Esikhathini esithile esidlule, kwakukhona ingane okwakuthi kubo njalo ebusuku umama nomama baxoxe izindaba zemilingo. Amaphupho akhe ambozwe ngama-fairies, ama-elves nama-elves abamphelezela ezenzakalweni eziningi ngenkathi elele. Lapho evuka, umfana wamomotheka ekhumbula ukuxhaphaza okwakuphilwe phakathi nobusuku, elangazelela usuku ukuba luphele ukuhlanganyela leso sikhathi esikhethekile noMama noBaba futhi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umfana wakhula futhi enothando lokufunda ukuthi esemncane kakhulu ayekujabulele nabazali bakhe. Lezo zikhathi ziye zahlala njalo enhliziyweni yakhe Futhi, namuhla, uyaqhubeka nokuphila okuhle okumnandi njalo ebusuku nezingane zakhe.
Akungabazeki ukuthi uthando lokufunda lungesinye sezipho ezibaluleke kakhulu esingazinika izingane zethu. Ngayo sithola ulwazi, sithuthukise ukucabanga, sithuthukise ukuqonda kwethu futhi sandise amagama ethu. Bonke omama nobaba bafuna izingane zethu zikuthande ukufunda, ngoba siyazazi izinzuzo ezibandakanya lokhu. Futhi iyiphi indlela engcono yokukhuthaza lo mkhuba ukwedlula ukujabulela umzuzu wokufunda komndeni njalo ebusuku?
Izinzuzo zokufunda izindaba ezinganeni zakho ebusuku
Yabelana nesikhathi esithile nomndeni
Usuku lwethu usuku nosuku kuvame ukugcwala amashejuli, ukushesha nokucindezeleka. Izingane zethu zivame ukuchitha amahora amaningi ngaphandle kwethu. Noma sinabo, izibopho nemikhuba yansuku zonke kusho ukuthi asibaniki isikhathi sekhwalithi. Ukufunda indaba ngaphambi kokulala kuyasivumela ukujabulela isikhashana ukusondelana nokuxhumana njengomndeni.
Qinisa isibopho
Ukufunda indaba njalo ebusuku kukhiqiza inqubo ekhethekile eyenza lowo mzuzu ulindwe ngabomvu. Njengabantu abadala, kaningi asinaso isikhathi esingathanda ukuba nezingane zethu. Ngakho-ke, lokho okuncane kokufunda komndeni kuyisikhathi esihle sokwenza kanjalo kuqinisa isibopho kanye nobumbano nezingane zethu.
Uthando lokufunda luyakhuthazwa
Izingane zethu ziyisibuko sethu. Ayikho imfundiso enkulu kunaleyo esikunikeza yona ngesibonelo sethu. Uma sifuna bakuthande ukufunda, kufanele siqale ngokudlulisa lolo thando kubo. Futhi iyiphi indlela engcono yokwenza ngaphandle kokuyiguqula ibe yinto ejabulisayo nejabulisayo? Ngezindaba nangesandla sethu, izingane zizofunda ukuzizwa zifunda njengomzuzu okhuthazayo nojabulisayo.
Thuthukisa umcabango nobuciko
Indaba i iwindi livulekele imicabango eminingi, imizwa noma ezinye iziphetho. Ngokufunda, ingane yakha isithombe esingokwengqondo ngamasimu, izimo, imizwa noma ukubukeka kwabalingiswa, inikeze amandla emcabangweni wayo ngokukhululeka.
Ukunakwa nokukhumbula kuyathuthukiswa
Ukuba sendaweni ekhululekile nengaphazamiseki, ingane igxila kukho konke ekuthuthukisweni kwendaba nasekukhumbuleni ukuxhashazwa kwabalingiswa bayo. Ukugxila kwakho nenkumbulo yakho kanjalo kuzoqiniswa.
Badlulisa amanani
Ezindabeni, izingane zifunda ukukhomba kalula iqhawe, isikhohlakali, noma isimilo esingafanele. Futhi futhi Amanani afana nobungani, ubumbano, ukubekezela noma ukuphana kuyasetshenzelwa.
Isiza ukuphumula nokulala kangcono
Indaba ekhulunywa ngezwi eliphansi, lalela umama noma ubaba futhi uzizwe besondele, ukukhanya okuncane,…. Konke lokhu kukulethela ukuphepha nokunethezeka enganeni eyisiza ukuba izizwe ikhululeke kakhudlwana nokuba nokulala okumnandi ngokwengeziwe.
Thuthukisa ukuqonda, ukuxhumana kanye nesilulumagama
Ngokufunda ingane ifunda amagama amasha nezinkulumo. Ilukuluku lakho lizovuswa futhi uzofunda ukuzibuza imibuzo bese ufuna izimpendulo. Ngale ndlela kwandisa ulwazimagama lwakho futhi kuthuthukisa amakhono akho okuxhumana nawokuqonda.
Basize bazazi kangcono
Izingane zivame ukuzibandakanya nabalingiswa nezimo ezindabeni esibatshela zona. Kwesinye isikhathi bazokhomba ngokuxhaphaza kweqhawe, okuzosiza ekuthuthukiseni ukuzethemba kwabo. Kepha kwezinye izikhathi bangakhomba nabalingiswa abaveza imizwa engamukeleki emphakathini, njengomona noma intukuthelo. Ngakho-ke, ingane izokuqonda ukuthi akuyena kuphela ohlangabezana nale mizwa futhi uzofunda ukuzemukela ngezibani zakhe nangezithunzi zakhe.
Ngakho konke lokhu nokunye okuningi, ungakhohlwa ukubeka isikhashana ebusuku ukuze ufunde indaba ezinganeni zakho. Ngeke nje ugcwalise izimpilo zabo ngomlingo nokuzijabulisa, kepha uzobe utshala imali ekufundeni kwabo futhi ukhuthaza uthando lokufunda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lowo mzuzu wokusondelana nokukhethekile nomama nobaba kuzoba yisikhumbuzo abazosigcina impilo yabo yonke.
Sikufisela usuku oluhle lwezincwadi!