Njengabanye abazali abaningi, mhlawumbe ufuna ukuthuthukisa ubuhlakani ngaphambi kwanoma yini enye. Ubuhlakani nobuhlakani obungokomzwelo ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele kuhambisane ukuze ingane ikhule ngendlela elinganiselayo futhi enye indlela yokufeza lokhu ukufunda izindaba ezincane kusukela isencane kakhulu. Bonke abazali bafuna izingane ezikhanyayo, ezihlakaniphile yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha isikole esihle nokuthi othisha babe othisha abahle ... kodwa imfihlo yemfundo enhle nentuthuko enhle njalo (njalo!) iqala ekhaya.
Kumele ukhumbule ukuthi njengomzali unamandla wokuvula amakhono okufunda ezingane zakho ngokwenza okuthile okulula njengokwenza izincwadi nokufunda kube yingxenye ebalulekile nezimqoka empilweni yazo. Ngineqiniso lokuthi ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakho uyazi ukuthi ukufundela izingane zakho kuyinto enhle kakhulu, kepha ngabe uyazi ngempela ukuthi kungani kukuhle? Uyazi ukuthi yiziphi izinzuzo ezithile ezinganeni encane noma esikoleni sokuzifundela nsuku zonke? Namuhla ngifuna ukukhuluma nawe ngezinzuzo ezithile eziqhakambisa ukubaluleka kokufundela izingane zakho nsuku zonke, ikakhulukazi eminyakeni ephakathi kwemibili kuya kwemihlanu.
Thuthukisa isibopho somzali nengane
Ukufundela izingane zakho nsuku zonke kuzodala ubudlelwano obunempilo nobunempilo nezingane zakho. Njengoba izingane zikhula, zizoqala ukunyakaza kakhulu ukuze zazi imvelo nokuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuzicupha eduze kwakho ukuze uzifundele indaba emnandi Kuzoba ngumzuzu wesisa kakhulu kini nobabili enizowujabulela futhi niwukhumbule ngothando olukhulu.. Ingane izoqala ukuzwa ukuthi umzuzu wokufunda umzuzwana wokuthula nokuzilibazisa, okukuhlobanisa nothando oluzizwayo ngabazali bayo ... ngakho-ke ayisoze yaba yinto eyisicefe noma umsebenzi.
Thuthukisa amakhono okukhuluma
Ukufundela izingane kuzisiza ukuthi zithuthukise amakhono azo olimi futhi zizofunda amagama amaningi. Izingane ezineminyaka esenkulisa zifunda ukubiza amagama kanye namakhono olimi abaluleke kakhulu ekusunguleni inkulumo. Ngokulalela izindaba, izingane zizobe ziqinisa imisindo eyisisekelo eyakha ulimi lwabo lwebele. Kwesinye isikhathi ingane ingathatha indaba ikhamise ixoxe, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu njengomsebenzi wangaphambi kokufunda nokubhala. Kancane kancane uzoqala ukukhuluma amagama futhi wandise ukunemba kwakho kwesilulumagama nokubiza amagama.
Thuthukisa amakhono wokuxhumana
Ukufundela izingane indaba nsuku zonke kuzozisiza ukuthi zibe namakhono angcono okukhulumisana. Lapho uchitha isikhathi ufundela izingane zakho, zingaba namathuba amaningi okuthi ziveze imizwa yazo futhi zisebenzisane ngokufanele nabanye ngendlela enempilo. Ngokubona ukuxhumana phakathi kwabalingiswa ezindabeni owamfundela zona, angaqala ukwakha uhlaka lwezenhlalo olunempilo engqondweni yakhe. Kungakho futhi udinga ukuthi ukhethe izindaba ezivumelaniswa neminyaka nokukhula kwezinga lezingane zakho.
Kuthuthukisa umyalo wolimi
Ukwazi kahle ulimi kubalulekile ukwakha ukuxhumana okuhle nabanye. Ukufundela ezinganeni bekuhlale kuhlobene nokuqonda okungcono izisekelo zolimi lapho zisondela eminyakeni yobudala besikole lapho kufundiswa khona lolu lwazi. Kepha esemncane kubalulekile ukuqonda kahle nokuqala komyalo wolimi lwebele.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono wokucabanga okunengqondo
Lapho ufundela izingane zakho nsuku zonke uzobe uzisiza ukuthi zithuthukise ukucabanga kwazo okunengqondo. Bazokwazi ukuqala ukuqonda imiqondo engaqondakali, basebenzise imiqondo ezimeni ezahlukahlukene zempilo yabo, bakwazi ukubona imbangela nomphumela futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukusebenzisa ukwahlulela okuhle. Lapho izingane zakho ezincane ziqala ukuhlobanisa izimo ezisezincwadini nalokho okungenzeka empilweni yangempela (ezweni labo), bazojabula kakhulu ukuzwa futhi babelane ngezindaba eziningi.
Thuthukisa ukugxila nokuziphatha
Ukugxila kanye nokuziphatha kuyasetshenzelwa nezingane lapho kufundwa izindaba kubo nsuku zonke. Izingane ezincane zingahlala zilalele indaba, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zizofunda ukuhlala ukuze zithande i-movie noma umdlalo. Kanye nokuqonda kokufunda, kukhona futhi isiyalo ngenxa yokuthuthuka kwesikhathi sokunaka nenkumbulo, okuthile okungangabazeki ukuthi kuzohamba kahle kakhulu lapho beqala ulwazi olungaqondakali esikoleni.
Ukugqama kwezemfundo
Enye yezinzuzo ezisemqoka zokufunda ezinganeni ezisacathula nasenkulisa ukuthi zingaba nokuthambekela okungcono nokuthambekela ekufundeni jikelele. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abafundi abavulekele ukufunda ngaphambi kwezinkulisa kungenzeka baphumelele kwezinye izici zemfundo ehlelekile. Kuyadingeka ukuqonda amagama nemishwana futhi ukwazi ukuchaza nokukhuluma izinto ukuze uqonde izibalo, isayensi noma omunye umqondo wezenhlalo ozokwethulwa kubo esikoleni sabaqalayo.
Ukucabanga ngokuhlangenwe nakho okusha
Lapho ingane ifundwa izindaba endaweni emnandi, ngaphezu kokuzwa ukuthi kungokuhlangenwe nakho okufanelekile, izokwazi ukulandela umucu wendaba uzwe ukuthi uyakuqonda okwenzekayo. Yini enye, Uma ingane iphila okuhlangenwe nakho okucindezelayo, mhlawumbe indaba enhle ephathelene nalokho okwenzekile izoyisiza ukuthi ithole amasu okubhekana nakho. Isibonelo, uma ingane inovalo ngoba kufanele iqale esikoleni esisha, ukuyifundela indaba ebhekene nokukhathazeka ezimweni ezintsha kuzoba yimpumelelo.
Ukufunda kumnandi
Uma konke lokhu kubonakala njengezizathu ezimbalwa zokuthi kungani kukuhle kuwe ukufundela izingane zakho nsuku zonke, enye-ke engivele ngiyibalile ngenhla kodwa okungafanele uyikhohlwe yilena: ukubaluleka kokuthi ukufunda kwengane kube yinto ehlekisayo. A) Yebo, ukwabelana ngezikhathi ezinhle lapho ukufunda kungumlingiswa oyinhloko, ingane izofunda ukuzwa ukuthi ukufunda kuyinto enhle futhi uzokwazi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukukhetha izincwadi kunemidlalo yevidiyo, ithelevishini noma ezinye izinhlobo zokuzijabulisa ezingafanelekile.
Ingabe usuyayazi vele incwadi ozoyifundela izingane zakho kulobubusuku?
Yeka iposi eliphumelelayo uMaría José! Ukufunda kuqinisa izibopho zomndeni, kuthuthukisa ukuqonda nokukhuluma, futhi kumnandi kakhulu. Ekhaya sifundele izingane iminyaka eminingi, noma ngabe bezivele zifunda ngokuqonda nangokuqephuza, kuyinto eyingqayizivele nengakhohlwayo.
Eminyakeni edlule kukhombisa, yeka isaziso! kepha ngincamela ukungatsheli okuningi, nokuthi ngamunye uthola izinzuzo zokufunda emadodakazini / emadodaneni abo.
Ngiyabonga ngokunikeza lawa macebiso komama nobaba bezingane ezisencane, ngineqiniso lokuthi kuzobenzela okuhle kakhulu.
Sawubona Macarena! Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngeqhaza lakho, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi kuhle kakhulu ukuthi ungatsheli okuningi ... kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bakuthole nezingane zabo! Izinzuzo zokufundela izingane ziyamangalisa! Sanibonani