Indlela yokuchaza ukufa enganeni ngokwemvelo

umama echazela indodakazi yakhe ngokushona komuntu amthandayo

Ukufa kungokwemvelo ekuphileni, kuwukuphela kwesiqiniseko esinaso. Ukuchazela ingane ngokufa kuyinselele ngoba kufanele sivumelanise incazelo namakhono ayo okuqonda kanye nemizwelo.

Kubalulekile ukuxhumana nezindaba ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ngokusobala futhi ngaphandle kwamanga. Okulandelayo sizokukhombisa indlela yokuchaza ukufa enganeni ngokwemvelo futhi sikunikeza izinsiza zokuqonda kangcono usizi lwezingane.

Ukuchaza kanjani ukufa enganeni ngokwemvelo?

Izingane zibheka ukuphila njengento ecishe ibe phakade futhi zivame ukubona ukufa njengento engavamile endaweni ezikuyo. Ngokuvamile abantu abadala bakuthola kunzima ukuchazela ingane ngokufa futhi ngokuvamile bayayigwema leyo ndaba noma baqambe amanga, iphutha okufanele siligweme. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane zitusa ukubhekana nalolu daba ngokuhamba neqiniso kusengaphambili futhi ngaphandle kokulibala.

ukuqamba amanga yinto yokugcina ngoba lokho kuyoqeda ukwethemba ingane kubazali bayo, izibalo ezicabanga njengesibonelo. Asigweme ukuthuka sikhulume iqiniso nje okwenzeka ngokuzwela futhi ngokwamakhono abo.

Kubalulekile ukucabangela iminyaka yengane

Ukuchazela ingane ngokufa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukucabangela iminyaka yabo, ukujwayela amandla esikhathi esibalulekile lapho atholakala khona:

  • Izingane kanye nezingane ezincane (0 kanye 2 iminyaka)  Abakuqondi ukufa kodwa bayakwazi ukuqaphela imizwa abanakekeli babo ababhekana nayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi umuntu omdala aqaphele imizwa yakhe futhi azivumele ukuba ahambe nge-duel, ngoba ngale ndlela bazokwazi ukudlulisela ibhalansi yabo enganeni. Kuyafaneleka gcina onkhe futhi i ukuthintana ngokomzimba nezingane ukuze zinikeze induduzo eziyidingayo.
  • Phakathi kwe Iminyaka ye-2 ne-6 izingane zikhipha imibuzo eminingana ngendawo ezikuyo futhi kufanele sizilungiselele phendula imibuzo yakho ngokucacile ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma ingane yakho ikubuza ukuthi ilungu lomndeni elishonile lizobuya nini, lishonephi, njll., ungaphenduli ngamazwi athi “wahamba ngohambo”, lokho kuzoyidida ingane. Kufanele sicacise futhi sichaze kafushane ukuthi lo muntu "udlulile futhi lokho kusho ukuthi ngeke sisakwazi ukumbona." Kumelwe baqonde ukuthi ukufa kuyiqiniso elingenakuhlehliswa.
  • phakathi I-6 eminyakeni engu-10  ikhono lokucabanga likhulu futhi abanye bangase babonise isithakazelo sokuya emingcwabeni. Kuyoba kuhle ukuyivumela inqobo nje uma sibachazele kusenesikhathi ukuthi izohlanganisani futhi ihlale ihambisana nabo futhi siphendula ngokucacile yonke imibuzo engase iphakame.
  • Ebusheni (Iminyaka eyi-10 kuye kweyi-13) singanikeza izincazelo ezinemininingwane eyengeziwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngalesi sikhathi sizobamelela isibonelo sendlela yokudlula i-duel, ngaleyo ndlela sibanikeze inani elikhulu le-duel. ukwamukela ubuhlungu bokulahlekelwa empilweni.

Ukuqonda usizi lwasebuntwaneni

intombazane idlula ku-duel

Izingane - njengabantu abadala - kuzodingeka zidlule ngezindlela ezahlukene izigaba zokulila ngokushonelwa othandekayo. Ngalesi sikhathi kufanele sibe nesineke kakhulu futhi sizwelane nabo, sibasekele kukho konke abakudingayo.

Umfana uzodlula imizwa ehlukahlukene ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu. Imibhikisho, ukudinwa, ukwesaba, ukuqwasha, ukukhala, imibuzo futhi ekugcineni ubuyele esimweni esijwayelekile. Ingane ngayinye ihlukile futhi izoba nohambo lwayo kule nqubo. Ake sibheke ukuvela kwayo futhi uma izimpawu zingahlehli, siya kuchwepheshe.

Buyela esimisweni

Ngemuva kokushona kothandekayo kuzobaluleka ukuqhubeka nezinqubo zansuku zonke njengoba lokhu kunikeza a indawo ephephile emncane okwenza kube lula ukubhekana nosizi ngendlela engokwemvelo futhi enobungane.

Kuyanconywa futhi ukuthi abantu abasebenzisana nabo nsuku zonke, njengothisha noma abanakekeli, bazi ngokulahleka, ngaleyo ndlela sizosungula umzila ukuxhumana ezinzile ukulandela ukuvela kwengane.


Thembela ezindabeni njengomthombo we-psycho-pedagogical

Izindaba ziyithuluzi eliwusizo kakhulu lokuchazela ingane ngokufa njengoba kuzo sithola izinsiza eziningi lokho kwenze kube lula ukuqonda: Imifanekiso nezibonelo ezisiza ukubeka amagama emicabangweni nemizwa eyinkimbinkimbi izingane ezingayiqondi. Ngale ndlela sizobenza bahlanganise ukulahlekelwa ngendlela enomusa futhi engeza inani emfundweni yakho.

Umdwebo wezindaba zezingane ukuchaza ukushona kothandekayo

Sesibonile indlela yokuchaza ukufa enganeni ngokwemvelo Kungumsebenzi oyinkimbinkimbi ngenxa yenselele obhekene nayo, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uyithuba lokukhula komntwana. Futhi masikhumbule ukuthi ukubeka izinto obala nobuqotho kuyohlale kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuchaza ukufa enganeni.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.