Ngabe ingane yakho iphikelela ukungena embhedeni wakho njalo ebusuku noma yenqaba ukulala uma ingekho kumama noma kubaba? Kuningi izimbangela Okwenza izingane zingafuni ukulala zodwa, ngoba sezijwayele ukukwenza egumbini labazali bazo noma ekulaleni ngokuhlanganyela, ukwesaba okusha noma okudala, noma ukubuyela emuva, okungabangelwa ingane yakini esanda kuzalwa.
Kukhona izindlela ezingamakhulu zokuthola ingane yakho ukuba iphinde ilale yodwa futhi, Noma ukuthi uyakwenza okokuqala, kepha into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuqina ozibonakalisa ngakho, nokuthi ungalilahli ithemba. Izingane zingongoti ekutholeni indlela yazo, uma uqiniseka ukuthi kufanele zilale ekamelweni lazo, ungakhathazeki.
Indlela ejwayelekile yokulala wedwa, yebo noma cha?
El Indlela ejwayelekile Kungenzeka ukuthi iyona eyaziwa kakhulu futhi enempikiswano enkulu, ngokuqondiswa kwezigwegwe, ukwenza indodana noma indodakazi yakho ilale yodwa. Lokhu, njengamanye amasu kunjalo abaziphatha. Inhloso ukuthi izingane zifunde ukulala zodwa egumbini lazo, zisebenzisa izinto ezingezinhle noma ezijezisayo, isibonelo ukungazinaki uma zikhale. I- okubucayi Le ndlela, ebonakala inemiphumela esheshayo, ihlanjalazwa ngemiphumela emibi engaba khona esikhathini eside esizayo.
Ngokufingqa, nangendlela elula, lokho eza ukusitshela ukuthi uma ufuna ukuthi ingane ilale yodwa, kufanele gwema zonke izinto ezibandakanya ukungenelela kwe- a umuntu omdala. Awudingi ukuyinyakazisa, ukuxhawula isandla, ukuyicula, ukuhamba ngayo, ukuyiphulula, ukuyondla, noma iphutha elikhulu kangaka! akubeke embhedeni wabazali.
Ezinye iziphakamiso ezisebenza kangcono, futhi ezidinga ukubekezela okwengeziwe, ukuzinikeza imizila evela othandweni nasekuqondeni okuvamile. Noma ikuphi ukufunda, nokulala wedwa, kuyasebenza kakhulu uma kuneziqinisi isisusa esihle.
Amaqhinga namasu okuthola ukuthi ulale wedwa
Sinezihloko ezinamaqhinga, kepha empeleni ziluchungechunge lwe- i-herramientas ongayisebenzisa ukukholisa indodana noma indodakazi yakho ukuthi kungcono kakhulu ukulala wedwa kunombhede womama nobaba. Lokhu kucabanga ukuthi ngaphambi kokuba alale ekamelweni lakho nalokhu kwehlukana kwenzeke.
Ungamchazela ukuthi ulele egumbini lakhe sizoba nesikhala esithe xaxa futhi kuzoba isikhala sakho nje. Kungakusiza nokuthi ukhethe ukuthi ufuna kanjani. Uma ungenalo ikamelo lakhe yedwa, kodwa ulabelana nengane yakini, ngokwesibonelo, ungachaza ukuthi kumnandi kanjani ukuba negumbi lenu nobabili.
Ungamnika imvume, ngokulinganisela ukuze yenza embhedeni wakhe lokho ongamvumeli akwenze kowakho. Angafunda isikhashana ngaphambi kokuya kucisha ugesi, alale ngethoyizi, njll.
Uma usebenzisa nengane yakho ifayela le- uhlelo lokukhuthaza, ngokuhlanganyela vumelanani umklomelo wokufinyelela isonto ukulala nodwa, noma isikhathi enisibekile.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi kwenzeke cishe iminyaka emibili amaphupho amabi, kujwayelekile, lokhu kungenxa yomcabango ochumayo kulesi sikhathi nokwesaba okungokwemvelo kobumnyama. Kulokhu sincoma ukuthi ushiye ilambu elingaqondile ngqo. Kungaba yileyo ephaseji noma kushiye isigamu esingaboni sidwetshiwe.
Iminyaka iyahamba futhi indodana yami namanje ayifuni ukulala yodwa
Kwesinye isikhathi abafana namantombazane amadala, sixoxa ngawo iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-4, baqhubeka nomqondo wokuthi bangalali bodwa, nabazali bayanikezela. Kuyisihloko esinzima ukusiphatha, lapho lo mbhangqwana nawo ulahlekelwa ukusondelana futhi ingathinteka. Uma ubona ukuthi awukwazi ukuyisingatha, unganqikazi ukuya kochwepheshe. Wena nengane yakho niyokuthokozela.
Abazali abaningi bayanikezela, kuthi ubusuku nobusuku banqume ukushintshana bagcine ngokulala embhedeni nengane ize ilale. Noma kunjalo ngakusasa ukudana kusale. Yilapho-ke lapho kufanele ume uqinile.