Imvamisa izingane ezikhuthele kakhulu zinenkinga enkulu yokunaka kunezizolile, futhi azaziwa nakancane. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ingane yakho ayisho lutho, noma ngabe izolile. Kuneziningana ezenza noma ngubani angabi nakwazi, kufaka phakathi ukungadli kahle nokuntuleka kwezakhamzimba.
Ukungabi nokuhlushwa, ukungabi nalwazi, kuba yinkinga uma kukuthinta endaweni yesikole futhi ukusebenza kwayo kunciphile. Kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kuphazamiseka kungabathinta futhi ukuxhumana nabanye abangane, ukuqonda nokukhumbula imithetho yomdlalo. Sizokunikeza amathiphu okusiza ingane yakho igxile futhi ithuthukise ukusebenza kwayo.
Kungani ingane yakho ingazi lutho?
Into yokuqala futhi eyisisekelo ukuthi chaza inkinga yengane yakho yokunganaki. Ake sithi kuye ngokuthi kunqunyelwe indlela, kuzoba lula ukusetha izinhloso okufanele zifezeke. Iseluleko sokuqala ukuthi ungahluleli, noma umphathe njengesilima, lokhu kuzogxila enkingeni kuphela futhi kulimaze ukuzethemba kwakhe.
Izingane zimunca wonke amandla avela emvelweni, Khuluma naye uthole imbangela yeziphazamiso zakhe. Njengoba ubhekene nesikhathi esiphikisanayo ekhaya, isimo nabangane noma esikoleni nakho kungathinta ukugxila kwakho. Le ngxoxo izodala ukwethembana nezibopho phakathi kwakho, okuzokusiza ukumisa iziphazamiso zakho.
Amanye amaphuzu okufanele uwagcine engqondweni uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho isuka ekubeni yinto engenalutho iye ekubeni nokushoda kokunakwa futhi i-hyperactivity yilezi: ayinaki imininingwane, inika umuzwa wokuthi ayilaleli lapho kukhulunywa nayo. Imvamisa wenza amaphutha emsebenzini wesikole. Kunzima kuye ukuzihlela, ulahlekelwa izinto Ukhohlwa kalula imisebenzi yansuku zonke. Kepha kungungoti okufanele akuneluleke, ungazibizi wena ngomfana noma ngentombazane.
Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukunaka uma ingane yakho ingenalutho?
Omama abaningi bahlobanisa ukungabi namqondo kwezingane zabo nokushoda kokunaka, noma ukukhathazeka ngokweqile, kepha akuzona zonke izingane ezingenayo inqondo. Lapho kungekho bufakazi bokuthi ukunganakwa kwengane yakho kungenxa yento ethile yezifo, ungalandela amanye ala macebiso esikunikeza wona:
- Sebenzisa i- isisusaKwenzeka ezinganeni njengoba kwenzeka nakubantu abadala, esikuthanda kakhulu yilokho esikunaka kakhulu.
- Kukhuthaza kuye lokho akuthandayo.
- Prakthiza imidlalo ezithanda ukunakwa nokugxila kwakho. Kwesinye isikhathi sikhulume ngabo njengemibhangqwana, sifuna umdwebo eshidini, umehluko ...
- Mnikeze ifayili le- imiyalelo eyodwa ngesikhathi. Ngale ndlela ngeke uphazanyiswe ukucabanga ngama-oda amaningi ngasikhathi sinye.
Futhi ekugcineni futhi ilusizo kakhulu kuyo yonke iminyaka, faka usizo, njengokunamathisela isixubho emnyango wokugezela. Noma yenza uhlu lwezinto ezibalulekile okufanele uzenze ngesonto bese ulinamathisela ngokusobala. Mkhuthaze ukuthi ahlukanise osekwenziwe.
Ungayisiza kanjani ingane engenalwazi ekusebenzeni kwayo esikoleni?
Kwesinye isikhathi izingane ezingenalwazi zenza umsebenzi wesikole zingaqondi ukuthi kungani noma kanjani, bese uzama ukuwukhumbula. Kulokhu kuzoba khona amasu wokutadisha zizofika zilusizo. Ungakhuluma nothisha wakho akusize. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi angayixazulula, kepha uyaphazamiseka angaqedi, ngoba nje enovalo noma ngoba efuna ukuyodlala.
Kokunye, izingane ziyadideka ngoba baba nesithukuthezi ngomsebenzi wesikole noma bengashukunyiswa. Uma kunje, zimisele imigomo emisha, okumele ayinakekele kakhulu futhi njengoba eyifeza, aklomelise impumelelo yakhe. Kungumqondo omuhle ukuphinda ngokuzwakalayo lokho okufanele ukuqedele. Isibonelo, yithi: Kufanele ngenze i-eseyi ku-Titanic. Sengathi uzi-oda yena.
Futhi ezinganeni ezingenalwazi kunconywa lokho yenza umsebenzi wesikole ngemuva komzamo othile, okungcono kunangemva kokuphumula. Uma kunezinkinga zokuhlushwa, ukusebenzisa amandla akho omzimba ngemidlalo noma ngomdlalo owuthandayo kuzokusiza ukuthi ungabi nalwazi kangako. Unezinye izeluleko ku- Lesi sihloko.