokho ikhono lokukhulisa ikhono lokunaka lifana nomsipha: Kumele uzivocavoce ukuze uwuqinise. Ungasiza ukuthuthukisa lesi sikhathi sokunaka ngokusebenzisana naye ubuso nobuso. Imisebenzi oyenzayo nendodana noma nendodakazi yakho kumele ikhuthaze futhi ibe nethuba lokukwazi ukuyikhulisa.
Imisebenzi yokuthuthukisa ukunaka ezinganeni
- imisebenzi yasekhishini. Izingane ezincane zivame ukukhuthazwa ukubamba iqhaza emisebenzini "ekhulile", ngakho ikhishi lingase lifaneleke kakhulu. Ukusabalalisa ukhilimu we-cocoa ezingcezu zesinkwa noma ukukhama isithelo ukuze wenze ijusi enempilo kungaba yisiqalo esihle. Noma iyiphi into elula ongayicabanga ingabasiza ukuthi baqale ukugxila emisebenzini abayithandayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukudla noma ukuphuza okuthile okulungiselelwe nguyena kuzomgcwalisa ngokuziqhenya.
- andisa isikhathi sokufunda. Khulisa kancane isikhathi osichitha kuso ukufundwa kungase futhi kuthuthukise isikhathi sakho sokunaka. Ungakwazi ukuphawula ngenkathi ufunda kuye, futhi umbuze imibuzo ngendaba, ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ungaphinda ucele ingane yakho ukuthi ikhombe izinto noma abalingiswa abadwetshwe ekhasini olifundayo, bese yenza izindaba ezihambisana nalezo zinto noma abalingiswa.
- hlala uhlezi. Khuthaza indodana noma indodakazi yakho ukuthi yenze imisebenzi yemoto efana nokubala imibala, izindida, imidlalo yokwakha noma izibalo zepulasitiki. Lezi zinhlobo zemisebenzi zizokugcina ugxile, futhi zithuthukise amakhono akho emoto.
Khetha imisebenzi ehambisana neminyaka
Ukubuka indodana noma indodakazi yakho ngenkathi idlala ukuze wazi ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezijabulisa ngazo kungaba usizo kakhulu. Izingane ezincane ngokuvamile zijatshuliswa nganoma yini, imoto yokudlala, isipini, ikepisi alithandayo… Ungajoyina umdlalo wakhe ngesinye isici noma umbuze ukuthi wenzani. Uma ubona ukuthi uphelelwa isithakazelo, ungacabanga ngokushintsha umdlalo wakhe wasekuqaleni ukuze aphinde ahileleke kuwo.
Uma uphakamisa umsebenzi ohlukile, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi angakwazi ukuwenza yedwa, noma ngosizo oluncane oluvela kuwe. Ukumnika inselele evumelana neminyaka yakhe angayenza ngayedwana kuzomsiza ukuthi angakhungatheki noma adikibale.. Nakuba ukukhungatheka noma ukudangala kuyimizwa ebalulekile ongase ube nayo futhi usebenze nayo, ingaphazamisa indlela yenqubekelaphambili lapho uzama ukuthuthukisa ukunakekelwa kwengane encane.
Ugqozi lokuthuthukisa ukunakekelwa kwezingane
Yini ethuthukisa imisipha yokunaka incike emandleni okwandisa isikhathi sokuphothula emsebenzini. Ngakho lapho indodana noma indodakazi yakho isikutshela ukuthi isiqedile ngomsebenzi wayo wesikole, yikhuthaze ukuba iwenze kanye nje. Njengoba abazali bekhuthaza izingane zabo ngomusa ukuba ziqhubeke nomsebenzi othile, izingane ziyozizwa zikhuthazekile ukuba ziqhubeke. Uma umjoyina kulokhu kuphindaphinda, ungasiza ukuthuthukisa ukusebenza kwakhe ngokuqhubekayo. umthamo wokunaka. Isibonelo, uma ubedweba ebhukwini futhi eqeda, ungathi, “Kuhle! Sizopenda eminye bese siqoqa yonke imidwebo.”
Kubalulekile ekukhuthazeni kwakhe ukuthi ugubhe yonke iwini encane ayizuzayo, njengokumkhuthaza ukuba aqhubeke isikhashana ngaphambi kokushintshela kokunye. Ngokuzijwayeza kancane kwansuku zonke uzoqaphela ukuthi indodana noma indodakazi yakho kancane kancane yandisa isikhathi sabo sokunaka. Uzokwenza imisebenzi eminingi isikhathi eside, futhi lokhu kuzofika kuwusizo lapho usukhulile.