Ukubuyela emsebenzini ngemuva kokuba ngumama, imvamisa kuyinto ecindezelayo futhi ebuhlungu kunoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane, ikakhulukazi uma kunjalo okokuqala mama. Izingane ziguqula impilo yakho ngokuphelele, izinto eziza kuqala kuwe ziyaguqulwa futhi umbono wakho ngempilo uguquka ngokuphelele, okungenani phakathi nezinyanga zokuqala. Ngalesi sizathu, lapho ikhefu lokuyobeletha selizophela noma nganoma yisiphi esinye isizathu, kufanele ubuyele emsebenzini, sekuyisikhathi sokubhekana nayo yonke leyo mizwa engajwayelekile.
Ukwenza ukubuyela kwakho emsebenzini kungakhathazi kakhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uhlele kusengaphambili. Ngale ndlela, ngokwakho uzokwazi ukuthatha izibopho ezintsha ngaphandle kokulahla konke ukukhathazeka kwakho enganeni yakho futhi ukhathazeke. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kubalulekile ukuthi ingane yakho ingatholi imiphumela yengcindezi yakho, ngoba lokhu kungaba nomthelela omubi empilweni yengane yakho.
Yize umndeni ngamunye uhleleke ngendlela ehlukile, imihlahlandlela kufanele ifane kuzo zonke izimo. Ngokulandela la maqhinga, ukubuyela emsebenzini kuzokuhlukumeza kakhulu wena nengane yakho.
Hlela ukubuyela kwakho emsebenzini kusasele amasonto ambalwa
Ukupaka eceleni izinto ezikukhathazayo ngeke wenze lutho ngaphandle kokukhulisa ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka. Uyazi ukuthi kungekudala kuzodingeka ubuyele emsebenzini, ngakho-ke, uyazi ukuthi izindlela zakho zizoshintsha. Kubalulekile ukuthi amasonto ngaphambi kokulungiselela ukubuyela kwakho emsebenziniNgakho-ke, ingane yakho ngeke ihlupheke ngokungabikho kwakho okungazelelwe futhi ngeke uhlupheke ngokuhlukaniswa kwengane yakho.
Into elula kunazo zonke ukuthi cuqala ukusebenza ibutho nengane yakho ngokuqhubekayo. Zama ukuyoshaywa umoya, ukuyothenga noma ukuprakthiza izinto ozithandayo, ngaphandle kokuba nengane yakho. Ngale ndlela, ungazijwayeza ukuhlukanisa nengane yakho kancane kancane. Lokhu kuzosiza nengane yakho, ezojwayela ukuhlala nabanye abantu ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokungabikho kwakho.
Khetha umuntu ozonakekela ingane yakho
Imindeni eminingi ithembele osizweni oluyigugu logogo nomkhulu wabo, ukuze bakwazi ukuvumelanisa umsebenzi nempilo yomndeni. Yize abanye abaningi bengenakho lokhu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene futhi kufanele baphendukele kochwepheshe noma ezikhungweni zemfundo yezingane zisencane. Noma ngabe ikuphi isimo sakho noma izimo zakho, kubalulekile ukuthi inqubo ihamba kancane futhi ingane yakho iyazi futhi ijwayele umnakekeli wayo omusha.
Noma kuyisihlobo futhi ingane yakho ikwazi ngokunengqondo, kuyadingeka ukuthi chitha isikhathi uwedwa naloyo muntu, kancane kancane. Ukudlala nogogo nomama akufani nokuchitha amahora ayisithupha nogogo umama engekho.
Hlela imisebenzi bese uhlela ukudla
Uma ubuyela emsebenzini, onkhe bakho bazophinde benze ushintsho olukhulu futhi kuzofanela ujwayele ukungabi nesikhathi futhi. Kubantu abaningi, ukungahambisani nomsebenzi wasendlini kuyengeza ukucindezeleka. Okufanayo kuya ekudleni nasekuhleleni imisebenzi ehlukahlukene. Uma lokhu kuyindaba yakho, ungalindeli usuku lokugcina njengoba uzokwengeza ukungezwani nokukhathazeka esimeni sakho esisha.
Hlela imisebenzi ehlukahlukene nomlingani wakho futhi uma kunesidingo, dala ikhalenda lapho wonke umuntu enemisebenzi yakhe ayabelwe. Kubalulekile futhi ukuhlela ukudla nezitolo ukugcina ukudla okunempilo kusuka kumzuzu wokuqala. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukusebenzisa isikhathi esithile ukudala okwehlukile amamenyu masonto onke, ukuze ube lula ukwenza uhlu lokuthenga.
Khumbula ukuthi umsebenzi wasendlini ungalinda, lokho Indlu yakho ngeke ikukhumbule futhi ngeke ikulinde ujabule nsuku zonke. Kodwa-ke, ingane yakho izokufuna futhi izofuna ukuthi uchithe isikhathi nayo, nidlale, nithathe uhambo lokuzula, epaki noma nisebenzise isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye.
Maduze uzojwayela lesi simo esisha futhi uzojwayela izindlela ezintsha, okubalulekile ukukwenza ngaphandle kwengcindezi nangokucindezeleka okungatheni.