Imindeni eminingi inquma ukuhlala edolobheni ngoba ithule, ngoba kunamathafa amaningi agcwele imvelo futhi mhlawumbe futhi, ngoba kushibhile kunokuhlala maphakathi nedolobha. Kubukeka sengathi ukuhlala edolobheni kuyizinzuzo zonke, Kepha uma unengane okufanele uyikhulise futhi uyifundise ezikoleni ezisendaweni futhi izungezwe abantu abahlale behlala edolobheni, ingabe inezinzuzo noma ububi bangempela? Noma mhlawumbe bobabili?
Kukhona nabantu abathatha isinqumo sokuhlala emadolobheni ngoba becabanga ukuthi baphephile kunamadolobha, kodwa futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi kunabantu abathanda ukuhlala emadolobheni. Iqiniso ukuthi kuyisinqumo somuntu uqobo okumele senziwe njengomndeni, sicabanga ngobuhle nobubi obungatholakala edolobheni. Uma uthanda umbono wokuhlala edolobheni, thola ubuhle nobubi bokuhlala emzaneni wezingane.
Izinzuzo zokuphila emzaneni
Njengakho konke empilweni, ukuhlala edolobheni nakho kungaba nezinzuzo ezinkulu, futhi lokhu kufanele kubhekelwe ukuze ukwazi ukunquma ukuthi uzohlala kuphi kangcono nomndeni wakho nezingane. Impilo yasemakhaya yi impilo yasemakhaya, egcwele imvelo nenhlalakahle. Kuyisifiso sezingane eziningi ukujabulela imvelo, impilo ingokwemvelo futhi inempilo kunokuphila kwedolobha okungangcolisa kakhulu.
Ezinye izinzuzo:
- Imvelo yedolobha ithule futhi ihlala ngendlela elula kunasedolobheni.
- Impilo emadolobhaneni ivumela izingane ukuthi zihlale duzane nemvelo futhi zijabulele izindawo ezinhle.
- Bazokwazi ukuphefumula umoya ohlanzekile kunasemadolobheni.
- Bazoba nempilo engcono, impilo ekhuthele kakhulu nemikhuba yokuphila enempilo kunabantu abahlala emadolobheni.
- Ukuzola nokuthula empilweni yamadolobha, kunikeza amathuba okucabanga nokukhula kwengqondo, into engenakwenzeka empilweni yengcindezelo yedolobha.
- Ukuchichima kwezihlahla notshalo kuvumela indawo yokuhlala enempilo, ngakho-ke izingane zakho zingakhula zinezempilo engcono ngokomzimba nangamandla angaphakathi, mhlawumbe okuthile edolobheni obekungeke kube lula ukukufeza.
- Izingane zizo dlala isikhathi esithe xaxa ngaphandle ngaphandle kwezingozi ezikhona emadolobheni.
Amadolobha, njengoba ubona, anezinzuzo eziningi ezingeni lezempilo, Njengoba ngokuxhumana kakhulu nemvelo, abancane bangayithokozela ngokwengeziwe nakho konke okuhle okungabuletha kubo.
Ububi bokuhlala emadolobheni
Kepha ukuhlala ezigodini akukuhle kangako futhi futhi bangaba nokubi okukhulu. Lokhu kusilela kungakwenza usole uma ngabe ufuna ngempela ukuhlala edolobheni noma uma, kunalokho, ukhetha ukuthuthela edolobheni ukuze ukhulise izingane zakho. Okunye kokuphazamiseka okucacile kokuhlala edolobheni kungaba okulandelayo:
- Azikho izinsiza eziningi njengokuphila kwedolobha
- Amathuba ezigodini nawo ayindlala
- Uma ungenabo abantu ojwayelene nabo edolobheni, amathuba emisebenzi noma impumelelo ingase ibe yindlala
- Zimbalwa izinzuzo zemfundo
- Amathuba emisebenzi abi kakhulu noma aphansi
- Impilo edolobheni ingaba yisicefe
- Kungaba namasiko ajule kakhulu noma wesiko ongabelani nawo ngokugcwele noma angakwenzi uzizwe ukhonjwe ngokuphelele.
- Emadolobhaneni kuvame ukubandlululwa nokugxekwa phakathi kwabantu
- Abantu abaningi emaphandleni bakhungathekisa izimpilo zabanye ngoba banesikhathi esiningi esikhululekile
- Emadolobheni kuvame ukuba nezingane ezimbalwa kunasemadolobheni nasebekhulile ngokwengeziwe
Yize kungenzeki ukwenziwa ngobubi obuningi futhi kuzoba khona amadolobha angcono kunamanye, iqiniso lokuthi ubuhle nobubi lapho kuhlala nokukhulisa izingane emadolobheni kucacile.
Linganisa okuhle nokubi
Kuyadingeka ukukala okuhle nokubi ukuhlala edolobheni noma edolobheni, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi akuxhomekile kuphela kulokho okushiwo ngenhla. Uma unomndeni oseduze, ungakhetha ukuhlala edolobheni, noma uma ungaba nekhwalithi ephezulu yempilo ngenxa yamanani ashibhile ezindlu, isibonelo.
Kwesinye isikhathi, impilo emadolobheni ingaba yisithukuthezi, kepha uma unemoto futhi useduze nedolobha, ungahamba kalula ukuze uphile okunye okuhlangenwe nakho ngaphandle kwedolobha. Izingane zakho zizokwazi ukukhulela endaweni ezolile, enobutha obuncane kunalokho ongakuthola edolobheni.
Kepha njengoba sishilo manje, Ayikwazi ukuhlanganisa. Uma ufuna ukuhlala edolobheni, kufanele waziswe kahle ngokuthi idolobha linjani, imfundo elinayo ezikoleni zayo, ukuthi abantu banjani, izinsizakalo elinazo, imisebenzi ekhona ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukuya khona . Kuzofanele ucabange futhi ulinganise ubuhle nobubi kahle ukuze wazi ukuthi ukuhlala edolobheni kuyakunxephezela yini noma uma ukhetha idolobha.
Uma ngasizathu simbe unokungabaza, okusobala ukuthi ungahlala uzama ukuhlala edolobheni iminyaka embalwa, ubone ukuthi ziqhuba kanjani izingane zakho nokuthi impilo nabantu basemadolobheni bahamba nawe yini nobuntu bakho. Bheka ukuthi ngesabelomali sakho somndeni ungahlala kahle yini edolobheni nokuthi ukujabulela ukuphila kahle yini.
Uma kwenzeka, ngemuva kweminyaka eminingana, ubona ukuthi impilo yakulowo muzi ayikufanele, ungahlala njalo uthuthela kwenye indawo ekwenza uzizwe ungcono futhi lapho ucabanga ukuthi izingane zakho zizokwazi ukukhula kahle khona. Kepha khumbula, uma ufuna izingane zakho zikhule zijabule, yize kuya ngemvelo, abanakho ekhaya yikhona okuzobenza ngempela bakhule futhi bajabulele impilo.
Vele, ukuze ukwazi ukuhamba kalula uma kunesidingo, qasha ... Ngoba uma uthatha isibambiso kungaba nzima kakhulu ukushiya indawo.