Zishintshe kanjani izikhathi. Ngikhumbula esizukulwaneni sami (leso sika '82, esingekude kangako) ukuthi izingane zazihlangana kanjani ntambama ziyodlala ngaphandle. Ezintanjeni, ephahleni, endaweni yokucasha, edukuni, ephoyiseni nakisela, enkukhwini engaboni ... nakho konke okufika emqondweni. Izingane zanamuhla azisakwazi ukudlala.
Namuhla izingane kufanele zivumelane nezwe labantu abadala abanezimfuno eziningi, lapho kudelwa khona amahora abo emidlalo ukuze kubonakale kuyinto evunyelwe. Ukube besazi zonke izinzuzo zayo besingeke sicabange ngokufanayo.
Namuhla izingane zichitha izinsuku zazo zivalelwe ezindongeni ezine. Ngaphezu kokuphasa izinsuku zemarathon ezikoleni okuthi ezimweni eziningi zilingane namahora okusebenza abantu abadala, lapho-ke kufanele babe sekhaya njengoba kwenza amahora amaningi umsebenzi wasekhaya abazibekile. Kwezabo Simbalwa isikhathi samahhala esenzelwe ukudlala nethebhulethi, ikhompyutha noma iselula. Akukho ukukhanya, akukho moya, akukho ukuhleka, akukho midlalo.
Umphakathi ushintshile. Izingane zanamuhla ziphucwa ubuntwana bazo.
Izinzuzo zokudlala izingane ngaphandle
- Xhumana nemvelo. Sasixhumana ngqo nemvelo, sasidlala enkundleni, endlini kagogo nomkhulu, ezintabeni nasemabhishi. Sidlale ngesihlabathi, amaqabunga, izithelo eziwele ezihlahleni, umhlaba ... Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izingane zifunde ukudlala ngemvelo yazo.
- Ukuzivocavoca. Lapho bedlala ngaphandle bayagijima, bagxume, bagxume ... bakhipha wonke amandla abo. Yini enye kuvimbela ukukhuluphala ngokweqile kwengane nokukhuluphala ngokweqile, Kuyakhathaza kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva ngenxa yenani elikhulu likashukela abalithatha nsuku zonke nokuvivinya umzimba okuncane noma abakwenza. Ivimbela impilo yokuhlala phansi, ithuthukisa impilo yabo futhi ithulule amandla abo. Izingane zidinga ukunyakaza futhi zidlale ngaphandle ukuze zikhule kahle ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
- Ukucabanga. Lapho sidlala sikhulisa konke ubuqambi kanye nomcabango. Bakha, basungula imidlalo nemithetho yabo, bayazama futhi bazijabulise. Ukuhlakanipha kwabo kuyakhula futhi bafunda ukwenza ngcono njengoba behamba. Ngokungabi sendaweni elawulwa njengekhaya lakho, uzofunda ukuzivumelanisa nezimo ezivela.
- Ubudlelwano bezenhlalo. Ungomunye we Izinzuzo eziyinhloko. Ngokuya ngaphandle, bafunda ukuxhumana nezinye izingane futhi benze abangane abasha, futhi baqinise amakhono abo okuxhumana nabantu azodingeka kangako ezimpilweni zabo zonke.
- Ukuzimela. Ukudlala ngaphandle kuyabenza ezizimele ngokwengeziwe futhi ezimele, okuzobavumela lapho sebekhulile ukubhekana nezinkinga ezizayo.
- Vimbela ukucindezeleka. Eminyakeni yamuva, inani lezimo zezingane ezinokukhathazeka nokudangala likhule ngokushaqisayo. Umdlalo ubenza babhekane nobungozi nezinselelo okufanele babhekane nazo futhi bathole izixazululo. Yini enye bafunde ukuphatha imizwa yabo engemihle.
Ukugembula kufanele kube ngumsebenzi wakho oyinhloko
Njengoba sibonile, umdlalo awenzelwa ukuzijabulisa nokuzijabulisa nje kuphela. Ukudlala kufanele kube ngomunye wemisebenzi eyinhloko yengane. Le yindlela afunda ngayo, uhlobana kanjani nendawo ahlala kuyo, ukuthi uhlangana kanjani nabantu, ufunda kanjani ukudala nokuhlonipha, futhi abhekane nezinselelo. Kuyindlela yokubenza bajabule esingenakususa kubo.
Uma ngidlala ayikho inselelo, futhi ngaphandle kwenselelo akukho kufunda. Singasenza futhi isibonelo, sibeke eceleni iselula futhi sidlale nabo. Yizinkumbulo nezikhathi ezingeke zibuye.
Ngokusobala namhlanje kunezingozi ezazingekho ngesikhathi sisebancane kodwa lokho ezingathetheleli ukuthi siphuca izingane into ebaluleke kangaka ekukhuleni kwazo. Kumele sibavumele bazibeke engcupheni, benze amaphutha, bafunde, bawe bavuke, bakhungatheke futhi balinganise.
Ngoba khumbula… singahlala sinakile uma besidinga, kepha kufanele sibayeke bahlole umhlaba.