Ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 inyusa isilulumagama sayo… kanjalo namagama ayo amabi!

Ukuthukuthela ezinganeni ezincane

Izingane ezineminyaka engu-4 zinekhono elihle lokukhulisa ulwazimagama lwazo, bafana nezipanji ezincane eziphinda konke ezizwayo. Kepha njengoba befunda amagama amasha, bafunda amagama amabi futhi bavame ukuwasebenzisa lapho bekhungathekile, bethukuthele, bedumazekile noma bengenandaba, bengazi ukuthi basho ukuthini ... Kepha lapho belalela abantu abadala balingisa la magama ezimeni ezifanayo.

Lapho izingane ezineminyaka emi-4 zandisa amagama wazo kubaluleke kakhulu kubo, kepha uma besebenzisa amagama amabi, kufanele kubhekwane kanjani nalokhu? Kunabazali abangabanaki, abanye abasebenzisa imiphumela bathatha amalungelo, abanye bachaza ukuthi ngamagama okungafanele ashiwo ngoba amabi ... Kepha ezikhathini eziningi nangenxa yokungavuthwa kwezingane kulesi sikhathi, Ukuziphatha okunamagama amabi kuyaqhubeka, ngakho-ke kungabonakala kulimaza futhi kungahloniphi.

Izingane ezineminyaka engu-4 zinzima

Izingane ezineminyaka emine zidume kanzima. Mayelana nentuthuko, basempambanweni. Amakhono akhe olimi, kanye nokukwazi kwakhe ukuxhumana nezidingo zakhe nalokho akufunayo, kuqhuma ngokugcwele. Bangakwazi ukunaka imiyalo eminingi futhi bayiqonde. Amakhono abo ezimoto abenza bakwazi ukuhamba emhlabeni kalula futhi lokhu kungakwenza ukuthi ubeke amehlo ayinkulungwane kubo ukuze ugweme izingozi (abangaziboni).

Ngala makhono akhulisiwe olimi, saqala ukubona izingane ezineminyaka emine zisuka entukuthelweni nasendlwini engasho lutho ukubiza ukushaya izingcingo nezingcingo ezinkulu zokunakwa. Kungani? Ngoba ingane iyakhungatheka lapho okuthile kungasebenzi noma kungahambi ngendlela efuna ngayo. Ukungatholi uswidi ngaphambi kokudla kwakusihlwa kuyisibonelo esihle. Ingane yakho ayinakho ukuvuthwa ukuqonda ukuthi ushukela ngaphambi kokudla kwakusihlwa akunampilo. Lapho othile ehlangabezana nokukhungatheka, kuvela izinketho ezimbili: shintsha okucasulayo noma ukwamukele bese uzivumelanisa nezimo. Lokhu komntwana oneminyaka engu-4 kunzima kakhulu.

Intombazane eneminyaka engu-4 ithukuthele

Veza ukungakhululeki kwakho ngamazwi

Lapho izingane ezineminyaka engu-4 zisebenzisa ulimi olubi ukuze unake, kungenxa yokuthi intukuthelo yazo isezingeni eliphakeme. Ingane, njengoba isencane futhi ingavuthiwe, ingasebenzisa inhlamba ukuveza ulaka lwayo futhi iphushe ukubekezela kwakho kuze kube semkhawulweni. Kuyafana nokuthi uthi 'cha' enganeni eneminyaka emibili eshaya enye noma ethatha ithoyizi ... Uzokhala amemeze ngoba ukuphela kwendlela angazwakalisa ngayo intukuthelo yakhe. 

Uma ingane yakho ikutshela ukuthi iyakuzonda, kungakulimaza, kepha khumbula ukuthi ayazi ukuthi lawo magama asho ukuthini futhi ayikuzwa lokho ekushoyo. Kungenzeka wethuke kancane, noma lapho ekutshela ukuthi ungumuntu omubi ngokungazifezi izifiso zakhe. Kubheke kanjena: ulungiselela iminyaka yakho yobusha.

Ungathathi mathupha

Cha, ungayithathi mathupha ngoba akunjalo. Ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 ifunda ukuveza imizwa yayo futhi ihambise imizwa enamandla kakhulu, kepha idinga ukuthi ukwazi ukuqonda lokho ezizwa ngakho futhi ukwazi ukubeka amagama afanele emizweni yayo. Futhi, uma kunezinto ezidinga ukulungiswa ukuze zizizwe zingcono, kufanele ubasize bathole izixazululo ezihamba phambili zalesi simo.

Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi kunezinyathelo ongazithatha ukunciphisa lezi zinkinga nokuthi lapho ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 isebenzisa ulimi olubi, Ungamsiza athole okungcono kakhulu futhi, angaqonda ukuthi uzizwa kanjani. Ngakho-ke lapho uqonda ukuthi kwenzekani kuwe, ngeke ube nesidingo sokusebenzisa ulaka ngamazwi.

Okufanele ukwenze uma ingane yakho isho amagama amabi

Ungaweli ogibeni

Lapho ingane yakho ikubiza ngegama noma ikuthuka, icabanga ukuthi ubona ukuqhuma kokukhungatheka futhi usebenzisa ukucabanga okunengqondo ... Ukusebenzisa isijeziso noma ukufumbathisa kuzokhulisa ukukhungatheka kwengane yakho futhi inkinga izokwanda. Okufanele ukwenze ukubamba isimo ngaphandle kokuzama ukukhulisa ukukhungatheka kwengane yakho ... Enye indlela yokwenza lokhu ukungalinaki lelo gama futhi usize ingane yakho ukuphatha leyo mizwa enamandla. 


Udinga ukuphatha imizwa yakho

Uma uwela ogibeni lokuthukuthela ngoba ingane yakho isebenzisa ulimi olubi, noma uyijezisa ngokwenza lokho, uzomane ukhuphule ukukhungatheka kwayo ngoba ayiqondi kahle ukuthi kungani izizwa ngale ndlela futhi izobona kuphela ukuthi nguwe engamqondi. Ngokwesibonelo, Ungatshela ingane yakho ukuthi ngeke uye epaki ngenxa yokuziphatha okuthile akwenzile, kepha hhayi ngenxa yamagama asetshenzisiwe ukuveza ulaka lwakhe. Msize aqambe leyo mizwa futhi athole izixazululo ndawonye.

Nciphisa ukukhungatheka kwabo lapho kungenzeka

Ukunciphisa ukukhungatheka kwezingane akusho ukuthi akufanele ube nezinga elithile lokukhungatheka empilweni yakho yansuku zonke. Ukukhungatheka kubalulekile ekukhuleni okulinganiselayo kwezingane, imithamo emincane yokukhungatheka izobasiza ekutholeni izixazululo zezinkinga zabo futhi bazethembe.

Lapho ungalindela izidingo zezingane zakho futhi wazi ukuthi zifunani ngaphambi kokuba zikubuze, uzozizwa ukhululeke kakhudlwana kepha futhi uzokwazi ukubhekana namandla lapho ubhekene nokukhungatheka kwazo. Kepha ungalokothi unikeze izidingo zakhe lapho esathukuthele ngoba lapho uzofunda ukuthi ukudinwa kuyadingeka ukuze uthole lokho akufunayo.

Ukukhungatheka okuhle kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqina

Ukukhungatheka okuncane nokufuna izixazululo kungasiza izingane ukuthi zikwazi ukwamukela ukwehluleka noma izithiyo zokuphila futhi zilwe nazo. Njengoba uqhubeka nokugcina imikhawulo nemithetho ekhaya, ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 izoqhubeka 'nokudonsa intambo' ngokuziphatha kwakho namazwi, kepha ukuhlala uqine (kusuka ekuqondisweni okuhle) kuzokusiza uqhubeke nendlela yokuqina, kubalulekile empumelelweni esikhathini esizayo.

Ukuhloniphana ebudlelwaneni bomzali nengane kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze izingane zizizwe ziqondakala futhi ziphephile ngaso sonke isikhathi.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.