Kungani ingane yami isiqalile ukungingiza

Kungani ingane yami isiqalile ukungingiza

Lapho ingane yakho iqala ukungingiza Ingahlukaniswa nezinkinga zokuqephuza lapho iphinda imisindo noma amalunga, yakha amagama aphukile, ibhlokhi, amagama enwetshelwa ngemisindo, noma kuba nokungezwani. La maqiniso avela ngesikhathi esifanele noma ezingxoxweni ezihlukene.

Kuvamile ukubona izingane ezinezinkinga zokukhuluma ngokushelelayo, lapho isibonelo yenza impinda yamagama noma imishwana. Leli qiniso livela cishe ku-5% wezingane lapho zimelela khona le nkinga yokushelelana phakathi iminyaka emibili nengxenye neminyaka emihlanu. Lapho kuvela khona lokhu kuvela kaningi ngezikhathi zokukhathala, ukuvimba, imizwa noma ingcindezi.

Lapho ingane iqala ukungingiza

Isigaba sokuqala lapho iqala khona ukubonakala amagama abo okuqala azungeze izinyanga eziyi-18-24. Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane isivele iqala ukukhulisa ulwazimagama lwayo futhi ihlanganise amagama ukwakha imisho. Kulula ukubona ukuthi ngokwenza lokho ingane qala ukungingiza futhi kungakhathaza abazali abaningi, kepha kufanele ubekezele ngoba empeleni kuba iqiniso elijwayelekile.

Kufanele kwenziwe ukuxilongwa okuhlukanisa inkinga yokungingiza ngenkinga ethile yokuqephuza. Ingane ingaba nezinkinga ngezikhathi ezithile ekukhulumeni lapho khona ukungingiza kumelwe khona, yize ezimweni eziningi imvamisa kungenxa yokuthi ufuna ukukhuluma ngokushesha okukhulu kunalokho ongakwenza. Uchwepheshe wezinkulumo angahlola futhi ahlole ukuthi ingane iyangingiza yini futhi udinga uhlobo oluthile losizo olukhethekile.

Ngingingiza futhi ingaqala cishe eminyakeni emi-3 nengu-4 ubudala, Kulapho ingane iqala khona ukwakha ulimi oluyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, lapho ivele ithuthukise imisho yonke bese ithuthukisa imibono. Ngalesi sikhathi kunezingane eziqala ukungingiza kanti kunamaphesenti angama-20 kuya kwangu-25 kuphela ezingane ezisele nalokhu kungingiza okuqhubekayo.

Kungani ingane yami isiqalile ukungingiza

Ukuphindaphindwa kwamaqoqo akunqumi ukuxilonga ukuthi ingane iyangingiza, ngoba kuvame ukwenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile. Kodwa-ke, uma ukuphindaphindwa kwamazwi kuvela ngesikhathi senkulumo mpikiswano kanye nokushuba kwesimo, lapho-ke singakhuluma ngokungingiza.

Izingane ezikuthola kunzima ukuletha inkhulumomphendvulwano zingeqa le nkinga futhi zingayenzi ibaluleke. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunezingane ezingakwazi ukuthuthukisa ingxoxo kahle kubangela ukukhathazeka nokwesaba ukukhuluma, kuthinta ukuba namabhulokhi amaningi nobunzima bokukwazi ukuxhumana.

Amathiphu okusiza ingane yakho lapho iqala ukungingiza

Sibhekene nalezi ziqephu ezingingiza, bazali kufanele baqondise konke ukwesekwa kwabo behlise umoya, kodwa zama ukungasho imishwana efana nokucela ingane ukuthi "uthathe umoya ojulile", noma "kufanele wehlise umoya" noma ubeke ngaphambi kokusho ukuthi ingane izothini, ngaphandle kokushiya ithuba lokuthi ikwenze lokho. Kufanele uvumele okuzenzekelayo nokungalindelekile kuvela ngokwemvelo.

Kufanele uyivumele iziveze ngazo zonke izindlela, lapho kufanele khona. akufanele iphazanyiswe, hlala unake njalo kulokho abazositshela khona, noma ngabe kukhona esikwenzayo, futhi uma kungenzeki ukubanakekela, okungenani bacele ukuthi balinde umzuzu.

Kungani ingane yami isiqalile ukungingiza


Uma unengxoxo zama khuluma kancane futhi ngezwi eliphansi, ngoba lokho kuthulisa futhi kuqinisekise imvelo. Futhi asikwazi ukubheka eceleni lapho engingiza. Gwema ukusho amagama amabi lapho engingiza, kubangela ukuvinjelwa okuningi nokungavikeleki: "Thula", "khuluma kangcono", "kanjani?", "khuluma kangcono", njalo njalo.

Ubhekene nalawa maqiniso, ingane engingizayo kufanele ube nokusekelwa komndeni okuhle kakhulu. Akudingeki ukuthi ubone ukusabela noma izinkulumo ezibanga ukungaqiniseki, noma zenze ngokungahambisani futhi uhlale endaweni ezolile ukuze kungakubangeli ukukhathazeka okuningi. Ingane kufanele iphephe futhi izole ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ingazizwa yahlulelwe. Uma ufuna ukuthuthukisa indlela yakho yokukhuluma kahle ungafunda eyethu ukuzivocavoca ukukwenza ekhaya okuthuthukisa ukuthintitha.


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