Ungayenza kanjani ingane yami izwane nomlingani wami

Ungayenza kanjani ingane yami izwane nomlingani wami

Ukwehlukana phakathi kwabazali Akusilo ikusasa elijabulisayo lokuthi umndeni onezingane phakathi kungenzeka, yizimo nobudlelwano obubi obuyingozi obunjalo uyenqaba ukuza kulesi simo. Izingane zikholelwa ukuthi kufanele zibhekane nengxenye embi kunazo zonke, kepha ngubaba noma umama okufanele abhekane nesimo esinjalo futhi uma kukhona umuntu othintekayo ufuna ukwabelana nobani i-vid yakhoisipiliyoni singaba nzima kakhulu.

Kuyinkimbinkimbi kulo mqondo ngoba izingane eziningi ezihlala nobaba noma umama abemukeli ukuthi noma ngubani kubo uthatha impilo yakhe Ngomuntu ohlukile kwimvelo, ukubenza bamukele kungaqhamuka nochungechunge lwezinyathelo ezingamukeleka futhi yingakho singeke sikwenze ngendlela elula. Lapha siphakamisa Uchungechunge lwezinyathelo ukuze kungabi yinkimbinkimbi kuwe.

Izinyathelo namathiphu angathathwa

  • Kuyabonakala ukuthi konke kudinga yesikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nezimo nokuningi uma kukhulunywa ngabancane noma abasebasha. Abalokothi bathole okwanele kwe- ukunakwa kwabazali futhi uzama ukubona ukuthi isikhathi kufanele sabelwane ngaso ngokwengxenye nabanye abantu, kusobala ukuthi lesi simo singakwazi kubo kungakhungathekisa.
  • Ukuhlangana kokuqala phakathi kwalaba ababili ukuze kungabi nengcindezi kungcono kwenze ngokwethukela. Kufanele ukhethe ifayela le- indawo ethule nejabulisayo, njalo ngokuhambisana nokusebenza kwengqondo kwengane futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukwethula umlingani wakho njengomngane.

Ungayenza kanjani ingane yami izwane nomlingani wami

  • Ngesikhathi somhlangano gcina ingane noma izingane zakho ezingxoxweni ezifanayo futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke zama ukungathintani ngokomzimba, ikakhulukazi ukuqabula noma ukuphulula
  • Ukuqhubeka nemihlangano elandelayo, kubalulekile ukukuveza lokho akuvamile kakhulu ekuqaleni, ngale ndlela awufaki umuzwa enganeni wokuzizwa udingisiwe, izikhathi naye noma nabo kufanele ziqhubeke ngokujwayelekile ngaphakathi komugqa ohambisanayo.
  • Zama yenza izinto ngokwemvelo ebaluleke kakhulu, uhlaziya i-psychology yezingane futhi uyenze nge-intuition enhle kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kwabo bobabili, ukuthi izingane zizama ukuqonda lesi simo ngendlela emnene nokuthi umlingani omusha naye uyaqondakala ngendima yakhe entsha.
  • Uzwela kuyingxenye yokuxhumana okuhle phakathi kwawo wonke umuntu. Uma usiqonda isimo sabo, imizwa yabo nemizwa yabo kulula kakhulu kune uyakwazi ukukuqonda. Zama ukuthola ukuthi yini engakuthonya kakhulu futhi ifuna izixazululo ezihambisanayo zezinkinga zabo. Kujwayelekile ukuthi bacabange ukuthi kukhona ozothatha isikhundla sikamama noma ubaba nokuthi ukusabela kwabo kokuqala kokungaziwa kuzobanika ukungazethembi nokwesaba. Kufanele udlulise ukuphepha esimweni esinjalo.

Ungayenza kanjani ingane yami izwane nomlingani wami

  • Kukhona lokho gcina imikhuba efanayo njengasekuqaleni eziye zenziwa zonke izimpilo zabo, kufanele ukwandisa ubukhona negunya ukuthi umbhangqwana omusha ungakwenza ngaphandle kwe- kancane kancane futhi ngokwemvelo, Uma lowo muntu ebeka izinkambiso noma izitayela ezintsha futhi igunya lakhe ligqame ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye, impumelelo yakhe cishe ayiqinisekisiwe.
  • Ungaphazamisi impilo yansuku zonke, Impilo yomndeni kufanele iqhubeke nakho konke okujwayelekile, yilowo nalowo kufanele ahloniphe indawo yomuntu ngamunye, sithola incazelo yokuthi mhlawumbe ngokuzayo kuzoba khona omunye endlini nokuthi izizathu zethu kanye nokuhlanganiswa okusha akudingeki ukuthi kube ngendlela ebabazekayo . Qala izikhathi zokwabelana kokudla noma ukulala ubusuku obubodwa ekhaya kungaba isiqalo esincane sokwamukela ingxenye yalesi setha esisha.

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.