Njalo lapho iminyaka ihluka kakhulu lapho ukhetha i- isikhathi esihle sokuba ngumama, abanye bakhetha ukuqala kusenesikhathi, abanye bakhetha ukulinda ukuze baqede umjaho, abanye bavele babone sengathi iminyaka ethile iyona engcono kakhulu noma iwashi lezinto eziphilayo isivele ikuxwayisa. Yiba yinoma ikanjani, sizoqhathanisa izinzuzo nobubi bokukhulelwa ngokweminyaka.
Ukukhulelwa eminyakeni yakho yama-20
Kubhekwa njengesikhathi "esinempilo kunazo zonke" ukwenza ukukhulelwa ngokuthula okuphelele kwengqondo, kepha-ke, bambalwa imibhangqwana engacabanga ukuthola umntwana kulesi sikhathi. Umzimba wowesifazane uyalalela ngokwengeziwe, imijikelezo yokuya esikhathini ivame ukuba njalo futhi ivundise, futhi nezinga lobungozi lomfutho wegazi ophezulu, isifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa, ukukhubazeka kombungu noma ukukhipha isisu okuzenzakalelayo baphansi kunakuqala.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umzimba uvumelana kangcono nezinguquko ngemuva kokubeletha, ukwazi ukubuyela esibalweni esedlule kalula. Elinye iphuzu elihle ukuthi isimo somzimba salesi sikhathi singcono ukukhulisa ingane, unamandla amaningi okuthwala okuzayo lapho unengane ekhaya (ubusuku obude ngaphandle kokulala, ukumlandela lapho ethatha izinyathelo zakhe zokuqala, njll. …).
Okubi: Izimo nokuvuthwa kungahle kungalungi, yize kungafanele njalo kube njalo.
Ukukhulelwa eminyakeni yakho yama-30
Noma inkomba yokuzala kunciphisa, ukukhulelwa kusenokwenzeka ngokwemvelo. Ochwepheshe batusa ukuqhubeka nokuzama unyaka, uma ukukhulelwa kungaveli, khona-ke ezinye izindlela zingasetshenziswa. Ngemuva kweminyaka yobudala engama-35, ubungozi besifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa, umfutho wegazi ophakeme, ukuphuphuma kwesisu noma ukulethwa ngokuhlinzwa kuphindwe kabili kwabesifazane abakuma-20-30s abo. Kusukela kulesi sikhathi, ngaphezu kwalokho, i-amniocenteis nezinye izivivinyo ziyadingeka.
Inzuzo enkulu: Ukuzinza okuvamise ukuba nakho kulesi sikhathi kwenza abesifazane abaningi bakubone njengokulungele ukuqala umndeni.
Ukukhulelwa eminyakeni yakho yama-40
Kusukela kulesi sikhathi kunzima ukuthola i- ukukhulelwa ngokwemvelo, futhi noma ngubani ofuna ukukufeza ngaleyo ndlela kufanele aphile impilo enempilo kakhulu. Umzimba ululama kancane kancane ngemuva kokubeletha, futhi izinguquko zamahomoni zingakhathaza.
Enye yezinto ezikhathaza kakhulu ngokuba nezingane kule minyaka ibanga lokukhiqiza.
Ubuhle: Ukuvuthwa, ulwazi, ukubekezela futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ulwazi, izimfanelo ezinhle zokuthola umntwana.
Imininingwane engaphezulu - Indlela yokuphila enempilo esekela ukukhulelwa
Isithombe - Impilo Yabesifazane