Unengane yokutholwa futhi iqala ukubuza imibuzo ngemvelaphi yayo, abazali, izingane zakwabo. Isikhathi nendlela yokumphendula kuzoncika ezicini ezithile, i- ubuntu bengane, the umzuzu wokutholwa, kwehlukile uma unezinkumbulo zomndeni wakho wokuzalwa noma cha, i izimo zokwamukelwa kwalo nenketho yakho.
Azikho iziqondiso ezilungile kanti ezinye azilungile, lesi yisinqumo somndeni esiseduze ngaphambi kokutholwa uzobe ususixazulule. Noma kunjalo Uma indodana noma indodakazi yakho yazi ukuthi ithathwa njengeyokutholwa futhi ifuna ukuhlangana nezingane zakubo ezingaba khona, yini ongayenza kulesi simo?
Isimo somndeni ngengane yokutholwa
Esimweni sengqondo somndeni, asigcini ngokubaluleka kokuthi ngabe abazali bakhuluma ngokusobala ngale ndaba, kodwa futhi uma ogogo nomkhulu, abazala, izingane zakini kanye nemibuthano esondelene, bayakubona lokhu kuvuleleka noma cha. Kunemindeni ekholwa wukuthi kubuhlungu enganeni ukuyikhuluma. Izimo zokutholwa kungenzeka ukuthi zilethe ukuhlukumezeka kwengane uqobo futhi abafuni ukuthi iphinde idlule kulokho.
Lokho abakukhuthazayo ngokwemvelo, ukuthi kusukela ebuncaneni kwembulwa kuye ukuthi uyamukelwa, owakubo evela ezweni lakhe lokuzalwa (esimweni sokutholwa emhlabeni jikelele), umndeni wakhe wokuzalwa, izinqubo ezalandelwa ukumthatha. Lolu lwazi kufanele luguqulwe ngokweminyaka yabo futhi lube nenhlonipho ejulile kubazali babo begazi. Uma ungazi ukuthi ungayiphendula kanjani eminye imibuzo yabo, batshele ngokwemvelo, ungaqambi amanga futhi ungacabangi.
Futhi manje kuza umbuzo olandelayo, uma sazi ukuthi unakho izingane zakubo, Ngaphandle kobudlelwano bezelamani onazo emndenini, sizokutshela? Kuthiwani uma ufuna ukuthola noma ukugcina ubudlelwane nabo? Enganeni umqondo wobhuti ubaluleke kakhulu. Ukumtshela lokho anakho noma cha kuyisinqumo esinqumayo, Futhi kuyisinqumo sokuthi mhlawumbe kufanele sihlehliswe ngize ngibe mdala futhi ngingafinyelela kulolo lwazi.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ngaphezu kwezelamani zombili abazali, ube nezingane zakini, ezinye zivela kunina ezinye zivela kubaba, futhi lokhu kungadida nengane. Iqiniso ukuthi icala ngalinye likhethekile futhi kuhle ukuxhaswa ngongoti, bobabili abezomthetho nabasebenza ngengqondo noma abasebenzi bezenhlalakahle.
Ukuxhuma nezingane zakubo okwakukhona isibopho kuzo kungumuzwa omkhulu kakhulu futhi ngokuvamile inkantolo uqobo kanye namaphepha okutholwa axazulula lesi simo.
Umthetho osesandleni sokwazi imvelaphi yezinto eziphilayo
Lesi yisihloko esiyinkimbinkimbi futhi ngokusobala ayixazululwa ohlelweni lwezomthetho. Kukhona ukungezwani okuhlukahlukene kulokhu. I- I-Article 180 ye-Spanish Civil Code iyalihlonipha ilungelo lowemukelekayo lokwazi imvelaphi yabo eziphilayo. Kodwa-ke, ngaphambi kwaleli lungelo kukhona lelo le- ukusondelana kwabazali bemvelo futhi, ngokubanzi, kwamalungu omndeni wabo ophilayo. Ukuba semthethweni kokusebenzisa leli lungelo ngaphandle kokulamulwa kwamaBhizinisi Omphakathi noma isimo esivelwayo lapho umndeni ophilayo uphikisana nokuhlinzeka ngemininingwane noma ukungena kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano yizinkinga okufanele zibhekwe futhi zaziwe yilowo onentshisekelo. Manje, ake sizame ukukhombisa izibonelo ezilula.
Isibonelo, ingane itholwa ngumlingani wethu, kodwa omunye wethu ungokhokho bakhe begazi. Siyazi ukuthi ubaba noma umama unezingane eziningi, futhi indodana yethu isicela ukuthi sihlangane nezingane zakwabo. Yebo, kuzofanele sithathe isinqumo futhi silinganise, ngoba uma kunesidingo, lapho indodana yethu ifinyelela eminyakeni yobudala iningi ibingavikela ngisho nezingane zakubo. Futhi lokhu kungumthwalo okufanele futhi ukwazi.
Njengoba sikutshelile, kuyinkinga enzima, ukuthi nge imiphetho eminingi. Imiphetho elethwa etafuleni embuzweni wokuthola omunye umuntu noma amanye amafomula okususa.
Kulokhu esinye isihloko kumayelana nesikhathi esikahle sokutshela ingane ukuthi itholwe njengeyakho.