Yize kungabonakala kuvikela ngokweqile, ngaphezu kokuba nengxoxo yokuphola enempilo nendodakazi yakho eyeve eshumini nambili, akukaze kube buhlungu ukwazi umlingani wakho futhi ukhulume naye. Ngale ndlela uzoqinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi kunjani futhi ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda izinhloso anazo nendodakazi yakho. Uma isoka lakho likuthanda ngempela, ngeke libe nankinga yokuhlangana nawe.
Abazali kufanele bahlangane namadodakazi. Akukhathalekile ukuthi iyihlazo elingakanani endodakazini yakho kodwa idinga ukwenziwa. Kungabonakala njengesidala, kepha awufuni ukuthi indodakazi yakho eyeve eshumini nambili ihlangane nomuntu ongamazi nhlobo. Ziningi kakhulu izindaba ezethusayo laphaya, ngeshwa.
Lapho usuku lufika ekhaya, cisha ifoni yakho, ucishe ithelevishini, bese unikeza lowo mntwana ukunakwa okumfanele: xhawula isandla somkhwenyana, uzethule, mbuze ukuthi uyafuna yini amanzi, futhi ngethemba lokuthi uzokunaka ufanelwe. emuva. Ufuna futhi ukuthi azi ukuthi uyikhathalela kakhulu indodakazi yakho, futhi uzoqhubeka uyiqaphele ngenkathi uyikhombisa ukuthi unelukuluku ngempilo yayo, izinhloso zayo, nangezintshisekelo zayo. Kunika futhi uthathe.
Yiba nokulindela okucacile maqondana nesoka
Xoxa nendodakazi yakho ngesikhathi obekelwe sona, ugcizelele ukuthi kubalulekile kuwe nokuthi kufanele wazi ukuthi kuzoba kuphi lapho kuphakama isimo esiphuthumayo. Buza nokuthi uzohlangana yini nomunye umuntu ngaphandle kosuku lwakho, futhi umazise uma uke uzizwe ungakhululekile phakathi kosuku nesoka lakho noma omunye umuntu.Ukuphela kokufanele ukwenze ukuthumela imiyalezo noma ukushaya ucingo.
Lapho uhlonipha kakhulu imingcele yendodakazi yakho, lapho ezokwazi khona ukukuthemba (ngethemba) futhi azizwe ekhululekile ukwabelana ngalolu lwazi. (Kodwa-ke, qiniseka ukuthi uhlala unamathela emikhawulweni yabo futhi.) Vele udinga ukubuza ngosuku lwakho noma umlingani wakho noma kunini lapho udinga khona.
Indodakazi yakho akudingeki ikuzwe lokhu njengokungena empilweni yakhe yangasese, kepha kunalokho njengendlela yakho yokukhathazeka ngaye futhi ngasikhathi sinye ekhombisa ukuzethemba kwakho.