Empilweni esiyihola nomsebenzi, izibopho nemisebenzi yasekhaya, sinesikhathi esincane sokuzinikela emndenini. Lokhu kubangela ukuthi singakwazi ukujabulela okubaluleke ngempela empilweni. Kepha naphezu kokuphila kwethu okumatasa singaba nesikhathi esezingeni lomndeniukwazi ukuxhumana futhi nabo. Namuhla sikhuluma ngamathiphu wokukufeza.
Siyini isikhathi esisezingeni lomndeni?
Sivame ukudida ikhwalithi nobuningi. Akudingekile ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ukuze kube sezingeni. Imayelana nokubona ukuthi singakanani isikhathi esisichitha ezintweni ezingabalulekile njengokuhlola ukuxhumana kwethu nomphakathi noma ukukhuluma nocingo, futhi nikela isikhathi ezintweni ezibaluleke kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma sinezingane kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi isikhathi sihamba ngokushesha okukhulu nokuthi kufanele sisebenzise wonke umzuzu nazo ukuthi ngeke ziphinde zibuye.
Kumele sihlaziye izinto eziza kuqala ekuphileni kwethu futhi ubone ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezibalulekile nokuthi yiziphi izinto eziphuthumayo. Ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ingqikithi yethu nesikhathi sethu, nokwenza izibopho zethu. Singasisebenzisa kangcono isikhathi sethu ukuze sisebenze kahle futhi sikhuthaze ukuba nomndeni. Imayelana nokuba yisikhathi esinikela ngaso emndenini ukubakhona nokunaka, ngaphandle kokuthi ukunakwa kwethu kuhlukaniswe. Ukuthi noma kukuncane kuhle, ukuhleka nokuzithemba, uthando nezikhathi ezimnandi kwabelwana ngazo. Zizoba izinkumbulo zempilo yonke.
Izingane zidinga isikhathi sekhwalithi
Esinye sezikhalazo sokuthi izingane zinokuningi ukuthi abazali bazo abachithi isikhathi esanele nabo. Abafuni amathoyizi amaningi noma imidlalo yevidiyo, bafuna ukuba nabazali babo futhi bazizwe bethandwa. Lokhu kuqinisa ukuzethemba kwabo, kuthuthukisa ukuxhumana komndeni, kwakha indawo enhle, kusenze sibe nobunye futhi kunciphise izinga lokucindezeleka. Sizizwa singcono futhi lokhu kubonakala kwezinye izingxenye zempilo yethu.
Bonke abazali bafuna ukunikeza okungcono kakhulu ezinganeni zethu futhi ngamasu ambalwa alula esingakuthola. Sizothuthuka kuzo zonke izici, futhi umndeni wethu uzoba umndeni onobunye. Ake sibone ukuthi singakufinyelela kanjani.
Ungasichitha kanjani isikhathi esengeziwe sekhwalithi nomndeni wethu
- Dala izinhlelo ndawonye. Ku-ajenda yethu kufanele kube nesikhathi sokuhlanganyela nomndeni. Kepha hhayi njengesibopho, kepha ukuthi unganikela kanjani isikhathi osukwini lwethu nosuku enhlalakahleni yethu neyalabo esibathanda kakhulu. Ngaphezu kosuku nosuku (funda indaba ezinganeni zakho, zihambise epaki ...) zenzele ndawonye izinhlelo zezinsuku zokuphumula. Izinhlelo ezimnandi lapho wonke umuntu angaba nesikhathi esihle. Isikhathi somndeni sibaluleke kakhulu.
- Yiba khona. Khohlwa ifoni nemisebenzi esalindile okufanele uyenze. Qaphela okwenzayo okwamanje. Sebenzisa wonke umzuzu okufanele ube ndawonye (ukushayela, ngesikhathi sedina, isidlo sasemini,…) ukuxhumana nomndeni wakho. Ungaphuthelwa izinto eziningi ngokungabi lapho.
- Bheka izizathu zokugubha. Kuhlala kunesizathu sokugubha okuthile. Sebenzisa izinsuku ezibekiwe ukwenza okuthile okukhethekile (izinsuku zokuzalwa, abangcwele ...) kanye nokunqoba kwelungu ngalinye lomndeni (ukukhushulwa, ukuvunywa, imigomo yeqiwe ...). Lokhu kuvumela ukuthi kube nobumbano obuningi nokuthi lokho okuzuziwe kungokomndeni wonke.
- Khuluma nomndeni wakho. Futhi hhayi nje belunjani usuku lwakho. Babuze ukuthi ayini amaphupho abo, ukuthi bangathanda ukwenzani, yini izinhloso zabo ... babe nesithakazelo enhlalakahleni yabo kokubili ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Balalele ngokucophelela futhi uzofunda okuningi ngabo nokuthi bangobani.
- Imisebenzi yomndeni. Kunemisebenzi eminingi emnandi ongayenza njengomndeni ngokwalokho okuthandayo. Kungaba yimidlalo yebhodi, imisebenzi yangaphandle efana nokuhamba ngebhayisikili, ukukhempa ... izinto ezikubumbayo nokuthi uzohlala uzikhumbula.
- Dala amasiko omndeni. Ukugaxana uphayinaphu lapho kutholwa okuthile okuhle, ukuhlobisa indlu ngoKhisimusi, ukulungiselela indlu yeHalloween ... amasiko amancane azokuhlanganisa kakhulu.
Ngoba khumbula ... isikhathi yilokho esingabuyi futhi into ebaluleke kakhulu esinayo. Veza umzuzwana nomndeni wakho.