Uma uthola isiyalo esihle ekhaya, isimilo sezingane sithuthuka cishe ngokuzenzekelayo. Abazali kumele bazi ukuthi bangazilaya kanjani izingane zabo ukuze konke kusebenze kahle ekhaya, nangaphandle kwaso.
Abazali bafuna ukujabula nezingane zabo, ukuhlonishwa nokuhlonishwa abanye. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho bezokwazi ukuthola indawo yabo emhlabeni ngempumelelo.
Kepha ayikho ingane eza emhlabeni ineziyalezo ngaphansi kwengalo yayo futhi kwesinye isikhathi abazali baba nobunzima bokuqonda ukuthi kumele baziphathe kanjani noma ukuthi yini okufanele bayenze ukuze izingane zabo zibe izingane ezijeziswe kahle. Ukuze izingane ziziphathe kahle, zizodinga uthando nothando oluvela kuwe, inhlonipho nokubekezela okuningi ... Kepha futhi, ukuthi usebenzisa izindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokuyala futhi futhi uyazi, Ngisiphi isikhathi sokucela usizo kochwepheshe?
Ukuyala ekhaya
Uma kukhulunywa ngokuyala, kuyinqubo yokufundisa izingane, ukuze zifunde ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okufanele nokuthi yini. baqala ukuqonda okulungile nokungalungile. Ngokuyinhloko, isiyalo sisekelwe ekwakheni imithetho nemikhawulo izingane okufanele ziyilandele, ngoba ngale ndlela bazozizwa bephephile futhi bazokwazi okulindeleke kubo ngazo zonke izikhathi.
Bonke abazali bangazizwa bekhungathekile ngemfundo abayinika izingane zabo, lokhu kujwayelekile. Yingakho sekuya ngokuya kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa izingane ngendlela engabeki igunya eliningi ngokweqile noma ukuvumela ngokweqile. Udinga igunya ngokuvumelana nezimo nokuthi izingane ziyazi ukuthi zonke izindlela zokuziphatha zinemiphumela, emihle nemibi ... no-qYibo abalawula ukukhetha indlela eyodwa noma enye, futhi babe nemiphumela ethile noma eminye.
Isibopho sanoma yimuphi umzali ukuqondisa izingane ukuthi zikwazi ukuzimela, zihloniphe abanye futhi zizihloniphe, zikwazi ukuzithiba futhi ziqonde imizwa yazo kanye neyabanye.
Ufundisa hlobo luni lwesiyalo ekhaya lakho
Kuyadingeka ukuthi wazi ukuthi ufundisa hlobo luni lokuziphatha ekhaya lakho, ngoba kungale ndlela kuphela lapho uzokwazi ukwazi ukuthi ngabe udinga ukwenza izinguquko ngempela ukuze konke kusebenze kangcono ngaphakathi komgogodla womndeni. Kukhona ezinye izitayela zobuzali ezinikeza isiyalo esingalungile futhi udinga ukufunda ukusibona.
- Isitayela sokuba ngumzali esigunyazayo Le yindlela ephumelela kunazo zonke yokuba ngumzali enesiyalo esihle. Abazali bayazi ukuthi bafunani ezinganeni zabo futhi nezingane ziyakwazi lokhu, kunemiphumela ecacile futhi abazali bayazi ukuthi bangazithanda kanjani izingane zabo noma ngabe kufanele kusetshenziswe imiphumela. Ivumela ukuguquguquka nokuxazululwa kwezinkinga zokubambisana ukuze ingane izwe ukulawula ezinye izinselelo zabo zokuziphatha.
- Isitayela sokukhulisa sobushiqela esingayekethisi. Yize enokulindelekile nemiphumela, ukhombisa uthando oluncane ezinganeni futhi kukhona kuphela 'ukuhleleka nomyalo' ekhaya. Ukuthi kungani izinto kungaxoxwa ngakho futhi izingane kufanele zithobele intando yomuntu omdala. Le yindlela engaphumeleli yokufundisa futhi evame ukudala izinkinga ezingokomzwelo nezokuziphatha ezinganeni.
- Isitayela esivumayo noma sobudedengu bokuba ngumzali. Ukhombisa uthando oluningi ezinganeni zakhe kepha akukho mithetho noma imikhawulo ekhaya. Asikho isiyalo ngoba abazali abafuni ukubhekana nezingane zabo, ngakho-ke izingane zenza futhi zihlehlise indlela ezifuna ngayo. Balawula abazali babo futhi babaxhaphaze ngokuthanda kwabo. Lokhu kubeletha akusebenzi futhi kuzoba nemiphumela emibi njengesitayela sobuzwilakhe nesingayekethisi.
Manje, uma usutholile ukuthi hlobo luni lobuzali olufundisa ekhaya lakho, sesifikile isikhathi sokuthi ucabangisise ngezinguquko okufanele uzenze ukuze kuzuze izingane zakho nezakho.
Thuthukisa isiyalo ekhaya
Kuyadingeka ukuthi unake ukuthi lapho izingane zithola isiyalo, kufanele kubhekwe isimo sazo, amandla azo okuqonda kanye nenhlonipho enkulu okufanele ube nayo kumuntu. Ukuze izingane ziqonde imithetho, kufanele uyihloniphe futhi uyithande ngasikhathi sinye lapho usebenzisa khona imiphumela (ehambisana nokuziphatha okungalungile futhi engeqisi ngokweqile).
Lapho imiphumela isetshenzisiwe, akudingekile ukuqhubeka 'ufundisa' ingane, okuzodingeka ukumqondisa ukuze enze umsebenzi omuhle nokuthi ngokuzayo akwazi okumele akwenze nokuthi akwenze kanjani ngendlela efanele.
Amanye amathiphu wokusebenza ngokuyala nsuku zonke ekhaya yile:
- Umvuzo wokuziphatha okuhle. Awuzitshelanga wena kuphela ngokuziphatha okubi, uma ufuna ukuqinisa isimilo esihle kufanele usibheke. Yazi ukuthi ingane yakho yenza kahle kanjani futhi lokhu kuzomshukumisela ukuthi ayenze futhi. Ncoma ingane yakho lapho inokuziphatha okufisayo.
- Vumela imiphumela yemvelo. Imiphumela yemvelo ingothisha abakhulu bezingane. Uma ingane yakho yenza okuthile okungalungile, mayibe nemiphumela yalokho kuziphatha (ngaso sonke isikhathi ubheke ukuphepha kwayo). Kunezikhathi lapho kungadingeki ukuxoxa ngokwenzekile. Isibonelo, uma ingane yephula ithoyizi, ngeke isaba nalo ukudlala nayo. Uma umuntu omusha engafaki izingubo ezingcolile kubhasikidi, ngeke azigeze noma uma engawondli umbhede, azolala nombhede ungenzelwanga. Imiphumela yemvelo isebenza inqobo nje uma izingane zibonakala 'zingalaleli' izexwayiso zakho ngokuziphatha kwazo.
- Imiphumela enengqondo ekuziphatheni kwabo. Kulokhu, kufanele uxwayise izingane zakho ngemiphumela yokuziphatha okuthile okuzoba nayo. Umphumela uzothintana ngqo nokuziphatha, ngakho-ke ingane yakho izokwazi ukulawula lapho ithatha isinqumo sokuthi ifuna ukuqhubeka naleyo ndlela yokuziphatha futhi ihlupheke ngenxa yalokho noma, ithuthukise isimilo sayo futhi ithole ukunconywa ngokwenza kahle. Umphumela omubi kungaba, ngokwesibonelo, ukususa amalungelo.
Futhi khumbula ukuthi isiyalo esihle asisoze samukela ukujeziswa ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo, ngoba lokhu kungaba ukuhlukumeza. Ungafundisa ngaphandle kodlame lwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, futhi futhi ukukwenza kahle kusebenza kangcono kakhulu.