Ukuze kuthuthukiswe ubuhlakani ezinganeni, uthando lwazo lokufunda kumele luthuthukiswe. Ukukwazi ukuthuthukisa ubuhlakani ezinganeni nokuthi ukufunda kuyinto emnandi kuboInto yokuqala okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi ukucabanga kubaluleke kakhulu kunolwazi. Ngakho-ke lolo lwazi alunqunyelwe, kufanele baqonde ukuthi ukucabanga kungasiza ukuqonda noma imuphi umqondo, kepha kuyodingeka njalo ufune ukwazi nokuqonda izinto eziphambi kwakho.
Kunokuthile okuhle nomlingo ebuntwaneni okufanele kugcinwe njengoba izingane zikhula. LNgeshwa izwe labantu abadala ligcizelela ukuthi abancane bayeke ukukhula futhi baphikise ukucabanga kwabo ngaphandle kokubona iphutha elikhulu abalenzayo. Ukudala, ukucabanga kanye nokufunda kuyahambisana futhi akukwazi ukuhlukaniswa.
Ukudala kanye nekhono lokusungula amanye amakhono amakhono abaluleke kakhulu empilo adingekayo ukuze uphumelele. Ikakhulukazi ngoba umhlaba, njengoba sikhula, uthopha, yonke into ihamba ngokushesha futhi kubonakala sengathi ukuncintisana sekuvame kakhulu. Ngakho-ke ngalo mphakathi osheshayo, singazisiza kanjani izingane zethu zikhulise amakhono azidingayo ukuze zithuthukise ubuhlakani futhi zingalahleki endleleni eya ekukhuleni?
Ukudlala kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthuthukisa ubuhlakani
Sonke senza izinto zibe ngcono ezingqondweni zethu lapho siba nesikhathi esimnandi, yingakho ukudlala kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthuthukisa ubuhlakani nokuthuthukisa ukufunda ezinganeni. Futhi, lapho sikhululekile futhi sinethezekile kulapho imibono ekhuthaza kakhulu ivela ezingqondweni zethu.
Izingane lapho zidlala zenza umsebenzi obucayi wokuthuthuka ngoba zifunda izinto ezinhle. Lapho bedweba umama noma ubaba bathuthukisa umcabango, uma ufuna ukubhala indaba… qhubeka! Ziyizindlela ezimnandi zokufunda nokwenza ngcono amakhono empilo. Amakhono omphakathi nolimi kuzobasiza ukuthi babe nokucabanga okuhlelekile.
Izingane zakha ukuzethemba kwazo, zifunde ukwenza izinto ezinhle, zisungula izinto ezintsha nokuthi ukufunda kuba kuhle kuzo. Ngale ndlela bazobona noma yini ephathelene nokufunda njengento enhle kubo, njengento emnandi ... njengomdlalo. Ufuna imibono yokusiza izingane zakho zithuthukise ubuhlakani futhi zithuthukise uthando lokufunda? Ungaphuthelwa izeluleko ezilandelayo.
Yenza isikhathi sokudlala
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola isikhathi emini ukuze izingane zidlale ngokuthula ekhaya, zikwazi ukwenza imisebenzi ngaphandle kokuhlelelwa ... ngamafuphi, badinga isikhathi samahhala sokuba izingane futhi bafunde kuphela ukuthi bazi kanjani… ukudlala!
Amashejuli wezingane awadingi ukuthi agcwale imisebenzi yesikhashana engazishiyi isikhathi sokuba izingane. Badinga ukuba (futhi kufanele kube usuku ngalunye) isikhathi sokudlala esingahlelekile futhi kubaluleke kakhulu njengokuqiniswa kwezemfundo noma amakilasi omculo… hhayi ukuchitha isikhathi nhlobo! Ngale ndlela bazoba nesikhathi sokuthuthuka, sithuthukise ubuhlakani futhi babone ukuthi ukufunda kungaba mnandi. Ukufunda, ukudweba, ukudlala nezimoto, ukwakha izindaba… konke lokhu kungasiza izingane zakho zifunde futhi zikwazi lokho ezikuthandayo ngempela.
Isigaba sani
Kukhona isigaba lapho izingane ziqala ukubuza ukuthi kungani konke, banelukuluku elingenamkhawulo futhi abazizwa benesidingo sokuma ukuze bafunde izinto. Kuyadingeka ukuthi lapho ingane yakho ikubuza ukuthi kungani konke, adonse umoya futhi aphendule imibuzo yakhe ngakho konke ukuthula nokuzola emhlabeni. Lapho izingane zibuza ukuthi kungani yonke into iwuphawu lobuhlakani nentshisekelo emhlabeni.
Akudingekile ukuthi umphendule ngempendulo eyiyo, ukuze uthuthukise ukufunda kwakhe kufanele umvumele ukuthi athathe isinyathelo sokuthola impendulo eyiyo. Ngale ndlela bangafunda ukuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo yabo, ngaphansi kokuholwa nguwe.
Khuluma okuhle
Udinga ukufunda ukukhuluma kahle. Ukugxekwa kuthinta ukuzethemba kuzo zonke izimpilo zezingane, ngakho-ke kufanele wazise izingane zakho ukuthi uyayithanda imizamo yazo yokwenza izinto kahle nsuku zonke. Kufanele futhi bazi ukuthi ukwenza amaphutha akuyona into embi nokuthi ukuze uphumelele kufanele wenze amaphutha futhi ufunde emaphutheni. Udinga ukujabulela inqubo ukuze uthokozele umphumela wokugcina.
Udinga ukuchazela izingane ukuthi ayikho into efana nokwehluleka, kunamathuba kuphela okuqonda izinto ngezindlela ezintsha. Lapho ingane yakho ikhombisa ikhono elisha, naka lokho akwenzayo bese uyikhuthaza ukuthi iqhubeke ikwenza uma ikuthanda. Uyisibonelo sabo esikhulu yize ungeke uqaphele ukuthi uyisibalo esingcono kakhulu esingaba khona somntanakho.
Izinzwa njengabaphikisi
Lapho izingane zikwazi ukuzwa okwenzekayo emhlabeni ngezinzwa zazo, zizokwazi ukufunda okuningi futhi kangcono. Indlela enhle yokudlala ngezinzwa ukuya engadini uzivumele zihlole imvelo. Ngale ndlela bazokwazi ukuxhumana nezinambuzane, izimbali nezinyoni… uzokwazi ukuzwa ukwakheka, unuke iphunga lezimbali futhi bazokwazi ukuthi kuzoba nezinto abangakwazi ukuzithinta ngoba ziyahlaba noma ziyaluma.
Uma ingane ingakwazi ukuphuma iye engadini, izinzwa zingasetshenziswa ekhaya. Isibonelo, ungadlala ngofulawa noma uketshezi (ulungisa yonke into ukuze igumbi lingangcoli kakhulu), noma uthathe ibhokisi ufake amaphepha nezinto ngaphakathi bese wenza ingane yakho iqagele ukuthi ivalwe yini amehlo, noma mhlawumbe ukhombe izinto ngephunga noma ukunambitha… kunemibono eminingi!
Ungathembi i-elekthronikhi futhi uhlanganyele nezingane zakho nsuku zonke ukuthuthukisa ubuciko bazo nokwandisa umuzwa oqondile maqondana nokufunda.