Kunoma yimuphi umzali, ukubhekana nesimo lapho ingane ingafuni ukutadisha kungadambisa futhi kube nzima ukuphatha. Noma ngubani onengane umfunela okuhle, izifundo ezihamba phambili ukuze ukwazi ukuthola umsebenzi ongcono kakhulu. Ukuba nempilo enhle kuncike ezingeni elikhulu noma elincane ekubeni nokuzinza kwezomnotho nasemsebenzini.
Ngalesi sizathu, noma yimuphi ubaba noma umama ulwela ukuthi izingane zabo ziqede izifundo zazo. Lokhu kungaholela kubafana abafuna ngokweqile. Ngoba ngaphandle kokwazi ngokuphelele, izingane kulindeleke ukuthi zithobele ngokukhungatheka okunqwabelana kuyo yonke impilo.
Lokhu kuholela ezimweni eziningi ukulindela okuthile izingane eziningi ezingakulungele, futhi ukungazinaki izifiso zazo kungakwenza ngolunye usuku uhlangabezana nesimo sokuthi indodana yakho ayifuni ukufunda. Okufanele ukwenze, ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalesi simo, ungayisiza kanjani ingane ithole ugqozi, noma ukuthi ungamfundisa kanjani ukutadishaAkuyona imibuzo elula ukuyiphendula ngoba ingane ngayinye yehlukile. Kepha kukhona amathiphu ongazama ukuwaqonda futhi usize ingane engafuni ukufunda.
Kungani indodana yami ingafuni ukufunda?
Izimbangela eziholela ekutheni ingane ingafuni ukufunda zingahluka kakhulu, ngoba ziningi izinto ezingenelela kulesi simo. Isimo lapho ingane ikhula khona, ubudlelwano nontanga yabo (uma bukhona) ngaphakathi ekhaya, okungukuthi, izingane zakwabo, indlela yabo yokuxhumana nomphakathi noma imvelo yesikole, phakathi kokunye. Noma kunjalo, izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zokwenqaba ukufunda imvamisa kuba ngabalandelayo.
- Izinkinga ezahlukahlukene zokufunda. Zonke izingane azifundi ngesilinganiso esifanayo futhi lapho kungatholakali ukuthi eyodwa isalela emuva, ubunzima buyanda. Nini ingane iyabona ukuthi ayifundi njengabanye, ivame ukuhoxa, iqala ukuthuthukisa inkinga yokuzethemba. Ngakho-ke, ukuthola ubunzima bokufunda kubalulekile ukuze unikeze ukusekelwa okudingwa yingane.
- Ukuqinela abanye. Ingane nayo ingaba nobunzima bokuhlobene nezinye izingane. Ukuxhashazwa kunoma yiliphi ibanga laso, mhlawumbe isithiyo esibi enganeni ukuze ithuthukise wonke amakhono ayo. Ukuntuleka kokuphepha, ukwesaba nokukhathazeka okuza ngokuhlukunyezwa ontanga yabo, kudala inkinga enkulu yokuzethemba okumele itholwe ngokushesha okukhulu.
- Ingane ayinaso isisusa. Lokhu yinto abazali abaningi abangayinaki, izingane zidinga intshisekelo yokwenza umsebenzi wazo, okungukufunda. Ezinganeni eziningi, ukutadisha kufanele, kuyadina futhi mhlawumbe okuncane noma akukho okuphathelene nalokho abanentshisekelo kukho. Lokhu kuyinto okufanele izuzwe ekhaya, kepha ungayenza kanjani?
Ungayikhuthaza kanjani ingane engafuni ukufunda
Ngokuvamile izingane zilahlekelwa isithakazelo ezifundweni lapho ziba zimbi ngokwengeziwe, okungukuthi, lapho bedlula isigaba sezinsana futhi yonke into iba amanothi nemiphumela yezinombolo. Ngenkathi zifunda ngokudlala, izingane zikhombisa intshisekelo, zibuze, futhi zijabule ngenkathi zithola ukuthi indawo ezisebenza kuyo isebenza kanjani. Uma ungenza ukutadisha kube mnandi kakhulu noma kujabulise, ingane yakho izokhuthazeka ngokufunda.
Ngalokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali babambe iqhaza ezifundweni nasezintshisweni zezingane zabo. Ngoba kubalulekile ukwazi izingane ukwazi ukuthi zingaziqondisa kanjani ngendlela efanele. Uma indodana noma indodakazi yakho inentshisekelo kumculo, imfashini, i-Intanethi, ukupheka noma ezemidlalo, isibonelo, sebenzisa lezi zithakazelo njengethuluzi lokukhuthaza izifundo zabo. Njalo ngenhlonipho, ngaphandle kokubaphoqa ukuthi benze okuthile ngoba.
Izingane zidinga ukwazi ukuthi konke okufundayo kwenzelwa ini esikoleni, ngoba ukuchitha amahora amaningi kangaka ezimpilweni zabo bezinikele ekutadisheni bengazi ukuthi ukuphela kuyini, nakho kuyimbangela yokwaliwa kwezifundo. Thola ukuthi yini imbangela yengane yakho engafuni ukufunda nokubhekana nayo ngokwemvelo. Lalela ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga zakhe futhi umsize ukuze nobabili, nithole indlela efanele.