Ngaphakathi ochungechungeni lwezikhala zokukhuluma ngomdlalo nangamathoyizi afanele kakhulu eminyakeni ngayinye, bekusamele sigxile kubasakhulayo, okuthi noma kwesinye isikhathi sikhohlwe, kusadingeka badlale (empeleni, umdlalo usazuzisa usakhulile) . Futhi uma ngesikhathi sobuntwana, ukudlala kuzuzisa, kubafana umphelelisi ovumela ukuthuthukiswa nokuqiniswa yamakhono ahlukene ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo, ngokomzwelo, okunengqondo futhi athintekayo; ngokwemiphumela ye- isifundo esiholwa nguSarah Blakemore futhi sashicilelwa kwiThe Social Brain Development.
Kusuka eminyakeni eyi-10 ezimweni eziningi, futhi kakhulu i-12, ithoyizi lendabuko lilahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwalo, futhi ithathelwa indawo yimidlalo yevidiyo, imidlalo yezemidlalo neyebhodi; ngokwenzayo akuhlali kufakwa esikhundleni, ngoba kungagcwaliswa. Amantombazane nabafana nabo balahlekelwa wuthando lokufunda besakhula, kepha uma umkhuba wakhula besebancane, mhlawumbe bazobuyela kuyo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kwesinye isikhathi sifunda ukuthi ezobuchwepheshe zithanda ukuzimela, kepha kukhonjisiwe ukuthi lokhu akusona umphumela oqondile; Futhi nasemindenini efana neyami, imithetho yesipiliyoni: indodana yami ingu-geek futhi kwesinye isikhathi idlala yodwa ... Kepha ezinye izikhathi eziningi idlala nodadewabo, abazali bayo, omakhelwane, umngani wakhe omkhulu, iqembu lakhe lokuphola, noma i-inthanethi , Ukuthambekela ngokwengeziwe ukwabelana ngomdlalo kunokuwuthokozela wedwa, yize ukuba sezingeni labo kungenzeki kithi.
Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule evela kwi-Children's Play Observatory, abazali baqinisekiswa ukuthi 'ukudlala kubaluleke kakhulu njengezindlela ezisebenzayo zokuxhumana ezithanda ukuxhumana nokuqonda phakathi kwabazali nezingane kule minyaka'; ngakho-ke unganqikazi ukwabelana ngamageyimu lapho ebuza, noma ukuphakamisa izikhathi zomdlalo owabiwe.
Ungawakhetha kanjani amathoyizi wentsha: khumbula ukuthi ...
Ingane yakho iyingane ngoba isencane, kodwa ibhekene nayo isigaba sezinguquko ezinkulu esizoholela ekufikeni kweminyaka yobudala; ushintsho lusukela ezicini ezisobala kakhulu (ngokomzimba, kwezenhlalo, kwezengqondo, ...) kuya ekukhuleni kwamahomoni nasekuvuthweni kobuchopho. Omunye wemiphumela esheshayo ngu 'ukwahlukaniswa' kwabazali: banamaphrojekthi aboBahlangana nalabo abafuna, banqume ukuzilibazisa kwabo, bathuthukise ukucabanga okungaqondakali nokucabangisisa; 'akukho okusha phansi kwelanga, nathi besikhona. Ngaphandle kokuthi unezinkomba zokuthi bangaba nenkinga enkulu, akufanele uphazamise; Usawumndeni kepha umnikelo wabasha uyashintsha uma uqhathanisa nezigaba ezedlule.
Njengoba bedinga isikhathi sokuba nabo, ukwazana kangcono nokwakha ubunikazi babo, isifiso sokuxoxa ngokuqhubekayo sigcina sinyamalale, akusikhathazi
Ungawakhetha kanjani amathoyizi ezingane kusuka eminyakeni emi-3 kuya kwengu-6: onikeza amathoyizi ini?
Ngikhuluma ngokujwayelekile njengeqembu leminyaka ebanzi kakhulu (kusuka eminyakeni eyi-10 kuye kwengu-16 cishe), kunzima ukunikeza izeluleko eziphendula konke ukungabaza kwakho ngoba izintshisekelo zishintsha kakhulu kuye ngeminyaka yengane yakho, futhi nokho konke kuphawulwa ukuvuthwa uqobo. Umuntu oneminyaka engu-12 usengaba nentshisekelo ezimotweni ezilawulwa kude, ingane eneminyaka eyishumi kungenzeka; Kukhona labo ababengayithandi imidlalo yebhodi ngo-10, futhi bakwi-8; Abanye bamukela imidlalo yevidiyo enesilinganiso se-PEGI esingaphansi kuka-15 ku-16, kanti abanye bayifuna ngo-15.
Kepha kubonakala sengathi kukhona ukuvumelana kokuthi 'ukudlala' kusengeza amanani futhi kunikeze ukufunda, futhi into enhle kakhulu ukuthi ikwenza ngendlela emnandi. Ibuye ikuvumele ukuthi wandise futhi uthuthukise ubudlelwane bezenhlalo futhi wandise amakhono obudlelwano. Ukungasho ukuthi kungumthombo wenjabulo.
Ingane yakho ingathanda ukudlala:
- AmaMeccans nokwakhiwa kwamamodeli.
- Amageyimu ebhodi yamasu.
- Amathoyizi wesayensi nokuhlola.
- Izimoto ezilawulwa kude.
- Umdlalo we video.
- Imidlalo ye-elekthronikhi.
- Imidlalo yokwakha.
- Imidlalo eyinkimbinkimbi yezibalo.
- Imidlalo yokudlala indima.
- Imodeli yokwakheka noma imbulunga, uma unentshisekelo olwazini.
Ungaphana futhi ngezinsimbi zomculo nemishini yezemidlalo, ngoba yisikhathi lapho kuchazwa khona izinto zokuzilibazisa
Ukukhetha Amathoyizi Abadala abaneminyaka emi-3-6: Ukuphepha engqondweni
Khumbula ukuthi kulula ukukucabanga futhi lapho zikhula: Ukumakwa kwe-CE, ukugadwa kwamathoyizi kagesi (uma ingane ingaphansi kweminyaka engu-13/14 ubudala), ukukhetha ngokucophelela okuqukethwe kwedijithali ukugwema ukuvezwa ngokweqile kulabo okungafanelekile. Futhi qaphela ukusetshenziswa kwezimoto ezilawulwa kude, izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka eyi-12 ubudala zingase zingabi nobukhono obanele.
Ngiqeda ngokukhumbula ukuthi izintshisekelo zabo zihlala 'ziqhubeka' lapho ukhetha lokho ozobanika khona. Thatha isikhathi sakho, uvakashele izitolo ezahlukahlukene nezindawo zokuhwebaNgivumele ngikuphelezele (ukumangala kule minyaka akunqamuki kangako) nokusikisela, noma ngabe uthenga wedwa kwesinye isikhathi. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukubuyekeza okuqukethwe kwethu kuncoma amathoyizi izingane, ezisacathula, futhi izingane ezineminyaka emi-6 kuya kwengu-10.
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