Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule ngikutshele ngamanye izinto ongazazi ngokuxhashazwa, kodwa namhlanje ngifuna ukukhuluma nawe ngezinye izinto nazo ezibalulekile ukwazi ngobuxhwanguxhwangu. Kwesinye isikhathi thina bantu abadala siyazishaya indiva ezinye izinto okufanele sizikhumbule ukuze ngokubambisana sikwazi ukunqanda isihlava sokuhlukunyezwa, ngoba lokhu akuyona nje indaba yezingane.
Abafana namantombazane bahlasela ngokwehlukile
Uma kukhulunywa ngokuxhashazwa, abafana namantombazane bavame ukuhlukumeza ngokwehlukile. Isibonelo, iziqhwaga zivame ukuziphatha njengabantu "Zimbi izintombi" futhi basebenzisa ubudlova obusondelene nobuxhwanguxhwangu be-inthanethi ukulawula nokuphatha izimo. Amantombazane abuye asebenzise inhlamba nokusabisa amanye amantombazane.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane zivame ukuba nolaka ngokwengeziwe futhi zilwe. Bayathuka futhi basebenzise ubuxhwanguxhwangu be-intanethi, kepha bavame ukusebenzisa ulaka ukushaya kakhulu kunabahlukumezi besifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abafana bathambekele ekuhlukumezeni abafana namantombazane, kanti abahlukumezi besifazane bathambekele ekuhlukumezeni kakhulu ontanga yabo besifazane. Izingane nazo zinamawala, zisongela futhi ziyakujabulela ukulwa.
Izisulu zivame ukuthula
Naphezu kobuhlungu obungokomzwelo obubangelwa ukuxhashazwa nemiphumela ebubangelayo, izisulu eziningi zokuxhashazwa azitsheli muntu ngokwenzekayo. Izizathu zokuvala zingahluka kuye ngomuntu nomuntu, kepha kwabanye abayishumi nambili nentsha kungenxa yokuthi banamahloni noma badidekile ngoba abazi ukuthi bangaluthola usizo. Futhi, isizathu sokuthula yingoba bacabanga ukuthi bangakwazi ukusisingatha leso simo bebodwa noma mhlawumbe ukukhathazeka abazizwayo.
Ngeshwa, abafundi abaningi bacabanga ukuthi uma besho okuthile esikoleni, akekho ozobasiza ngenxa yamanye amacala okungenzeka asevele enzekile futhi akekho owenze lutho. Kungumsebenzi wawo wonke umuntu ukuthi lokhu kushintshe kusuka manje kuqhubeke.