Sivame ukucasha ezinganeni ukuze zingasiboni sikhala noma sihlupheka. Sicabanga ukuthi sibenzela umusa ukuze bangasiboni sidabukile ngakho-ke kungadingeki ukuthi sibachaze. Ake ngikutshele ukuthi yinie kuyazuzisa ukufihla imizwa yethu ezinganeni kokubili kwabo nabazali .. Manje sichaza ukuthi kungani.
Kungani sifihlela izingane imizwa engemihle?
Mhlawumbe ngokufuna ubavikele ezinkingeni zabantu abadala noma ekuhlukumezekeni, senza noma sifihle izinyembezi zethu phambi kwezingane. Ukudabuka kungenye yemizwa "engemihle" esivame ukuyifihla. Ngithi okungekuhle kuzingcaphuno ngoba akuyona imizwa emibi kepha ukudabuka kweza ngendlela engeyiyo, yingakho kwahlukaniswa. Ukudabuka kunomsebenzi wakho njengayo yonke eminye imizwa.
Yini esiyicasulayo ngokufihlela izingane imizwa yethu?
Lokho esikufundisa izingane ngokucindezela imizwa yethu, nokukhombisa ubuso obujabulile lapho empeleni sidabukile, yilokho nje: sibafundisa ukucindezela imizwa futhi bangazi ukuthi bangayilawula kanjani. Sibaphuca ubuhlakani obungokomzwelo obudingekayo ukuze babhekane nobunzima bempilo futhi sizobe sibakhombisa impilo engeyona eyeqiniso lapho kukhona injabulo kuphela.
Uma ingane ibona ukuthi uyise noma unina udabukile kodwa ifihle, nayo izofunda ukwenza okufanayo. Fihla imizwa yakho ukuze uzivikele wena nabanye, futhi ukukholelwa ukuthi ukudabuka kuzohamba ngokwakho. Lapho okuwukuphela kwento oyizuzayo kukhawulela ukukhula kwakho ngokomzwelo ukukulawula, ngoba ukudabuka kunomsebenzi futhi uma kungalawulwa kahle kuzohlala lapho ngaphakathi kuwe futhi kuzovela ngesimo sezimpawu zomzimba. Ngeke babhekane nokudabuka kepha bazokufihlela.
Lokhu futhi kunemiphumela kulowo okufihlayo. Ngokucindezela imizwa emibi nokwenza sengathi asilungile, sifihla okuthile okufanele kuvele. Ngokwenza lokhu sizozizwa sibi kakhulu kunokuzwa umuzwa uqobo. Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, akukho okuhle kuwe noma ezinganeni zakho ukuthi ufihle imizwa yakho phambi kwazo.
Umsebenzi wosizi
Njengoba sibonile ngaphambili, yonke imizwa inomsebenzi wayo, nokudabuka bekungeke kube kuncane. Umsebenzi wawo ikakhulukazi uguquguqukayo, insiza abantu okufanele babhekane nayo nezimo ezinzima. Ake sibheke ukuthi imiphi imisebenzi yosizi enayo:
- Ukudabuka Kusenza sicabange nokubuza uhlelo lwethu lwezinkolelo, ukuziguqula ezinye zivumelane kakhulu.
- Isivumela ukubeka wonke amandla ethu kithi, incamela ukuzijwayeza nokuzivikela. Kusenza sikwazi ukulalelana.
- Thuthukisa ubudlelwano nabanye, ngoba ukudabuka kwenza abasondelene nawe banake kakhulu. Khuthaza ukuziphatha okuwusizo.
- Izimpawu ezibonakalayo zosizi bathumela imininingwane kwabanye ukuthi asiphilile.
Imfundo engokomzwelo
Ukufundisa izingane zethu imfundo engokomzwelo kufanele sibhekane nokudabuka. Bafundise ukuthi sonke siyayizwa imizwa, nokuthi asinalutho olungalungile ngokuzizwa, nokuthi banomsebenzi nokuthi uma bewufeza bazonyamalala.
Izingane zizohlangabezana nezimo ezinhle nezimbi, futhi kufanele zazi ukuthi zingabhekana kanjani nazo ngendlela efanayo. Kumele bafunde ukuthi ubunzima yingxenye yempilo nokufunda.
Ngakho-ke masizivumele sizwe imizwa yethu emele ubuntu bethu. Masiqede ukubalwa kwabantu okufanele umphakathi ukuveze imizwa emibi ngemishwana ejwayelekile: "Ungakhali", "abafana abakhulu abakhali", "ukukhala kubuthakathaka" ... ake sizwe futhi sivumele imizwa yethu yenze umsebenzi wayo ihambe. Uma kungenjalo, zizozifaka ngaphakathi kithi ziqhume ngendlela embi kakhulu. Mazigele ziqhubeke nendlela yazo. Ukuthi lesi sizukulwane esisha sezingane sibona imizwa njengento ejwayelekile, futhi sizobasindisa ekuhluphekeni okuningi.
Ngoba khumbula ... ngokufihla imizwa yethu sizilimaza thina nabanye.