Ngiyawuthanda lowomugqa wamahlaya lapho uQuino efaka khona emlonyeni kaMafalda: uma kumayelana nokuba mdala, sobabili siphothula ngosuku olufanayo! futhi kunjalo, ngoba abazali nezingane baqala ukuba, ngokukhuluma ngasikhathi sinye. Ngakho-ke, bobabili banamalungelo nezibopho, abazali maqondana nenzalo yabo kanye nezingane ezinabazali bazo.
Ngaphandle kokuthola umthetho kakhulu, ngaphandle kokungena kumakhodi omphakathi amaningi nemishoYebo, ngithanda ukubuyekeza ngendlela emnandi, amalungelo nezibopho izingane ezinazo nabazali bazo, ikakhulukazi labo abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 ubudala abahlala ekhaya labazali.
Amalungelo okuzibophezela nezibopho zabazali nezingane
Lolu uhlu olwenziwe ngesigamu, olwenziwe uhhafu ongalubumba nganoma iyiphi indlela ofuna ngayo. Futhi ungaxoxisana njengoba izingane zakho zikhula. Akuthathwa kunoma iyiphi imanuwali ethile, kepha yenziwe ngenhlonipho nangomqondo ophusile. Ngiyethemba ukuthi ingakusiza.
Ingane inelungelo lokuthi khuluma ngokukhululeka nabazali bakhe esibophweni sokumfundisa ukuhlonipha eminye imibono, imibono noma izinqumo ezithathwayo.
Ingane inelungelo lokuthi khetha ngokukhululekile abangane bakho nabazali bakhe isibopho sokumsiza abone futhi avimbele "abalingani" bakhe ukuthi bangamlimazi. Ilungelo lokwenza amaphutha, kodwa futhi nesibopho sokuvikela.
Vele ingane inayo ilungelo lokungahlukunyezwa nganoma yiluphi uhlobo, ezocansi, ezabasebenzi, udlame lwasekhaya, ukulahlwa, ukungabi nemfundo, ukudla, njll. nabazali bakhe, isibopho sokwenza okudingekayo ukumvikela.
Wonkhe umuntfu kufaka ekhatsi bantfwana kanye nebatali labaphindzisako banelilungelo thola ulwazi lokho kukuvumela ukuthi uphumelele empilweni. Izingane nazo ziyafundisa. Futhi ulwazi lubanzi kunemfundo elawulwayo.
Nali iphuzu ebelishayisana kimi: Ingane ine ilungelo esimisweni esitholakala mahhala nakubumfihlo bakhe, nakubazali bakhe ukumhlonipha nokwazi ukuthi usisebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sakhe sokuphumula.
Uma uyiguqula, uzobona ukuthi abazali banamalungelo afanayo. Futhi manje ake sikhulume ngezibopho zezingane.
Izibopho zamadodana namadodakazi
Kungenzeka ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi sike sezwa ingane itshela abazali bayo ukuthi inesibopho sokuyinika izinto. Ukuthi bona, izingane, ababuzanga ukuthi beze kulomhlaba. Ngakho-ke banelungelo, futhi kuyiqiniso, ukuthi bondliwe, bagqokiswe ... kepha banganikwa konke nemvume. Ngakho-ke ake sithi isibopho sokuqala sezingane akukhona ukubuza.
Iningi labazali lifuna ukuthi izingane zabo zizethembe, zikwazi namakhono azo ukuxazulula izinkinga zazo. Ngalokhu kufanele usebenzise ukulalela futhi ufunde ukuhlala ndawonye. Xoxa. Thuthukisa ubuhle nezindinganiso zomuntu. Lokhu kufaka phakathi imithwalo yemfanelo, izibopho zomndeni nezenhlalo.
Imithethonqubo yomphakathi ifaka phakathi Isibopho sezingane ukunakekela abazali bazo nezihlobo eziqondile. Ngendlela efanayo ababasize ngayo ebusheni babo, ukuze bakhule futhi bachume. Kepha ngaphezu kwalokho okungakhonjiswa uhlelo lwezomthetho futhi, kulondolozwa yonke i-casuistry, isibopho esikhulu kunazo zonke yi inhlonipho. Ukuhlonipha amadodana namadodakazi ukuthi aqaphele kubazali labo ababakhulisa ngothando olukhulu futhi ngokwamandla abo onke.
Izibopho namalungelo ezingane ngaphambi komphakathi
La Isivumelwano Sango-1989 Samalungelo Engane Iyithuluzi lokuqala lamazwe omhlaba, elibopha ngokomthetho kubantu kanye nasezifundazweni, ebifaka uhla oluphelele lwamalungelo abantu ezingane.
Izingane zinelungelo, lokuvakashela abazali bazo kanye nawo wonke umphakathi, ekungabandlululweni, ekuzinikeleni ekuzuzeleni ingane, ilungelo lokuphila, ukusinda kanye nentuthuko nokuhlonishwa kwemibono, kufaka phakathi leyo ephathelene nokunakekelwa kwezempilo, imfundo, nokunikezwa kwezinsizakalo zomthetho, ezomphakathi nezenhlalo. Amalungelo ayisisekelo ukubamba iqhaza emndenini.
Ngakho-ke abazali bane- isibopho sokuqala sokuphoqelela nokufeza la malungelo.