Imithwalo yemfanelo eyeqile kuyimbangela evamile yokuthi izingane zingaphansi kwengcindezi. Kuyimbangela ethola ukuqoqa imininingwane yezobuchwepheshe lapho ngaphansi kocwaningo kwakwaziswa lokho U-10% wesibalo sezingane nentsha wezwe lethu wahlushwa ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka.
Ezinye izinto ezingaba nomthelela yilezi ukushesha komphakathi wethu, Enye inkinga eyenzeke ekhaya njengokufa, ukwehlukana noma ukufika komfowethu omusha, ngisho nokuxhashazwa kobuchwepheshe obusha kungaletha le nkinga, kepha akuzona zonke izingane ezithonywe ngendlela efanayo, yingakho kumele cabanga futhi ukuqonde lokho Lezi zinto zingaba yingcindezi yengqondo.
Zinjani izimpawu zakho
Bonke abantu lapho sibhekene nezinga lokucindezeleka benza umzimba wethu uphendule ukushintsha amakhono ethu okuqonda nawokucabanga ukukhiqiza ezimweni eziningi ukuvinjelwa okusenza sinciphise amandla ethu noma ngamanye amagama Imininingwane ivinjelwe ebuchosheni bethu.
Izinga eliqhubekayo lokucindezeleka kuzokwenza izingane njenganoma ubani omunye ziqale ukuzwa izimpawu ezifana ne-psychosis yokuqala noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Abanye qala ukuzwa lezi zimpawu ngaphandle kwesizathu ngokusheshaEsikhundleni salokho, bahlala benesikhundla esanele nesifanele futhi ngokuzumayo bawa ngaphandle kwesizathu. Kwezinye izimo, abazali baqala ukubona lezi zimpawu kancane kancane.
Izimpawu eziphindaphindeka kakhulu yilezi ukuphazamiseka kokulala, ukhathele kakhulu, amaphupho amabi, ukucasuka kukho konke okubazungezile ngesamba intukuthelo, ukwehla kokusebenza kwesikole futhi-ke qaphela ukuthi bazizwa ukudabuka.
Bangangeza ukuhlukumezeka okuningi okungathinta lezi zikhathi zengcindezi, abazali kufanele bahlole i-psychology yengane ukubona ukuthi izimpawu zikhululwa kuphi. Uma kwezinye izimo singasitholi isixazululo esisebenzayo, singaya kuchwepheshe.
Izici ezibaluleke kakhulu ingane ezizwa icindezelwa ngazo:
Kubukeka kungenakwenzeka ukuthi izingane zingalokothi zizizwe zinengcindezi, kepha kaningi iqiniso lihlukile futhi iqiniso lokukhuluma nabo noma ukuyisa kuchwepheshe likhombisa lezi zinhlobo zokuphawula:
- Bezwa ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka kanye nengcindezi, lawa amagama aphindaphindwayo avezwa yizingane. Izivivinyo kanye nengcindezi yesikole yokuthola amamaki aphezulu emabangeni akho kungenye yezinkinga eziphindaphindeka kakhulu.
- Enye inkinga ukuthi nini abazali abahlanganyeli ngendlela yabo yokwenza, ebusheni kuyinto edinga kakhulu lapho abazali bevame ukuphikiswa ngendlela abagqoka noma abazihlanganisa ngayo izinwele zabo, kulokhu baba nomuzwa wokuthi abaqondakali noma abathandwa.
- Yiba nabazali abaqhathanise nabo abanye ofunda nabo noma nomfowabo omdala Kuyinto nabo abangayisekeli.
- Amacala wokwehlukanisa phakathi kwabazali nakho kungadala ukuhlukumezeka ngoba bacabanga ukuthi bazizwa ngemuva kanti ababalulekile.
Ngaphandle kwalezi zitatimende ezifakwe emilonyeni yazo, zifaka nezinye eziningi ezingezizathu zomuntu siqu izingane ezingeke ziveze futhi zikhona uhlobo oluthile lokunganakwa, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi noma ukuxhashazwa.
Ungakubuyisa kanjani ukuthula
- Umsebenzi wokuqala okufanele unikeze izingane ngawo kungenzeka bamba iqhaza ukuveza imizwa yakho.
- Kukhona lokho dala umoya wokuthula futhi unikezele uthando oluningi kubo.
- Kukhona lokho ungafuneki kangako kweminye imisebenzi kepha ngaphandle kokwehlisa onogada ukuthi kufanele bagcine isiyalo, kuhlale kudingekile ukubona amandla engane futhi ukuqapha ukuthi imingcele yakho ifinyelela kude kangakanani.
- Ubuchwepheshe kufanele bubekwe eceleni ngangokunokwenzeka njengesikhathi sokuzilibazisa bese ulinda ukuthi babe naso izikhathi zokuphumula ngisho nesithukuthezi, Bangavunyelwa ukuthi bakhethe eminye imisebenzi encanyelwayo.
- Dlala imidlalo yokudala namasu okuphumula futhi kuyingxenye yokwelashwa okuhle.