Ngemuva kokuthola indodana yethu siyahlupheka isikhathi esibalulekile sokuzijwayeza. Kufanele sibhekane nezinguquko zomzimba nezamahomoni futhi ngokukhulu umthwalo wengqondo. Kuyisigaba esisha sempilo, sizozikhomba ukuthi singomama futhi kokunye sithola ukuhlonza okuphindwe kabili, singomama bendodana yethu kepha ngasikhathi sinye siyindodakazi kanina uqobo.
Ngamunye ufuna ukuthola indima yakhe ngendlela efanelekile futhi lapha isikhundla esizodlalwa ogogo nomkhulu, bafuna ukusiza futhi bathathe indima abazali besibili. Lokhu kungaholela ku- dala ukungqubuzana okuthile Kepha uma siyithatha ngendlela elinganiselwe, sonke singanikela ngokuncane kwethu.
Iyiphi indima okufanele bayidlale
Indima yabogogo nomkhulu ingaba usizo olubaluleke kakhulu, babe ngabazali futhi bangasiza iseluleko esibaluleke kakhulu. Kungakho okokuqala kufanele hlonipha zonke izinqumo ezithathwa ngabazali ekufundisweni kwezingane ngakho-ke noma isiphi isinyathelo abasithatha ngokuqapha sizovuna ukukhula okuhle ngokomzwelo kubazukulu. Indima yabo ibalulekile ukuze babe nenkumbulo enhle ngabo.
Ungasisingatha kanjani isimo
Endimeni entsha kamama omusha, uzomenza lowo okufanele akwenze sebenzisa uchungechunge lwamazinga angahambelani endleleni yakho yokuphila. Nquma ukuthi yini efanele ukwenziwa nokuthi kufanele uyilandele nini ukusondelana komndeni. Kubalulekile kwenze kucace zisuka ngakho-ke akukho ukungaboni ngaso linye.
Ogogo nomkhulu kumele hlonipha leso sinqumo futhi usigcine. Izikhathi eziningi bayakhohlwa ukuthi indima entsha abazali okufanele bayithathe kufanele bayenze kusukela ekungazini kodwa umuzwa wabo uzophinde uhlale usebenza ngokwemvelo futhi bazokwamukela izinyathelo ezinemiphumela emihle kakhulu.
Kungakho-ke ukuthi ukuzalwa okusha kwenza bakholwe ukuthi kuyini indawo okufanele bahlale kuyo. Indima yabo ngokungangabazeki iyona okumele bayidlale ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igunya lobuzali. Akudingekile ukuvusa ukungezwani kepha kufanele banciphise usizo lwabo nokuhambisana nezinga elithile, kwenzeke ngendlela efanayo naleyo yabazali, ogogo nomkhulu abanakufunwa okungaphezu kwalokho abafuna ukukuhlinzeka.
Amathiphu okuba umkhulu omuhle ngemuva kokubeletha nangemva kwalokho
Ekunakekelweni okuhlinzekwa ngokuphathelene nogogo nomkhulu njalo okubolekwe yibo kuzoba ngcono kunanoma ngubani ongahle aphume emndenini. Leli phuzu lingaba ngempikiswano enkulu kepha kuyiqiniso ukuthi uma uthando lukhona kulokhu kuzinikela, njalo singabakhumbula ngothando nangokulangazelela.
Ukuze lokhu kube khona, kumele babhekane nezinto ezahlukahlukene kahle, kubalulekile ukuthi phazamisa imfundo kepha hhayi ngokugcizelela kakhulu. Mayelana nemibono, njengoba sishilo, kubalulekile hlonipha isinqumo somzali.
Njengeseluleko esihle, zama ukuqondisa abazali yiba nesineke nokuzithiba enganeni. Kufanele udlulise amanani omndeni bese uzama ukudala ifayela le- isibopho esikhulu somndeni. Kuleli qophelo kufanele ugcine i- ukulingana phakathi kukamamezala nomalokazana, ngoba lesi sixhumanisi singagcinwa njengobudlelwano obushaqisayo.
Kubalulekile futhi hlonipha amashejuli engane, ngoba kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi abazali bakwazi ukugcina izikhathi ezifanayo zokulala, ukudla, nezikhathi zokuhamba ... Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izikhathi ukuvakashelwa njalo nokude kufanele kukhawulwe, ngoba abazali badinga ukuba nesikhala sabo phakathi komzali nengane.
Akungabazeki ukuthi elinye lamaphuzu amnandi maqondana neqhaza logogo nomkhulu kungaba ngelabo ulwazi oluphakeme nokuhlakanipha okukhulu kodwa kuyiqiniso ukuthi bangafunda futhi okuningi kukho konke lokho umzukulu angabanikeza kona, phakathi kwalaba ababili abangabamba iqhaza okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle nolwazi.