Kuthiwani uma ingane yakho ingahlanganyeli emisebenzini yasekhaya? Uyamjezisa, umthethise usukwelinye igumbi, ugcina usenza umsebenzi wesikole? Ezimweni ezahlukahlukene sikunikeze izeluleko ukuze izingane zakho zibambisane emsebenzini wasendlini, futhi sikutshele ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani kubo, nasesilinganisweni somndeni uqobo, ukuthi benze njalo. Kodwa-ke, kunezikhathi lapho lokhu kungenzeki, futhi sifuna ukukucebisa ukuthi wenzeni ngaleso sikhathi.
I- kanye ne- intsha ibonakala iyona engayinaki le misebenzi kakhulu. Kepha lesi simo sengqondo singasiza namanye amalungu omndeni ukuthi anganikeli, futhi lapho kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukukholisa izingane zakho ukuthi zenze kanjalo.
Amasu engane yakho ukuthi azibandakanye ekunakekeleni ikhaya
Ngokwe-OECD, i-Organisation for Economic Cooperation and Development, eSpain abesilisa bachitha imizuzu engu-105 engaphansi ngosuku kunabesifazane ekwenzeni umsebenzi wasekhaya nokunakekela umndeni. Ingabe Ukungalingani kudlulela nakwamanye amalungu omndeni nasekucabangeni komfana noma kwentombazane.
Elinye lamasu elisebenza ukuze ngamunye wazi okufanele ukwenze Ukusabalalisa imisebenzi yasendlini kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni. Ilokho kuphela. Ukulengisa ikhalenda nokuyigcina ibukeka kuhlale kusebenza, akekho noyedwa ozokwazi ukungayenzi ingxenye yakhe. Ukusabalalisa le misebenzi ungayenza masonto onke, ngezikhathi ezithile noma njalo nika umsebenzi ofanayo kumuntu ophethe.
Ngokufanelekile, wonke umuntu kufanele akhethe, kepha uma kungenjalo, kuzodingeka uzinikeze imisebenzi ngokwakho. Into yokuqala enconywayo yile leyo yimisebenzi ezintweni zabo, ngisho nabancane bangasiza. Kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulume nezingane zakho uchaze ukuthi uneminye imisebenzi ngaphandle kwekhaya.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma bengabandakanyeki emisebenzini?
Kwesinye isikhathi, njengomama, sithatha umthwalo wokwenza izinto ngokwethu, Yebo, ukuqeda ngaphambili, hhayi ukuba nezinto ezicasulayo, noma ngoba nje sicabanga ukuthi kuyingxenye yomsebenzi wethu. Ukufaka ingane emisebenzini yasekhaya kubalulekile ukwazi izinga lokuvuthwa kwayo, uma siyicela imisebenzi engakwazi ukuyenza, izokwehluleka, uma kwenzeka bekwenza futhi bephumelela, sizobe sinakekela ukuzethemba kwabo.
Kumele sibekezele. Kumele ubafundise ukwenza izinto ngqo. Ukwenza amaphutha kuyingxenye yokufunda. Kubalulekile ukuthi simqondise ngaphandle kokumemeza noma ukusola. Noma ikuphi kusengaphambili kufanele kube nokuqiniswa okuhle, ngokwesibonelo, ungathi, Uyabona? Manje njengoba sesiqoqene sonke sesingahamba siye ekuhambeni. Siyabonga ngokusiza.
Uma ungawenzanga umsebenzi wakho wesikole, ungahle ubone lokho isimo sabo sengqondo sinemiphumela emibi. Isibonelo, ihembe lakho ngeke lihlanzeke, uma ungalifakanga kubhasikidi wezimpahla, ngeke ulithole ithoyizi lakho olithandayo uma lisalaliswe ngaphansi kosofa, noma ikhishi lizonuka kabi uma ungazange ulahle udoti .
Intsha engazinakekeli izinto emakhaya
Ubusha buchaza ukuhlubuka, futhi enye indlela yokubonisa lokhu ngokungayenzi imisebenzi yasekhaya oyabelwe. Le misebenzi cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi ihlobene negumbi lakho, noma izingubo zakho, ngakho-ke osemusha ukholelwa ekutheni kungenzeka angazenzi ngoba akunamphumela kwabanye.
Iseluleko esikunikeza sona, futhi sicabanga ukuthi sihlakaniphe kakhulu, akukhona ukuthi sibaphoqe ukuthi benze okuthile ngezikhathi ezithile. Kungcono bavumelane nabo, mabanqume ukuthi bafuna ukukwenza nini, wendlala umbhede ngemuva kokubuya esikoleni, hlanza kanye ngesonto, isibonelo. Futhi sibopha izandla zethu ngemuva kwethu futhi singakwenzi.
Uma bephula izwi labo, kungcono ukuthi ungathukutheli bese ulwa. Esikhundleni sokubajezisa kusebenza ngempumelelo enkulu ukuyeka ukwenza into emlimaza ngqo. Isibonelo, ukungavuseleli iselula yakhe, noma ukuwasha lelo shati afuna ukuligqoka ukuphuma nabangane bakhe.
Futhi uma lezi zeluleko zingakusizi ekwenzeni izingane zakho zithathe uhlangothi emisebenzini yasekhaya, unga sebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza nobuchwepheshe obusha ukuzikhuthaza. Kunezicelo eziningi ezizokusiza uhlele, sincoma abathathu be-Merge- Couple Organiser, i-OurHome, noma i-Habitica, kufanele uvumelane nezimo futhi uzibandakanye!