Izinsuku eziseduze noKhisimusi yizinsuku ezithandekayo lapho kukhona injabulo, yizikhathi lapho kufanele ziphile ngamandla, ngobumnene futhi kusenza sibonise uthando lwethu kubantu abaseduze kakhulu namalungu omndeni aqondile. Siphila esikhathini lapho mhlawumbe i-syndrome yesihlalo esingenalutho ngoKhisimusi ibuye ikhonjiswe ngodaba lweCovid-19, ngoba kubhekwa nguHulumeni ukuphetha eminye imikhawulo yalezi zinsuku.
Kunabantu abaningi abawazisayo amagugu amelelwa yilezi zinsuku futhi ngokuqinisekile asikwazi ukujabulela abantu esibathandayo, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokufa noma ngenxa yokuma kukahulumeni ukunciphisa izifo. Noma kunjalo, ngaphezulu kwendlu eyodwa ihlela ukuphathwa yisitulo esingenalutho.
Siyini isitulo esingenalutho?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela isifo sesihlalo esingenalutho kulezi zikhathi zenjabulo enkulu, njengemihlangano ekudleni noma esidlweni sasemini ngalezi zinsuku ezikhethekile. Ukungabikho kwalowo muntu kubangela usizi ngokwengqondo nesizungu esikhulu. Indlela esichaze ngayo ayenzeki kuphela lapho umuntu ehlupheka, kepha futhi nangenxa yokungabikho kothile, nganoma yisiphi isizathu.
Ngabe kwenzeka njalo ngoKhisimusi?
Ngokuvamile leli gama lihlotshaniswa nomusho SIsihlalo esingenalutho ngoKhisimusi. Kuhambisana nobuhlungu ngenxa yokungabi bikho kwalowo muntu kulezi zinsuku futhi cishe u-5% wabantu bahlupheka kahle ngenxa yokulahlekelwa othandekayo. Yize lokhu kungenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungahle kube njalo ukungabikho komuntu osaphila.
Ngalezi zinsuku ezibalulekile kungenzeka ukuzwa ukungabikho ngendlela ebuhlungu ikakhulukazi lapho kunelungu lomndeni ozizwa unamathele kulo futhi unobudlelwano obuqinile. Olunye lwezinsuku ezibaluleke kakhulu esingazibona ngosuku olwandulela unyaka omusha. Ukungena konyaka omusha kukwenza ubone lokho kubonga kokufuna ukuhlanganyela lowo mzuzu nalabo osondelene nabo.
UKhisimusi uvame ukuhlotshaniswa nenjabulo, uthando nokuzwana, into ebesiyibona kusukela ebuntwaneni bethu. Kepha akuwona wonke umuntu obona lezi zinsuku njengezinto ezithandekayo, ama-33% abantu baseSpain angawuthandi uKhisimusi, yingakho ama-27% ethi awuwuthandi kancane kanti amanye ama-6% awuzonda uKhisimusi kuzo zonke izici zawo.
Yini engenza i-chair chair syndrome ingasebenzi?
Kulezi zinsuku kuthatha ukuvelela okukhulu nokuqina ukuzizwa ungekho yomuntu. Izingane nazo zingakuzwa lokho kuswela lapho zibona ukuthi abanye abazala noma izihlobo eziseduze azikho ukuze zizwe uKhisimusi ngokugcwele, futhi zabelane ngakho konke okutholakala kukho.
Kwenzeka okufanayo kuwo wonke umndeni lapho asikwazanga ukuhlanganyela kulezi zinsuku nabathandekayo bethu. Ngalawa macala, kuyadingeka ukucabanga ukuthi, uma bekungeke kube kulo nyaka, kwesinye isikhathi kuzoba njalo futhi ngenxa yalokhu kumele sibhekane noKhisimusi ngenjabulo futhi sijabulele imininingwane yawo.
Isenzakalo esibi kunazo zonke kulapho ukungabikho kuguqulela ukulahlekelwa othandekayo noma bobabili ngokufa, kusukela ngalezi zinsuku kumakwa kakhulu. Lokhu kuguquka kube lusizi olukhulu nosizi, okungaholela ekukhathazekeni nasekuhambeni kwesikhathi ukucindezeleka
Ukubhekana nale duel Kuyalulekwa ukubhekana nalokhu kungabikho ngendlela enhle. Kunzima ukwakha lelo phethini, kepha kuzofanele siqondiswe ekuqiniseni, lelo khono lokubhekana nokushoda kwalowo othandekayo. Kubalulekile hhayi ngokuhlala uhlukanisa inkinga futhi nokuthi kunezikhala ngaso sonke isikhathi sikhumbula lokho kungabikho. Lezi zinsuku zizosisiza ukuthi sikholelwe kumagugu aqinile esizizwa ngawo, sithande othile futhi sazi ukuthi singathwala kanjani isizungu okufanele sihanjiswe.