Kumele ngivume ukuthi ngibukela i-TV encane kakhulu. Kepha lokho akusho ukuthi awuboni noma yiziphi izikhangiso njengoba ne-inthanethi igcwele nazo. Ngesikhathi sasehlobo, izikhangiso engizibona kakhulu ezokuncipha kanye nemikhiqizo ye-cellulite. Futhi iningi labo isithombe somkhiqizo singowesifazane. Ngokusobala, abesifazane yibona kuphela abafuna ukuncipha futhi abane-cellulite (qaphela okungaqondakali). Kazi lezi zikhangiso ezikhuthaza imibono eyehlukene ngobulili kangaka ziyaqhubeka ukubonwa ngekhulu lama-XNUMX.
I-UK yenze okuthile okuhambisanayo: Kusukela ngo-2018, izovimbela lolu hlobo lwezikhangiso ezingenangqondo nokuthi zilimaza umphakathi kakhulu. Namanje, kunabantu abangamangali ukubona kuphela abesifazane abakhangisa ngemikhiqizo yokuhlanza noma ekhaya. Kuleli khulu leminyaka esiphila kulo, kusenabantu abakholwa wukuthi owesilisa akakwazi ukunakekela indlu nokuthi owesifazane akakwazi ukulungisa imoto. Kepha leyo mindset ayiqhamuki ezikhangisweni ezikhuthaza izinkolelo-ze zobulili.
Futhi kungani iSpain ingazivimbeli izikhangiso ezikhuthaza izinkolelo-ze zobulili?
Anginawo nomqondo omncane. Ukukhuluma iqiniso, angicabangi ukuthi kusehlwini lweziphathimandla "zokwenza". Kepha, kusukela nini lapho sibona izikhangiso zalolu hlobo? Ngiyakukholwa lokho kusukela njalo. Futhi okubi kakhulu, kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olwake lwenziwa ukukulungisa (futhi angingabazi ukuthi kuzoke kwenzeke). Kubukeka kulihlazo kimi lokho namhlanje usebenzisa abesifazane kuphela njengesithonjana sokulahlekelwa isisindo nemikhiqizo yokuhlanza (Ngokwesibonelo).
Kepha ngikuthola kubi kakhulu okusungulwe ngabasunguli bezikhangiso amadoda ezokwakha, ezokukhanda noma zokukhanda (Ngokwesibonelo). Akunakuphikwa ukuthi cishe kuzo zonke izimo, ama-knights afanekisela amandla namandla kanye nowesifazane ukuzithoba nokuzikhethela. Kodwa abesilisa abakwazi yini ukukhathazeka ngesisindo sabo? Futhi kuyadumaza yini ukuthi ubulili besilisa buthanda ukunakekela indlu nokuyigcina ihlelekile? Yebo, ngeshwa yebo.
Kimi, awudingi nje ukuthi ugxile kuzikhangiso
Kuyacaca ukuthi izikhangiso ezikhuthaza izinkolelo-ze zobulili akufanele zivele nganoma iyiphi indlela. Kodwa-ke, ngikholelwa ukuthi inkinga ayitholakali ngokuphelele lapho ingekho emphakathini. Kunabantu abacabanga ukuthi abesilisa abaphekayo nabasebenzisa izinto zobuhle bayahlekisa futhi abanamadoda amancane. Futhi kunamadoda azenyeza ngendlela eyisimanga ngokuba yibo ngokwesaba ukuthi abanye bazothini.
Ngokusobala, lokho kuyenzeka nakwabesifazane. Kusekhona abantu ababukela phansi amantombazane abathanda izithuthuthu, izimoto nezinto zokuzilibazisa okushiwo iningi labo "Zingezabesilisa kuphela". Yilokhu engikushoyo. Ngicabanga ukuthi akufanele sigxile kuphela kuzikhangiso ezikhuthaza izinkolelo-ze zobulili. Ngeshwa, umphakathi ungowokuqala ukuba nobandlululo lobulili ngaphandle kokubona lezo zikhangiso. Futhi yilokho okufanele kuguqulwe.
Ezimotweni zabafana namaqhawe amakhulu nakumadoli amantombazane nezingubo
Ngizokutshela okuthile okwenzeke kimi esikhathini esingaphezu kwenyanga edlule. Mina nomngane wami sayothenga isipho sokuzalwa sikamzala wakhe omncane. Wayecacile ngakho. Wathatha uBarbie nenqwaba yezingubo emashalofini. Lapho sifika ekuphumeni, owesifazane owayengakhokhisi wathi: “Ngiyethemba ukuthi le ntombazane imthokozela kakhulu uBarbie. Ngikwenze kakhulu ngisemncane. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi owesifazane akazange afinyelele eminyakeni engamashumi amane (uma kwenzeka ucabanga ngeminyaka yakhe).
Lapho mina nomngane wami simtshela ukuthi eyengane, lo wesifazane wasibheka ethukile futhi waphendula wathi: "Kodwa izingane azikaze zidlale ngonodoli, nguNkulunkulu." Ngaleso sikhathi, sishiye wonke amathoyizi ebesizowathenga ebhokisini sahamba. Bengihlale ngivikela ubuntwana bamahhala. Ngalokhu ngiqonde ukuthi izingane yizo ezikhetha lokho eziba nesikhathi esihle kakhulu nazo. Uma kukhona amantombazane abathanda onodoli nezingubo, kuhle. Uma kunezingane ezijabule ngezimoto nezakhiwo, kuhle.
Kepha futhi kuhle kumantombazane ajabule ngeLego, ompetha nezakhiwo. Futhi zilungele izingane eziba nesikhathi esihle zizama ukugqoka u-Elsa kusuka ku-Frozen futhi zikujabulele ukugqoka nokuhlanganisa onodoli bazo ngokugcwele. Lapho ngisemncane, Ngangihlala ngibona amantombazane ekhangisa amaBarbies namakhishi nabafana bedlala ngezimoto nezakhiwo kuTV. Ngokusobala, ngaleso sikhathi angizange ngikunikeze ukubaluleka okukhulu. Kuze kube uyakhula futhi uqaphele ukuthi ngisho kusukela ebuntwaneni balungisa abancane.
Okomphakathi ongenalo ubandlululo lwezinkolelo-ze zobulili
Into elula kunazo zonke kungaba ukuhlala ngokuzwana, ngenhlonipho nangaphandle kokubandlulula. Into elula kunazo zonke kungaba ukulandela ifilosofi ethi "bukhoma bese uvumela ukuthi iphile". Futhi into ezuzisa kakhulu kungaba uma sikubeka eceleni ukugxeka nokumangalelwa. Izikhangiso akufanele zinikezwe ubulili. Futhi ngethemba ukuthi abadali abazenzayo bazothola kungekudala. Imicabango efana "nesikhangiso sokulahlekelwa isisindo ithengisa kakhulu nowesifazane njengophawu" ayisizi. Futhi ngeke sithuthuke uma kunabantu ababona kabi ukuthi owesilisa uhlala ekhaya enakekela izingane nomuzi nokuthi owesifazane nguye osebenzayo.