Kungani indodakazi yami ikhuluma ngomuntu wesithathu

indodakazi yami ikhuluma ngomuntu wesithathu

Kukhona okuhlukile ukuthi izingane angakhuluma kumuntu wesithathu. Kukhona abazali ababona ukuthi indodakazi yabo ikhuluma nalokhu okuhlukile, basebenzise amabinzana anjengokuthi “UPaula uzodlala”, esikhundleni sokusebenzisa ibinzana elijwayelekile elithi “Ngizodlala”.

Izingane ziqala ukukhuluma nokuqina inkhulumomphendvulwano lencane kusuka etinyangeni letingu-18 kuye eminyakeni le-2. Ezimweni eziningi kuvamile ukuzwa izingane zikhuluma ngabo kumuntu wesithathu. Kodwa-ke, lesi simo singathuthukiswa size sifike eminyakeni eyi-3 futhi kusuka kule minyaka ukuthi uma siqhubeka senziwa kungaba uphawu lokuphazamiseka kwemizwa noma kwenkulumo.

Indodakazi yami ikhuluma ngomuntu wesithathu

Abazali abaningi babhala noma babheke ukukhathazeka kwabo ngongoti noma ngamanethiwekhi. Ezimweni eziningi, bathi indodakazi yabo, selokhu yaqala ukukhuluma ineminyaka emibili kuze kube manje (iminyaka emi-4), iyaqhubeka nokukhulisa ukukhula kwayo okuhle ekukhuleni enkulumweni kepha ngemishwana lapho ivezwe khona kumuntu wesithathu.

Kulezi zimo, abazali bangabekwa ezandleni zochwepheshe ukuze bakwazi ukukhipha umthetho ezinye izinkinga zengqondo njengezinkinga zokuvuthwa. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, izama ukuhlaziya uma kungaba inkinga ye-autism

Izimbangela zokuthi ingane ikhulume kumuntu wesithathu

Uma indodakazi yakho isivele isineminyaka emi-4 ubudala, kungaba uphawu lokuphazamiseka kwemizwa noma kwenkulumo. Kufanele uye kudokotela onguchwepheshe ukuze uhlaziye isimo uma kungenzeka kube nezinkinga ezinjengalezi ezilandelayo:

Indodakazi yakho ingaba ne-autism lapho kusuka kule minyaka izimpawu zibonakala kakhulu. Kulokhu kuba nokushintshwa kokuxhumana ngamazwi nangamazwi. Uma indodakazi yakho inesifo se-echolalia (ukulingiswa noma ukuphindaphindwa kwemisindo, izingxoxo noma izingoma ngokungazithandi futhi ngokushesha ngemuva kokuzwa), zenzele amagama noma ukhulume ngawe kumuntu wesithathu, lezi zimpawu ziyizinkomba zokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uhlushwa yi-autism.

indodakazi yami ikhuluma ngomuntu wesithathu

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlushwa yi uhlobo oluthile lwe-psychosis ebuntwaneni. Phakathi kwalolu hlobo lokugula ngengqondo kungavela izimpawu ezihambisanayo njengokuphazamiseka kokukhuluma, imibono yezinzwa engajwayelekile, izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bezenhlalo noma ukungahambi kahle lapho kuhamba khona.

Izingane ezithi babe nobunzima ekuxhumaneni kwabo ezingeni lomphakathi noma ekuziphatheni kwabo: Bakhuluma kumuntu wesithathu, bathambekele ekubeni manqikanqika ukwazi imithetho ababekelwe yona, ababambisani nemisebenzi yasekilasini noma ababambiqhaza ekudlaleni nezinye izingane noma ngamaqembu.

Abantu abadala nabo bakhuluma kumuntu wesithathu

Abantu abadala nabo bangakhuluma kumuntu wesithathu.  Lapha akusekho nhlobo uhlobo lokuphazamiseka, kepha kungadala isimilo sokuziphatha okuphawula ubuntu.

Kulokhu bangakhombisa izinhloso ezahlukahlukene njengokuzithiba, bayakwazi ukuqamba amanga, bafihle okuthile, ukufuna ukuqashelwa noma ngisho nokubonisa ukuthobeka. Ezimweni eziningi, abantu abadala abakhombisi zimpawu zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ngakho-ke akukho lutho olungalungile ngokukhuluma kumuntu wesithathu.


indodakazi yami ikhuluma ngomuntu wesithathu

Kukhona izingane ezithola indlela yazo yokukhuluma kumuntu wesithathu ngokulingisa abazali babo. Kulokhu siyabona ukuthi singabazali uqobo lwabo abakhuluma ngale ndlela ngaphandle kokuthi kube khona kakhulu. Isibonelo yilapho singathi, "Bamba ifoni kaDaddy ngenkathi ngifaka inkinobho yejazi lakho," esikhundleni sokuthi "Ngibambele ifoni ngenkathi ngicofa ibhantshi lakho."

Kuwukutholwa kolimi, lapho bazibhekisa kubo ukuqinisa isimilo noma isicelo. Kulezi zimo kuvame ukuba umkhuba futhi izingane zivame ukuthwebula le datha futhi ziyilingise njengokulingisa. Ungafunda izihloko eziningi ezihlobene lapho ungafunda khona "ungayifundisa kanjani ingane yakho ukukhuluma"Noma"imisebenzi yansuku zonke yokuthuthukisa ulimi ezinganeni".


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  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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