Uma ungumama noma ubaba, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi kunezinsuku ezibonakala njengeziphakade, kepha iminyaka idlula. Umbono wesikhathi uyashintsha kusukela izingane zakho zazalwa futhi ngokungazelelwe, uyaqaphela ukuthi iminyaka ihamba ngokushesha okukhulu kangangokuba uqala ukuba ne-vertigo.
Kwenzekeni kuyo yonke iminyaka ephilwa? Kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi izingane zakho zingasezona lezo zingane ezithandekayo futhi ngokuzumayo zibe yintsha eyehlayo enokuphila? Kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi impilo yakho isishintshe kangaka selokhu waba nezingane?
Ukuba nezingane kuyishintsha ngokuphelele impilo yakho, kepha nesikhathi naso siyashintsha ... ngokuzumayo izinsuku zinde, kepha iminyaka imfishane. Kunezinsuku lapho ukhathele khona kubukeka sengathi ubusuku abufiki, kepha emva kobusuku obuningi kangaka, uyabona ukuthi kudlule inyanga yonke, bese kuba enye, nesikhathi sesishintshile, kufanele uthengele izingane zakho izingubo ezintsha ngoba seziphelelwe yisikhathi, izincwadi zesikole kufanele zishintshwe ...
Ngalokhu sisho ukuthi noma ngabe usuku lwakho lukhathele kangakanani, kubalulekile ukuthi ujabulele yonke iminithi yempilo yakho. Ngeke wazi ukuthi yini engenzeka, noma ngabe kuzoba khona ukugula noma cha, izingozi ... Impilo namuhla iyisipho yingakho kukufanele ukuphila. Kuyafaneleka ukuthi umomotheke, udlale nezingane zakho nokuthi izingubo ziwasinda zilale. TIzingane zakho zidinga ukuchitha isikhathi nawe, kulapho ziba ngcono kakhulu. Abadingi ama-kangaroo ukuwanakekela, badinga ukukhula eceleni kwakho, phakathi kwezingalo zakho, phakathi kweseluleko sakho, phakathi kothando lwakho nokuphefumula kwakho.
Phila esikhathini samanje, hlala nezingane zakho, uzijabulele, wakhe umndeni omuhle, wona odala izinkumbulo ezinhle ezingqondweni zezingane zakho ... Lokho kuzobenza babe ngabantu abadala abajabulayo. Unamandla alokhu. Ngabe uzoyimosha?