I-Mothers Today iyiwebhusayithi ye-AB ye-Intanethi futhi siyenza ngothando olukhulu, sibhekisa kubo bonke abazali noma abantu abahlobene nomhlaba wezingane nentsha abafuna ukuthola imininingwane ngobumama, ukuba ngubaba, ukuba ngumzali, imfundo, i-psychology yezingane, impilo yezingane, ubuciko , izindlela zokupheka zezingane, imihlahlandlela yezemfundo, amathiphu wabazali, amathiphu othisha ... Ekugcineni, sizinikele ekuhlaziyeni imininingwane ebaluleke kakhulu noma yimuphi umzali, noma noma ngubani onezingane noma intsha ayikhathalelayo, ongayithanda. Siphinde sikhulume ngomndeni, imizwa, isikole, ilukuluku nokunye okuningi.
Ithimba lokubhala lakhiwe ngabantu aba, ngandlela thile, abaxhunywe emhlabeni wezemfundo nokuba ngumama. Kukhethekile ukutshela konke odinga ukukwazi ngokukhulisa izingane zakho. Okuqukethwe esikunikezayo kusezingeni eliphakeme ukuze ube nemininingwane engcono kakhulu onayo. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini esingakhuluma nawe ngayo, vakashela ikhasi lethu izigaba!
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Ukuba ngumzali yizwe elijabulisayo, eligcwele izinselelo ezingasinda kwesinye isikhathi. Uthando lwezingane alunamkhawulo, kepha akwanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuxazulula izingqinamba zansuku zonke. Ukuyithola esikhunjeni sami kwaholela ekutheni ngiphenye kabanzi ngobumama nokuba ngumzali ngenhlonipho. Ukwabelana ngokufunda kwami, kungezwe othandweni lwami lokubhala, sekuyindlela yami yokuphila. NginguToñy futhi ngikuphelezela ezweni elijabulisayo elibizwa ngokuba ngumama. .
Ngingu-Alicia, othanda kakhulu ukuba ngumama nokupheka. Ngiyakuthanda ukulalela izingane futhi ngikujabulele konke ukukhula kwazo, yingakho ilukuluku lokufuna ukwazi ngazo linginike amandla okubhala noma iziphi izeluleko ezinganikezwa njengomama.
Iziqu ze-English Philology, othanda izilimi, umculo omnandi futhi onekhono njengothisha. Yize lo msebenzi ungahlanganiswa nokubhalwa kokuqukethwe futhi ikakhulukazi nokuba ngumama. Umhlaba esiwufundayo, sizizwe futhi siwuthole nsuku zonke sikanye nabancane bethu, ozophukelwa lapha.
Usokhemisi uthweswe iziqu ngo-2009 e-University of Barcelona (UB). Kusukela lapho ngigxile emsebenzini wami ekusebenziseni izitshalo zemvelo kanye namakhemikhali endabuko. Ngingumthandi wezingane, izilwane kanye nemvelo.
Nakuba izifundo zami zigxile emkhakheni wezimboni, bengihlale ngijabulela ezinye izinto ezinjengokufunda, ukubhala, ukupheka noma ukulima. Futhi Omama Namuhla bangivumela ukuba ngihlanganise abanye babo ukuze ngihlanganyele okuhlangenwe nakho nezeluleko nawe.
Ngineziqu kanye nothisha kwezokuxhumana futhi ngibambe iqhaza ezinhlelweni ezimbalwa ze-TV zezingane, ngikhiqiza okuqukethwe okuklanyelwe zona. Ukuba, ngesikhathi esifanayo, umama nomamncane wezingane ezineminyaka ehlukene nobulili obuhlukene, kunginika zonke izinhlobo zokuhlangenwe nakho engizama ukukuthwebula ezihlokweni zami.
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Umama, umeluleki wezokwelapha, i-psychopedagogue futhi unothando lokubhala nokuxhumana. Izingane zami zingifundisa ukuba umuntu ongcono futhi ngibone umhlaba ngenye indlela, ngenxa yazo ngifunda ngokuqhubekayo ... Ukuba ngumama kuyishintshile impilo yami, mhlawumbe ngikhathele kakhulu kodwa ngijabule njalo.
Sawubona, ngibhala cishe noma yisiphi isihloko ngoba bengingenakwenza ngenye indlela. Ukusatshalaliswa kwemibono, amanani nolwazi kubukeka kubalulekile kimi. Ikakhulukazi isihloko semfundo, esilawulwayo noma cha, nokuqeqeshwa ezinganeni nasebusheni kubonakala kujabulisa kakhulu kimi.
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sithanda ubuhlakani obungokomzwelo nokuzithuthukisa. Ngithanda ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze izingane nabazali bazo baphile, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: thokozani, ngoba akukho okuhle kunokubona umndeni obumbene.
Ngingubaba wezingane ezimbili ezinhle futhi ngithanda konke okuhlobene nakho konke ukufundisa kanye nemfundo. Ukukwazi ukubhala ku-Mothers Today kungisiza ukuthi ngidlulise konke engikufundile eminyakeni edlule njengobaba nomyeni womndeni omuhle kakhulu.
Eminyakeni eyi-14 nengxenye edlule ngahlangana nothisha wami omkhulu, eminyakeni emibili kamuva umuntu ophila ngokuvumelana negama lakhe (uSofia) weza emhlabeni; Azifani nezingane zamaphupho ami ngoba zingcono kakhulu ... nginesifiso sokukutshela izinto ngalokho engikufundayo ... nokuthi ungitshele.
Igama lami nginguMaría José, ngihlala e-Argentina, futhi ngineziqu zeCommunication kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke ngunina wezingane ezimbili owenza impilo yami ibe mnandi. Bengihlale ngizithanda izingane futhi yingakho nami ngiwuthisha ngakho lokhu ukuba nezingane kulula futhi kuyangijabulisa. Ngithanda ukudlulisa, ukufundisa, ukufunda nokulalela. Ikakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngezingane. Vele, futhi ukubhala kanjena ukuthi lapha ngengeza ipeni lami kunoma ngubani ofuna ukungifunda.
Ngazalelwa eBonn (eJalimane) ngo-1984 futhi ngiyindodakazi yabazali baseGalician nababaleki. Izingane bezilokhu futhi ziyinkomba empilweni yami; Eqinisweni, ngafunda iBachelor of Pedagogy ngoba ngangazi, kusukela ngisemncane, ukuthi umsebenzi wami kumele uhlobene nabo, futhi ngike ngaba ngumnakekeli wezingane futhi ngifundisa ngasese kwezinye izikhathi. Ngiyakuthanda engikwenzayo, futhi ngiyethemba ukuthi lokho kuyabonakala ezihlokweni zami.
Ngingumama wezingane ezimbili engifunda futhi ngikhule nazo nsuku zonke. Ngaphezu kokuba ngumama, okuyisihloko esithi "isihloko" engiziqhenya kakhulu ngaso, ngine-BA kwi-Biology, iNutrition and Dietetic Technician kanye neDoula. Ngiyakuthanda ukutadisha nokucwaninga konke okuphathelene nokuba ngumama nokuba ngumzali. Njengamanje ngihlanganisa umsebenzi wami ekhemisi nezifundo namasifundisane engiwafundisa ngezihloko ezahlukahlukene ezihlobene nokuba ngumama.
Sawubona! Ngiyakuthanda ukubhala futhi ngiyazifela, ngobizo nokuqeqeshwa, ngobuciko nokufundisa, izici ezimbili lapho omama bafunda khona ukwenza amawashi futhi ngalokho babe ochwepheshe beqiniso bezingane zabo.
Uthando oluzwiwa abancane endlini alubaleki. Ukubhala mayelana nezigigaba ezintsha ezitholwa ngokuba abazali kuyinto yokufunda kithi sobabili mina nawe.
Ngingumbelethisi, ngingumama futhi sekuyisikhathi eside ngibhala ibhulogi. Ngikhathazeke kakhulu ngakho konke okuphathelene nokuba ngumama, ukukhuliswa nokukhula komuntu siqu kwabesifazane. Ngokwazi kahle kuphela lapho singanquma khona ukuthi yini elungele thina nomndeni wethu.
Umama wokukhanya okukhuthazayo, umfundisi wesikhathi esizayo, umhlobisi wezobuchwepheshe, umbhali waphakade ezithunzini, ingcweti, umculi nomqambi, ofundisa konke, ofundisa lutho. Ngothando lwemfundo, umculo nempilo jikelele. I-Positivist in extremis, yonke into inecala elihle futhi uma kungenjalo, ngizophatha ukuyakha. Eduze komncane wami, konke kulula kakhulu.
Ngiyisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo nomlobi, izinkanuko zami ziyabhala nezingane. Ngiyabasiza ukuthi bathuthukise amakhono abo ayisisekelo, ukuze bahlangane kulo mhlaba onzima ukuze bafunde ukujabula nokuzimela. Ukusebenza nabo kuyinto enhle engapheli.
Umama osebenzayo, u-YouTuber ngezikhathi ezithile kanye nochwepheshe we-Superior Laboratory. Ngigcwalise iphupho lami lokuba ngumama osemncane, nsuku zonke kuyinto entsha, futhi angiyiguquli ngalutho! Ngithanda ukwaziswa ngazo zonke izingqinamba zamanje mayelana nokukhuliswa kwabancane bethu futhi ngihlanganyele engikufundayo nani nonke. Ngikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi izingane zanamuhla zingashintsha ikusasa loMhlaba wethu.
Sawubona! Ngingusosayensi wezenhlalo futhi ngiyazithanda izingane. Ngenza amavidiyo ngamathoyizi athandwa kakhulu abancane endlini. Ngaphezu kokujatshuliswa yibo, bazokwazi ukuthola ulwazi oluzobasiza kwinqubo yabo yezemfundo nenhlalakahle, bafunde ukuhlobana nomndeni wabo kanye nemvelo yabo ngendlela enempilo nejabulisayo.
Uthando lwami ngemfundo lwangiholela ekutheni ngifunde iMfundo Yezingane Zisencane kuqala ngibe sengifundela ubuPedagogy. Futhi ilukuluku lami (kwemingcele engalindelekile), langiholele ekutheni ngiphenye izihloko ezihlobene nemfundo yezemizwa, isiyalo esihle nokuba ngumzali okuhloniphayo.
Umama oziqhenyayo womfana osemusha. Ngothando ngempilo nemvelo. Umthandi wezincwadi, ukuthwebula izithombe nokudansa kusukela ebuntwaneni bami. Ukuzifundisa ngokwemvelo nangamaphrojekthi angenamkhawulo engiphupha ngivuka nawo. Ekhethekile kwi-psychology yezingane, umsebenzi wami uyisifiso sami. Bengihlale ngimangazwa ilukuluku lezingane lokuthola kanye namandla azo okudala.
Igama lami ngingu-Ale futhi ngingu-Early Childhood Educator. Angikabi ngumama okwamanje, yize esikhathini esizayo ngingathanda ukuba ngomunye njengoba ngithanda izingane. Ngiyazifela ngomhlaba wokupheka, ubuciko nokudweba, yingakho ngikholelwa ukuthi ngingakusiza kakhulu ngemfundo yezingane zakho.
Nginelukuluku lokufuna ukwazi, ukungahlaliseki nokungahambisani, okwenza ngibuze cishe ngokuqhubekayo umhlaba osizungezile, ikakhulukazi lokho okuhlobene nokuba ngumama nokuba ngumzali, lapho kuhlala khona izinganekwane eziningi nenkolelo yamanga. Ngithanda ukufika empandeni, odabeni nasuka lapho, ukuze ngithathe isinyathelo. Ngiqeqeshelwe ukuncelisa nokuvikela nokukhuthaza impilo yezingane.
Ngineziqu ze-Biology ngokuqiniswa kwe-Cellular and Molecular Biology. Nginokuqeqeshwa okuhambisanayo kwiPsychology kanye nesipiliyoni kwezemfundo njengothisha ezingeni lesibili. Njengesazi sesayensi yezinto eziphilayo futhi onothando lwePsychology, akukho lutho olungangijabulisa ngaphezu kokusebenzela uMadres Hoy: indawo lapho izinkanuko zami ezimbili zihlangana khona, ngoba ukukhuluma ngokuba ngumama kukhuluma ngokuphila kuzo zonke izici zayo.
Kusukela ngimncane benginothando lokufundisa abancane nokudlala nabo. Ngakho-ke ngiyethemba ukuthi ngezihloko zami ngingakubonisa zonke izinzuzo zemisebenzi yomndeni.