Ukuba ngumama mhlawumbe ngomunye wemisebenzi enzima kakhulu laphaya, kepha ngokuqinisekile futhi ngomunye wemivuzo emikhulu. Nsuku zonke kufanele ubalwele, basize bakhule, babafundise futhi babakhulise njengezingane ezinomthwalo wemfanelo nabantu abalungile. Uzabalazela ukubanika okusemandleni akho futhi ubafundise ukwazisa izinto, yize kwesinye isikhathi, njengezingane, bengabongi.
Kulula ukuthi kungabikho mama ongazitshela ukuthi izingane zakhe zilahle ithemba, ngoba umphakathi udale indima yokuba ngumama onothando othanda izingane zakhe ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye. Omama ababhaka amakhekhe ekhishini, abahlale benawo ukumamatheka ebusweni bakho nezwi elifudumele ngenzalo yesizalo sakhe. Kepha iqiniso lihluke kakhulu, umsebenzi, amahora angenakwenzeka, imisebenzi eyinkulungwane neyodwa nesikhathi esincane kakhulu sakho.
Ngamafuphi, imisebenzi engapheli nemisebenzi okumele ingezwe isimilo sezingane, ukukhathazeka kwabo kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo omama abayiphonsa emuva. Okuthi ekupheleni kosuku kube ubhaka onzima ukuphatha futhi kugcine kuphele ithemba. Noma kunjalo, akufanele uzizwe unecala ngalowo muzwa, ngoba kuyingxenye yobudlelwano uqobo uqobo
Ngiyazithanda izingane zami, kepha kwesinye isikhathi ziyangilahla ithemba
Ukuphelelwa yisineke kuyinto evamile, kuyinto ejwayelekile njengaleyo izingane zifuna ngenkani. Lelo zinga lokufunwa, lokudinga ukunakwa njalo, ukungalaleli okokuqala njengoba ulidinga, yilokho okwenza uzizwe sengathi izingane zakho ziphelelwe yithemba. Okuthi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwabelwane ngakho iningi lomama nobaba. Ingabe lokho kusho ukuthi uzithanda kancane izingane zakho? Ngokusobala cha, akunjalo. Kusho nje lokho ungumuntu onezidingo futhi leyo mpilo uqobo iyinkimbinkimbi yabo bonke abantu.
Izingane ziyisizathu esikhulu senjabulo, zingukuzikhulisa thina futhi kuzo kulula ukubona inguqulo yokuhamba phambili nokubi kakhulu ngakunye. Kodwa noma kunjalo, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi noma ngabe basebancane kangakanani, izingane zinobuntu bazo. Ezinye izingane zikhohlise kakhulu, ezinye zihlukaniswe kakhulu, ezinye zinesimilo esibi kakhulu, ezinye azinanqondo, ngamafuphi, zihluke ngokuphelele.
Ukuzwa ukuthi izingane zakho ziphelelwe yithemba akukwenzi ube ngumama omubi, akusikho ukuntuleka kothando, kungumuzwa ojwayelekile wokuthi Ungamangala ukuthi bangaki omama abazizwa ngendlela efanayo. Ngakho-ke, ungazizwa uxakile uma ezikhathini ezingaphezu kwesisodwa uzithola usho ngaphakathi kuwe ukuthi, Ngiyazithanda izingane zami kodwa kwesinye isikhathi ziyangilahla.
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Inkinga enkulu ngalokhu kuphelelwa yithemba ukuthi ingahle iphenduke ukukhungatheka futhi ichithe lowo muzwa ezinganeni. Lapho kuvela wonke lowo muzwa ongemuhle, izingane zisusa amagama amabi, ukushukuma komzimba okuphuthumayo kanye nemvelo embi abangase bangayiqondi. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile yenza ukubekezela nokuqonda kulezi zingane ukuthi cishe abaqondi ukuthi kungani uzizwa ngale ndlela.
Uzwa sengathi izingane zakho ziphelelwe yithemba kuyinto ejwayelekile, kepha akufanele uvumele lowo muzwa uhumushe ube ebudlelwaneni obubi nezingane zakho. Impilo yabantu abadala iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, into okuthi ngesinye isikhathi bayozihlalela kepha bengakulungeli ukuyiqonda lapho bebancane. Ngakho khumbula ukuthatha umoya ojulile lapho uzizwa sengathi ngeke usakwazi ukuwuthatha.
Phuma uyozijabulisa nezingane zakho, epaki niyodlala futhi nijabulele isikhathi somndeni. Isikhathi esiningi, ukuphelelwa yithemba kuza njengokuqongelelwa kwezinto eziningi futhi nokuziphatha kwezingane akuyona nje into engeziwe. Ukushintsha kwenkundla kuzokusiza uzizwe ukhululekile ngokwengeziwe, khohlwa okuholele ekutheni uzizwe ukhungathekile.
Futhi khumbula, ukuthola isikhathi sakho kubalulekile. Ukunakekela impilo yomuntu siqu, eyomzimba nengokwengqondo kuyisihluthulelo sokujabulela ukuba ngumama ogcwele nenjabulo. Thanda izingane zakho, jabulela impilo yomndeni wakho kodwa ungakhohlwa izidingo zakho.