Sonke sinenkumbulo ethile yobuntwana bethu lapho othile omdala wasitshela ukuthi kule mpilo kuzodingeka senze umzamo omkhulu ukuze sizuze konke esikufunayo. Ezweni ababephila kulo abazali nogogo nomkhulu, abantu kwadingeka basebenze kanzima ukuze bondle imikhaya yabo. Kodwa namuhla, umhlatshelo cishe awukho futhi umqondo ongamanga wokuthi imigomo yethu ingafinyelelwa ngaphandle komzamo ususunguliwe.
Sesijwayele ukucabanga ukuthi singathola esikufunayo ngokuchofoza okukodwa. Yifune futhi ube nayo. Konke kubonakala kulula, kuyathengeka, kuyashesha, konke kungathengwa noma kutholakale kalula. Imiklomelo iyashesha futhi kulula ukuyizuza. Sifuna okuthile futhi sibheka indlela esheshayo, enhle neshibhile yokukuthola. Lokhu kwenza yonke into ilahlekelwe ukubaluleka, ngakho kubalulekile ukufundisa izingane ukuthi kufanele zisebenze kanzima ukuze zithole ezikufunayo. Kulapho kuphela lapho beyokwazisa futhi bazise izinto ngesilinganiso sazo esifanele.
Usale kahle emzamweni?
Siye senziwa ekukholweni ukuthi singakwazi ukufunda izilimi, sibe namandla ngokomzimba, noma sidume kakhulu ngomsebenzi omncane nokuzidela. Amanethiwekhi omphakathi Zisisondeza empumelelweni engamanga, leyo edidaniswa nokuba nokuthandwa noma abalandeli abaningi. Basithengisa ukuthi singajabula sithembele kuphela enhlanhleni noma emsebenzini wabanye. Abazali abaningi bayahlupheka lapho izingane zabo zisebenza kanzima futhi zingayifezi imigomo yazo.. Bajwayele ukubavulela indlela, ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo, ukubavikela ngokweqile ukuze bangakhungatheki noma benze amaphutha.
Abazali bavame ukubaphephisa ekuhluphekeni kwesikhashana futhi banelise ngokushesha izidingo zabo noma ukuthanda kwabo ukuze bangathukutheli noma badabuke. Kodwa iwona kanye lo mzamo obalulekile ukufundisa ngoba ngaphandle kwawo ngeke bakwazi ukujabula ngempela. Kuyadingeka ukuchazela izingane ukuthi umzamo uyindlela abazofeza ngayo izinhloso zabo eziningi empilweni yabo yonke.
Ukukhulisa ingane ngesiko lokuzikhandla
Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zifunde kusukela zisencane ukulawula ukukhungatheka. Ukuhlulwa, ukuhlehla, amaphutha kuyingxenye yempilo futhi ezikhathini eziningi kufanele siqale phansi bese sizama futhi. Yingakho kufanele ubachazele ukuthi ngeke bakuthole njalo lokho abazimisele ukukwenza, futhi lokho okubalulekile ukuthi singayeki lapho sibhekene nobunzima obuzotholakala endleleni, ngoba lezo zithiyo zizobafundisa ukubekezela nokuthola izixazululo zokunqoba noma isiphi isithiyo.
Umzamo, ukubekezela kanye namandla kumele kube yizinsika zemfundo yemizwa yazo zonke izingane. Isiko lomzamo lisifundisa ekuzimiseleni kwentando yethu nokubekezela. Umzamo uqinisa ukuqina kwethu, isifundisa ukubekezela, ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo nokubhekana nobunzima ngethemba nangeqiniso. Ukufundisa ngesiko lokuzikhandla ukukhuthaza "ukuba" esikhundleni "sokuba". Umzamo usifundisa ukuguquka njengabantu futhi sivuthwe. Futhi, ngaphandle kokungabaza, akukho okududuza kakhulu kulokhu kuphila njengokuzwa ukwaneliseka ngokuzuza izinjongo zethu ngenxa yokuqina nokubekezela.
Izihluthulelo zokufundisa ingane ngesiko lomzamo
- Nikeza ingane yakho izinselele ezincane zansuku zonke ukuze yenze umzamo. Ngale ndlela uyamsiza ukuba abone izinto ezikhohlisayo nemigomo yakhe, afune ugqozi ngokulawula ukuntula isineke nokuthatheka. Uzoqonda ukuthi ubunzima ngabunye buyaqina nokuthi impumelelo ngayinye ikhulisa umphefumulo wakho.
- Menze azi nsuku zonke ukuthi uthando lwakho nokumethemba akunamibandela. Lokhu uyokufeza ngokumnika isineke nothando lwakho, ukwazisa konke akufezayo, umnikeze amandla ngamazwi esikhuthazo nokumnika isikhathi asidingayo sokufunda. Ngalokhu, uzofunda ukukhetha kangcono abantu onabo eceleni kwakho, ngoba uzokhetha abantu abakwenza ube ngcono, abagwedla ohlangothini olufanayo nawe futhi abakukhuthaza ukuthi uye phambili.
- Mchazele ukuthi ukuphikelela kungubuhle obunye buthela izithelo.. Ukuzijwayeza nsuku zonke kuba othisha abahamba phambili. Ukufundisa ngenhlonipho, ukubonga nokwethembeka, bazokufeza lokho ukubekezela kube isikhali sakho best.
- Mfundise esibonelweni sakho. Mnikeze amandla akho, ithemba kanye nentando yakho yansuku zonke yokufeza lokho okufunayo. Lokhu uzokufeza ngokuphikelela lapho ubhekene nezinselele futhi ukhiphe izikhalazo embhalweni wakho wamagama.
- Mfundise ukuthi ubunzima nokwehluleka kuba amathuba amahle okufunda. Kumele ufunde ukuzibophezela emaphusheni akho ikakhulukazi uma izinto ziba nzima. Indlela elula kodwa ekhungathekisayo ukuphonsa ithawula.
- Msize alawule imizwa yakhe ngendlela efanele, ukwazi ukwenza izinqumo nokubekezela, ukwazi ukukhuphuka nokwehla kwemizwa yakho nokudabuka lapho izinto zingahambi kahle. Lokhu kuzofezwa kuye ngomsebenzi nokuzibophezela, hhayi ngenhlanhla.
- Ithuthukisa ukuzimela kwabo, ukuzazi kwabo kanye nokuthatha izinqumo. Mfundise ukuthi azibheke ngenhlonipho nangeqiniso, angabi nesidingo sokuphelela noma ancike ekuhloleni kwabanye. Ukwazi omunye nomunye kuzobeka okulindelwe okufanele futhi kuqinise inqubo ngaphandle kokuphuphuthekiswa kuphela emiphumeleni.