Izingane nazo zidlala ngonodoli

Siphila emphakathini osijwayele ukwenza ucansi ekuziphatheni kwabantu. Lapho kuzalwa abafana, bathenga izingubo eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, amantombazane abomvana. Abafana badlala ibhola likanobhutshuzwayo namantombazane adlala onodoli. Abafana banolaka namantombazane amnandi… kwanele! Akubona bonke abafana abadlala ibhola, futhi akuwona wonke amantombazane adlala onodoli… bazodlala noma yini abanquma ukuyidlala, ngaphandle kokukhomba okungcono noma okubi.

Izingane nazo zidlala onodoli

Ngeshwa kunabantu abaningi kulezi zinsuku abasacabanga ukuthi ukudlala ngonodoli akulungele izingane nokuthi imidlalo engokomzimba kakhulu noma emikhulu kufanele ikhuthazwe ... kepha laba bantu abafanayo imvamisa yilabo abacabanga ukuthi amadoda akufanele akhale, lapho iqiniso ukuthi kumele baveze imizwa yabo njengabesifazane.

Lokho kubuyiselwa emuva kwakucabanga ukuthi abafana badlala ngezimoto kuphela futhi amantombazane kuphela ngonodoli kumele bahambe ngoba nabafana badlala ngonodoli namantombazane nawo adlala ngezimoto. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bahloniphe ukuthanda nezinto abazithandayo izingane zabo namadodakazi nokuthi ngale ndlela, bangakwazi ngempela ukuthi banjani, ngaphandle kokuthi umphakathi ungcolise ubuntu babo ngezinkoleloze.

Uma ungacaciseli kahle ukuthi kufanelekile yini ukuthi izingane nazo zidlale ngonodoli - inqobo nje uma kungukuthi yizo ezinquma ukwenza kanjalo - ungaphuthelwa yimihlomulo elandelayo izingane ezingaba nayo ngokudlala ngonodoli. Ungalahli imininingwane.

Kungani kukuhle ukudlala ngonodoli FUTHI ezinganeni

Onodoli bezingane bagcwele amandla okufundisa izingane ngabo kanye nezwe elibazungezile, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo.

Kuthuthukisa amakhono okuqonda kanye namakhono okuzisiza

Onodoli bezingane banikeza izingane amathuba amaningi okuthuthukisa amakhono abo okuqonda, ukuthuthukisa amakhono emoto amahle futhi, nokwenza ngcono amakhono okuzisiza. Izingane zivame ukuthola kulula ukwenza amakhono ndawonye nabanye - umuntu noma okuthile - kunokuba zizisebenzise kubo. Ngoba abafana bathuthukisa amakhono athile wezimoto - njengokugqoka - sekwedlule isikhathi samantombazane, kubalulekile ukuthi bavulekele amathuba amaningi okuzijwayeza, futhi onodoli bakulungele lokhu. Isibonelo:

• Ukudlala okungokomfanekiso nodoli. Kusukela eminyakeni emibili noma emithathu, izingane zingadlala nonodoli kube sengathi zihlanganyela nazo. Bangadlala ukumfunza, bamgeze, bambeke embhedeni, njll. Le midlalo yokulingisa ibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwakho kwengqondo.
• Khumula izingubo zakho. Izingane ziyahlomula ngokugqoka nokukhumula onodoli ngaphambi kokuzenzela zona.
• Gqoka izingubo. Kungaba lula ukuzijwayeza ngonodoli kunokwabo, ukuze bakwazi ukubona ukuthi amasokisi afakwa kanjani, akhululwa kanjani, amabhulukwe afakwa noma akhunyulwa kanjani, angaqinisa kanjani futhi aqaqe izinkinobho, njll.

Thuthukisa amakhono okuxhumana nawolimi

Unodoli uyithoyizi elingasiza ngempela ukuvula nokwandisa umdlalo ongokomfanekiso wengane. Izingane zifunda okuningi ngolimi ngokudlala, futhi ukudlala kunikeza amathuba okusebenzisa nokwenza amakhono olimi nokukhuluma. Ukudlala nodoli kungasiza ingane:

• Funda silulumagama lesisha. Izitho zomzimba, igama lezingubo, ukwenza amagama amasha, njll.
• Funda izisekelo. Izingane zizofunda futhi zikhulise amagama azo ngokusebenzisa amanye amathoyizi onodoli futhi zandise ukwakheka kwemisho, isibonelo: ingane isembhedeni.
• Bafunda izenzo ezintsha nemizwa. Amanye amathoyizi angasetshenziselwa ukufundisa izenzo nemizwa njengokudla, ukuphuza, ukulala, ukuhlala, ukulamba, ukulala, ukudabuka noma ukuthukuthela, njll.
• Thuthukisa ukuqonda. Ungabuza izingane zakho imibuzo ukuze zisebenzise ukuqonda kwazo amagama ngenkathi zidlala. Isibonelo: 'Uphi umntwana?', 'Ukhalelani umntwana?'
• Thuthukisa amakhono ezenhlalo nawokuziphatha. Onodoli bayithuluzi elihle lokusiza izingane zisebenze ngamakhono omphakathi namakhono we-pragmatic. Izingane zingashintshana ngokudlala ngonodoli abehlukene, zingazijwayeza ukusebenzisa ulimi ukubuza imibuzo ngonodoli nokuthi zenzani.

Kuthuthukisa amakhono ezenhlalo nezomzwelo

Izingane zisebenzisa umdlalo wokuqonda umhlaba futhi onodoli bayazisiza ukuthi zenze njalo. Izingane ezidlala ngonodoli zizoba abazali abangcono empilweni yazo yabantu abadala futhi zibe ngabantu abangcono. Onodoli bazosiza izingane ezinamakhono okuxhumana nabantu ngokomzwelo ngalezi zindlela ezilandelayo:

• Ukuba ngumzali kanye nemikhuba yokunakekelwa kwezenhlalo-ngokomzwelo
• Ukusebenzisana ukuze ukwazi ukumela nabanye - odokotela, umndeni nabangane
• Zilungiselele ukuba ngabazalwane

Kungakhathaleki ubulili bengane, lawa makghono ayizifundo ezibalulekile empilweni yonke. Izingane zizijwayeza indlela yokuziphatha nabanye, kungenzeka zilingisa indlela ezikhulile ngayo emhlabeni wazo wokunakekela izingane-onodoli-. Njengoba nezingane zikopisha abazali bazo lapho bekhuluma ocingweni, bepheka, behlanza ... ukudlala nonodoli akuhlukile, kuyindlela yokuthi izingane ziqonde futhi ziqale ukwakha umhlaba wazo ngokwenza le micimbi yansuku zonke.

Ezinye izingane zikhetha ukuhlanganisa ukudlala onodoli namanye amathoyizi futhi konke kuzolunga. Izingane zidinga ukudlala ukuze zikwazi ukusuka ezweni langempela futhi zithole ukuthula kwangaphakathi. Bobabili abafana namantombazane kufanele bathole ithuba lokukwazi ukudlala ngonodoli futhi ufunde ukwenza amakhono adingekile ukuze athuthukiswe. Onodoli ngokungangabazeki bayithoyizi elihle labo bonke abafana namantombazane.

Ingabe izingane zakho zidlala ngonodoli? Uyabavumela ukuthi badlale ngonodoli nodoli ababafunayo ngaphandle kwemingcele? Ucabangani ngakho konke lokhu?