Izinkinga zobudlelwano ngemva kokuba nengane

Izinkinga zabashadile lapho izingane zifika.

Impilo yombhangqwana ishintsha ngokuphelele ngemva kokuba nengane futhi ngokuvamile kuvamile ukuba nezinkinga ezazingekho ngaphambili. Empeleni, phakathi neminyaka emibili yokuqala yokuphila komntwana, yilapho lezi zinkinga zigqama khona kakhulu futhi imibhangqwana eyengeziwe igcina ngokuhlukana. Ukugwema lokhu, kubalulekile ukucabangela izindaba ezinjengokuhlonipha, ukuqonda noma ukwabiwa kwemisebenzi.

Lo mehluko uvela ngaphambi kokushintshwa kwezindima kwabashadile. Lapho ngaphambi kokuba wonke umuntu abe nesikhala sakhe, manje isikhathi nokuzinikela senzelwe umntwana kuphela. Futhi lokhu kuthinta bobabili ubaba nomama, nakuba ngezindlela ezihlukene. Kumama, inkinga eyinhloko ivela ekuzibophezeleni ngokweqile, ukuntuleka kokuphumula nokuntuleka kwesikhathi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubaba uzizwa exoshwa futhi engafaneleki. konke kwengezwe ekuguqukeni kwe-hormonal, kungaba ibhomu lesikhathi.

Kungani izinkinga ezimbalwa zivela ngemva kokuba nengane?

Izinkinga zomndeni

Ziningi izinkinga ezenza imibhangqwana ingaboni ngaso linye nokufika kwezingane. Izimo zivela ukuthi, ngokwemvelo, azizange zenzeke ngaphambili. Izindaba ezinjengokuthi ufuna ukufundisa kanjani izingane, izindlela zokukhulisa izingane noma ukwabiwa okulula kwemisebenzi, yizizathu eziyinhloko eziholela umbhangqwana ofanelana kahle ukuba ube nezinkinga ezintsha ezazingekho ngaphambili.

Ezimweni eziningi, isimo singase sibe ngcono ngokuba nengxoxo eqotho, ukufunda ukuhlonipha izikhathi nezidingo zomunye umuntu, nokubambisana emisebenzini kanye nasemihlanganweni. ukusatshalaliswa okusha kwezibopho maqondana nengane. Nokho, abantu abaningi abakwazi ukufinyelela kulelo qophelo lokuqonda. Futhi akuyona nje inkinga yabesifazane, ngokunengqondo ngoba ngowesifazane onenkinga yokungalingani kwamahomoni okunonya ngempela. Kubantu besilisa abaningi, kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi ukunakekela izingane mhlawumbe kuwumsebenzi onzima kunayo yonke ekhona.

Izinkombandlela zokuthuthukisa ubudlelwano ngemva kokufika kwezingane

Indlela yokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo bombhangqwana uma kunezingane

Isinyathelo sokuqala sokufinyelela ukuqonda futhi uqale ukuxazulula izinkinga ukufuna ukukwenza. babe nekhono hlala phansi ulalele ukuthi uthini umlingani wakho, balalele izidingo zabo ngaphandle kokuzithola njengecala. Lezi ezinye iziqondiso ongazicabangela ukuze uziqale thuthukisa ubudlelwano bezithandani.

  • Gwema ukuklabalasa kanye nezimpikiswano ezingabalulekile. Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuqeda uthando ukungahloniphi, kunoma yiziphi izinguqulo zalo. Ungavumeli ukukhathala noma ukungaboni ngaso linye nomlingani wakho kukwenze ukhohlwe yikho konke okunihlanganise.
  • Funa usizo lwangaphandle olukuvumela ukuba nibe nesikhathi njengombhangqwana. Ngoba ukungabi nesikhathi sakho kokubili kwandisa umuzwa wokuthi anisenalutho enifana ngalo. Kunzima ukuphathisa ukunakekela izingane, ngoba umuntu unenkolelo engamanga yokuthi njengomama kufanele ubeke izingane zakho ngaphambi kwakho konke okunye. Kodwa ukuba ngumama akuqedi ubuntu bakho, phathisa abanye futhi ujabulele isikhathi sakho uwedwa kanye nomlingani wakho.
  • Zijwayeze ukuzwelana futhi uzibeke ezicathulweni zomlingani wakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi yonke into ekwenza uphatheke kabi nesithandwa sakho isuke iwumphumela wokungabi nozwelo. Okuthile okungokwemvelo nokujwayelekile, ngoba kuvamile ukucabanga ngalokho okuzithintayo ngaphandle kokucabangela okwenzeka komunye. Ukhathele, awulali ngokwanele, awunaso isikhathi sokwenza okuthandayo noma awuhlanganyeli indlela yokukhulisa izingane nomuntu wakho. Lezi izimo eziyinkimbinkimbi okumelwe kusetshenzwe kuzo ukuze zithuthuke, kodwa akudingekile ukuba zibe yisizathu sokuwohloka komkhaya.

Izingane kufanele zibe isixhumanisi phakathi kwabashadile, umphumela wothando phakathi kwabantu ababili. Ngakho-ke, akufanele neze kube isizathu sokuhlukana kombhangqwana. Umehluko ungase ube miningi, kodwa ngothando, ukunakekelwa, uzwela nokuqonda, kungenzeka ukufinyelela ukuqonda. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi nawe ungakwazi funa usizo lochwepheshe abashadile lokho kungakusiza ukuxazulula izinkinga zobudlelwano ngemva kwezingane.


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