Okunye okukhathaza kakhulu bonke ubaba nomama ukuthi izingane zabo zikhula ngokuzethemba okuhle. Ukwenza izingane zizethembe kuyinkimbinkimbi. Abazali abaningi bakhetha ukugubha ngokweqile, okungukuthi, ukugubha noma yini eyenziwa yindodana noma indodakazi yabo. Lokhu, kunokuba kubanikeze ukuzethemba, kungadala umphumela ohlukile.
Ukuncoma konke okwenziwa indodana noma indodakazi yakho akuyona indlela engcono yokwakha ukuzethemba.. Okokuqala, kufanele ubasize babe nekhono emhlabeni. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele uvumele izingane zibeke engcupheni, zithathe izinqumo futhi zixazulule izinkinga zodwa. Ake sibheke ezinye izeluleko zokuthi izingane zikhule zizethemba.
Okufanele ukwenze ukwenza izingane zakho zizethembe
Ukusiza izingane zikhule zizethemba, singabheka lolu hlu olufushane ku basize ukuzethemba kwabo ngaphandle kokuba yizingane ezonakele:
- Zizwe ukhethekile. Kubalulekile ukusiza izingane ukuthi zithole ezazo amathalente nezimfanelo, futhi ikakhulukazi ukuwazisa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele ubafundise ukuthi bazizwe bekhethekile ngenxa yezimfanelo zabo, kodwa hhayi ngenxa yalokho ukuze bazizwe bengcono noma bephakeme kunabanye.
- Zibekele imigomo. Kubalulekile futhi ukufundisa izingane ukuthi zisebenzele izinhloso ezibambekayo, ezingafinyeleleka, futhi zizizwe ziziqhenya lapho zizifeza.
- Ukungadikibali. Ngeke bafeze izinhloso zabo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukubakhuthaza ukuthi baqhubeke nokuzama kuze kube yilapho bekwenza, baphikelele. Uma bengazifezi izinhloso zabo ngenye indlela, bazoyizuza ngenye uma bengayeki. Ngale ndlela bazofunda nokubhekana nomuzwa wokukhungatheka, kanye nowokunqoba izithiyo.
Ukulandela lolu hlu, ake sibone amanye amathiphu okuthi izingane zikhule zizethemba.
Ukuncoma izingane ngokweqile kwenza okubi kunokulunga
Kunconywa ukuncoma izingane nganoma yini eziyenzayo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi, ngokungazikhetheli, sehlisa umugqa kubo, okungukuthi, sithumela umyalezo wokuthi awudingi ukwenza umzamo ngoba yonke into oyenzayo uyenza kahle. Kepha Ukuzethemba kuvela ekwenzeni, ekuzameni, ekuhlulekeni nasekuzameni futhi, okungukuthi, ekusebenzeni.
Futhi, ukumtshela njalo ukuthi ungcono kunabo bonke, uhlakaniphile, muhle kunabo bonke, konke… konke, kumenzela isimanga esingajabulisi ngokuzayo. A) Yebo ingane iba ngumuntu ocabangayo ocabanga ukuthi konke akwenzayo kuhamba phambili, futhi lapho uthola ukuthi lokhu akunjalo, kungakudalela okuhle izindaba zokuzithemba.
Ukubancoma ngokweqile kungabenza bacabange ukuthi baphelele, noma ukuthi kufanele bahlale bephelele, into engenakwenzeka. Lapho ingane inconywa noma ngabe yenze okuthile okungalungile, ingane iyazi ukuthi iyenza kabi kepha isathola ihlombe, futhi lokhu kuyayidida. Ngale ndlela funda ukungathembi imizwa yakho, nokuthi ukuncoma akulutho ngaphandle kwamanga.
Nokho, ukudumisa okusetshenziswe kahle kuyinsika ebalulekile yokuzethemba. Lokho wukuthi, ungadumisi noma yini eyenziwa yingane. Uma izingane zakho zinenkinga yokufeza okuthile, ukuzibabaza kujwayelekile ngoba zizobe zikutholile. Lokhu kuzoqinisa ukuzethemba kwakho kakhulu kunokuncoma njalo.
Vumela izingane zakho zenze izinqumo zokuqiniseka ngokwazo
Izingane akufanele zisindiswe kuzo zonke izimo eziyingozi ezihlangabezana nazo. Izingane kufanele zenze izinqumo ngokwazo, futhi zifunde ukuzibophezela kuzo. Uma abazali ngaso sonke isikhathi bethatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngezinqumo zabo ezimbi, lapho-ke abafundi futhi ngeke babe nandaba nokuzibeka engcupheni becabanga ukuthi abazali babo bazobe bekhona ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo.
Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho encane ifuna amanzi futhi ithatha ujeke noma ibhodlela lokufaka ingilazi, kodwa likhulu kakhulu futhi lisinda kuye, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi iwuthele bese iwugcwalisa wonke ngamanzi. Kulesi simo, abazali abaningi bebejaha ukuthola ibhodlela noma ujeke ukugwema inhlekelele. Kepha uma ingane ithela amanzi, bese ihlanza ukungcola okudalile ngesinqumo sayo esibi, funda ukuthi lapho ungakwazi ukwenza okuthile, ungacela usizo kubantu abadala.
Khuthaza izingane zakho ukuba ziqedele imisebenzi ukuze zizethembe
Ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwabo, izingane badinga amathuba okukhombisa amakhono abo futhi bazizwe ukuthi usizo lwabo lubalulekile. Izinto ezilula njengokulungisa ikamelo lakho, ukwendlala umbhede, ukubeka itafula, njll. kukhona imisebenzi elula zazo ezingazibambela kuzo futhi zizizwe ziwusizo. Futhi, ngezikhathi ezithile, ungabacela usizo lapho wenza ukudla noma uyothenga isinkwa, futhi ubonge ukuze bazi ukuthi basizile kakhulu.
Ukubakhuthaza ukuthi bathathe imisebenzi abakhombisa ukuyithakasela nokwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi bayayiqedela kungenye indlela yokukhulisa ukuzethemba kwabo. Isibonelo, uma bekhono kwezemidlalo, bakhuthaze ukuthi bathuthukise ukusebenza kwabo, badlale umdlalo wevidiyo, noma badwebe okuthile abakuthandayo. Umgomo kuleli cala uwukuthi ukuthi baqala into abayithandayo futhi abayishiyi phakathi, ukuze bezwe ukwaneliseka ngokufinyelela umgomo.
Okufanele ukwenze lapho izingane zehluleka
Lapho ukuzethemba kwezingane kwehla ngokungakutholi abakufunayo, abazali bayasaba. Kunengqondo ukukhathazeka ngokucabanga ukuthi bazolahlekelwa ukuzethemba kwabo, kepha empeleni kuyithuba lokuthi izingane zisize ukulihlakulela. Ngakho-ke, ungethuki uma lokhu kwenzeka, kungcono ukusebenzisa la macebiso alandelayo.
Kwenze kucace ukuthi uthando lwakho alunamibandela
Yenza ingane yakho ikuqonde lokho ukwehluleka noma ukwenza amaphutha akuliphazamisi, nokuthi kwenzekani kithi sonke. Ungacabanga ukuthi ngokwehluleka kokunye ubeka phansi abantu obathandayo, ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi balindele lukhulu ngokufeza kwakho. Lokhu kuzokudala ukuthi ulahlekelwe yithemba lokuthi ungowakho, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukwehlisa izinga lokwehluleka kwakho. Umsebenzi ukumenza abone ukuthi ukwenzile abengakwenza, nokuthi imiphumela izoba ngcono kakhulu ngokuzayo, ngoba ufundile emaphutheni akhe.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane ikubone lokho ngaphezu komphumela, okubalulekile ngumsebenzi owenzile ukuzama ukufeza inhloso yakho, nakho konke akufundile, Futhi ngalokho, abazali bakhe bayaziqhenya ngomzamo wakhe. Lokhu, okungenzeka kube yiqiniso, kuzokwenza ingane ibone ukuzethemba kwayo kuqiniswa, futhi ithole amandla okuqhubeka izame ize ifinyelele inhloso yayo.
Qiniseka ukuthi imigomo yezingane zakho iyenzeka ngempela
Kwesinye isikhathi izingane zibeka imigomo engafinyeleleki futhi lokhu kubangela ukuthi izinga lokukhungatheka kwazo likhule ngokushaqisayo. Ngakho-ke ukubaluleka kwabazali ukuba nentshisekelo kulokho izingane zabo ezifuna ukukufeza. Ukuzizwa unakekelwa futhi uqondiswa abazali kuzokwenza ukuzethemba kwakho kuqine. Noma izingane zithatha umthwalo ngezinqumo zazo, noma ngabe ziyaphumelela noma cha, futhi yonke indlela eya ekufezekisweni kwezinhloso zayo, abazali bazo bahlala bekhona.
Ukuzwa ukusekelwa ngabazali babo kuzoqinisa ukuzethemba kwabo. Ngakho-ke, umhlahlandlela wakho ubalulekile. Uma ubona ukuthi izingane zakho zinemigomo engafinyeleleki, zikhuthaze ukuthi zicabange ukuthi ngaphambi kokufeza lokho ezikufunayo, zingazuza impumelelo encane endleleni, ezizisondeza kulokho ezikufisa kakhulu.