Bonke abazali bakuthola kunzima ukwamukela ukuthi izingane zabo ziya zikhula futhi zikhule futhi zidinga ukuzimela kancane kancane. Kunokwesaba okuningi nokungabaza okuvame ukuvela lapho uthatha isinyathelo sokuthi bangaqala nini ukuphuma bodwa nabangani babo. Ukwesaba kungenxa ye-alamu evame ukwenziwa abezindaba abahlukahlukene maqondana nezindaba ezahlukahlukene mayelana nokuthunjwa nokunyamalala okukhona cishe nsuku zonke kwabancane.
Noma kunjalo, Ngokufinyelela eminyakeni ethile, izingane kufanele zibe nokuzimela ukuze ziqale ukuphuma zodwa futhi zijabulele ukuba nabangane bazo.
Ukuvikelwa ngokweqile kwezingane
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi i-alamu ibonakala ifanelekile futhi izibalo ziyayikhombisa. ESpain namuhla kukhona ukunyamalala okubalelwa ku-2000, okuyi-40% yabo kungabancane. Kuningi kwalokhu kunyamalala okungazibandakanyi kepha okunye kungenxa yokweqa ngokuzithandela ngokuphelele.
Ngakho-ke kunokuvikelwa okukhulu kwezingane zabo, into engazifanele izingane ngokwazo njengoba ingaba nemiphumela emibi ngokuzayo esikhathini esiphakathi nesikhathi eside. Ochwepheshe kule ndaba bayeluleka ngokuvikelwa ngokweqile kakhulu kubazali ngoba kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zizitholele umhlaba ngokwawo futhi ngendlela ezimele ngokuphelele.
Abazali kufanele bathembe ingane yabo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi bacabange ukuthi izokwenza izinto ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Njengokwejwayelekile lapho efunda, uyaqiniseka ukuthi uyawenza amaphutha kepha ingane kufanele izizwe ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi abazali bayo bayayethemba.
Izingane zingaphuma nini zodwa
Uma ubashiya bodwa, kufanele kubhekwe izinto zangaphandle nezimo ezahlukahlukene ngaso sonke isikhathi. Endabeni yokuya kufayela le- isikoleKufanele ube nebanga ukusuka endlini kuye futhi uma ukwazi ukuphelezelwa abanye ofunda nabo. Okululeka kakhulu futhi uma ingekho enye indlela, bangahamba bodwa kusukela eminyakeni eyi-13 noma eyi-14. Kodwa-ke, ingane ngayinye yehlukile futhi mhlawumbe ineminyaka engu-12 ubudala isivele ikwazi ukuya esikoleni iyodwa ngoba ithenjwa ngabazali bayo futhi izizwa iphephe ngokuphelele ukwenza lokho.
Uma abazali bengaboni ukuthi ingane yabo isikhule ngokwanele futhi bengamboni elungele okwamanje, kufanele balinde isikhashana kuze kube baqiniseka ngokuphelele ukuthi ingane yabo iyakwazi ukuphuma yodwa. ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokweqile ngakho.
Amathiphu Abazali Abangawalandela
Ngemuva kwalokho sikunikeza uchungechunge lwamathiphu noma imihlahlandlela okufanele abazali balandele lapho bethatha isinyathelo sokuvumela izingane zabo ziphume zodwa ziye esikoleni noma emgwaqweni nabangane bazo:
- Akukho ukudala ukufaka noma yiluphi uhlobo lokwesaba kokuncane. Ngaphambi kwalokho, Kuhle ukuhlala nengane sikhulume nayo ukuze siyinike imininingwane edingekayo ukuze ihambe ngaphandle kokwesaba.
- Kufanele ubanikeze uchungechunge lwezexwayiso nemiyalo ukugwema abantu ongabazi kanye nohlobo oluthile lokuziphatha okuyingozi.
- Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi uhlale naye phansi uchaze konke okuphathelene nemithetho yokuphepha emgwaqeni nasemgwaqeni. Uma uzophuma, udinga kuphela ukwazi ukuthi uwele nini umgwaqo noma uhloniphe amarobhothi.
- Uma kwenzeka ilahleka, Kumele uvumelane nomncane indawo ongaya kuyo ukuze uzomthola.
- Kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ngekhanda inombolo yakho yocingo uma kwenzeka okuthile kwenzeka futhi kufanele ngikushayele ngokushesha.
- Kuhle ukukukhapha okokuqala ukuze wazi kancane kancane ukuthi kufanele uziphathe kanjani lapho uhamba wedwa emgwaqweni.